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發表於 05-3-17 21:29 |只看該作者

Re: 請一起跟我走過在紐約黑暗無助的日子

Makusma,
Amanda都係Gymboree fans, 佢上年9月已入會, 一蓋眼已半年.... 方便在我哋返香港同去另外60個國家, Amanda可以照樣返gymboree, 冇阻隔, 佢個system好完善...
以前喺香港, 政府,私家都做過, 我都覺97後啲人嘅質素每況愈下, 喺US, 喺冇complaint架, 因為佢哋一個唔alright就sue你一千幾百萬美金... 好變態架.....

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發表於 05-3-17 21:40 |只看該作者

Re: 請一起跟我走過在紐約黑暗無助的日子

小詠,
Amanda係工人湊, 工人係唐人.
老公邊我哋只同6姑姐有來往, 佢一家五口(因為老公係越南華僑)都俾成個家"jok"針對, 我哋處境...好似, 而佢同我都佢profession... 佢係Accountant, 我係姑娘仔... 大家同一channel...(有修養嘛)...只有佢會一兩個月就撥個輪揾我哋一家三口gathering lor..
你下一次大肚一定要好好坐月呢

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發表於 05-3-17 21:51 |只看該作者

Re: 請一起跟我走過在紐約黑暗無助的日子

angelo, monogram, Icycream,
多謝各位關心, 我產後抑鬱差唔多一年...好在最後我老公揾到呢個website, 又買手寫板俾我, 所以可以喺喥舒發以往嘅屈結.... 我已經好番架喇, 我面前條路好長好長, 所以唔可以再有閃失呢..
有你哋每一個人嘅支持, 我已經爬番起身喇...我會更愛惜我嘅生命同愛惜所有關心愛護我嘅人....

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發表於 05-3-18 02:01 |只看該作者

Re: 請一起跟我走過在紐約黑暗無助的日子

Nillie_Mami,
Remember tell your daughter about your story. As you know, kid leave home when they are eighteen so Amanda must love u and take care of you. I told my mom about your story and she said those are bitch. She said that we made decision quick to move out otherwise I will have the same situation. So why u still stay in NY, I don't hink it's a good place for kid to grow up.

Pls chek your email.

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Soleil

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發表於 05-3-18 04:01 |只看該作者

Re: 請一起跟我走過在紐約黑暗無助的日子

Nillie_Mami,
Thank you for your suggestion. I'll try to work on my boy. Hope he'll listen.
Yes, I'm lucky that I don't live with my mother-in-law in HK. Because she doesn't like little children, it's a good excuse for both of us to avoid seeing each other that often. She always play majoh and can sit for days without any complains, but just after taking care my boy for 5 mim., she said that her back's hurt and ask me to keep my boy away from her. No wonder my father-in-law divorced her when my hubby's just a young boy. By the way, I think you should fly back to HK to celebrate your dad's birthday. Because, you and Amanda are the greatest gift for his birthday. Good luck!

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發表於 05-3-18 04:53 |只看該作者

Re: 請一起跟我走過在紐約黑暗無助的日子

Makusma,
I never dreamt that I can find someone in BK who had lived in the same city as I was. How long have you lived in Montreal and HK? Which school have you attended in Montreal? I just visited your boy's photo album to see if you're someone that I know. Because Chinese community's so small that we all know each other in a way or two. You're right about having home sick, especially in Chinese New Year. I really missed my family in Montreal. I have no close relative in HK. All my dad and mom's side's family have immigrated overseas. Lots in USA (cheapest relatives). Just don't know why they've turned to be so selfish and have discrimination over other country's chinese people. Haven't they felt that westerners are also discriminating them????
My boy's also 2yrs and 4 months old. I didn't send him to nursery because I'm afraid taking care of him when he's sick. I know this is unavoidable once he starts school. But a year less of sickness is a year gained. He'll be 2 yrs and 8 months old this Sept, and will start 1/2 day K1 in Ling Leung Ma On Shan. I'm sure to send him back to Canada for junior high. Because the coverage of the school system in HK is not enough for a child to explore. But, learning to read and write good chinese is manditory for him now a day. Where would you place your boy for K1? Which private hospital in hk are you working in? I gave birth to my boy at Union hospital, and I didn't complain even there's something that wasn't in the way that I wanted

Because, overall they did ok!

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發表於 05-3-18 05:59 |只看該作者

請一起跟我走過在紐約黑暗無助的日子

Rainbowbb,
我會, 但會避重就輕, 佢要知道嘅係我有教養, 唔同佢哋計效, 但Amanda一定要識保護自己.
留喺newyork, 因為人工高咯.... 儲夠錢先走....

P.S. Check Your emai... Urgent

rainbowbb 寫道:
Nillie_Mami,
Remember tell your daughter about your story. As you know, kid leave home when they are eighteen so Amanda must love u and take care of you. I told my mom about your story and she said those are bitch. She said that we made decision quick to move out otherwise I will have the same situation. So why u still stay in NY, I don't hink it's a good place for kid to grow up.

Pls chek your email.

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發表於 05-3-18 07:03 |只看該作者

Re: 請一起跟我走過在紐約黑暗無助的日子

Soleil,
我已'應成'爸爸, 我哋一家3口年尾一定同佢做60大壽, 佢好錫Amanda, Amanda又好'痴'佢...
哈!我99一知我BB係女, 就話腰骨痛, 到我而家一亳子家用都唔俾佢(以前佢問我哋攞開3,400美金一個月), 我寧願用嚟請工人同留返啲錢嚟返香港同澳洲.... 激死佢!!!而家成日問我幾時返澳洲, 叫我帶佢去玩,佢自已出錢--->{超}..佢啲錢係喺邊度嚟架....?咪又係我啲錢, 同佢去旅行,我咪要做佢賓妹, 佢都儍得好勻'全'.... 仲話Amanda返pre-school俾返佢湊, 1,800美金一個月,一至五, 每日3.5小時, 佢都有啲'忽忽'地.... 係我寧願Amanda返after school, 又有工人湊, 駛乜俾錢佢嚟'貼錢買難受'.....佢真係'忽'上腦..我請工人都係一千...慳唔知幾多...

:mrgreen:

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發表於 05-3-18 09:53 |只看該作者

Re: 請一起跟我走過在紐約黑暗無助的日子

Nillie Mami,

我都係咁話, 既然奶奶係一個咁無教養既人, 比個囡囡佢揍, 只會教壞囡囡, 唔想囡囡無前途, 一於同奶奶疏遠啦。
我都係架, 因為奶奶佢成日不停鬧人, 好大脾氣, 仲很失禮地日日賭錢, 打牌就由早打到半夜, 我唔想個仔4歲就打牌, 好容易第日變做病態賭徒架。我有一次見到奶奶教個親戚既小朋友數番同做牌,我就好嬲於是即時同佢講唔可以, 點知佢話: 唔識打牌個d人(我唔識打既, "個d人"係指我)無用架!

我姑仔個囡囡比我奶奶揍大, 今年12歲, 已識約朋友回家打牌, 我認為係奶奶一手做成, 但佢認為無問題, 仲話好叻女添....
姑仔就好唔開心, 因囡囡跟o左奶奶既壞習慣, 鬧人,無禮貌, 棟高隻腳食飯, 粗魯.....想帶走囡囡唔再比奶奶揍, 但心知一切太遲, 性格已定形......

所有遇見，皆有因果
要是每個人都懂你，那你得有多平凡

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發表於 05-3-18 09:55 |只看該作者

Re: 請一起跟我走過在紐約黑暗無助的日子

Soleil,
我在montreal住左>10yrs, 果度華人社會好細, 我地有見過面都唔奇, 我係讀concordia架. 真係講你都唔信, 我就係在union hospital做架, makus亦係果度出世. 我地個仔差唔多大, 會唔會住院時見過呢? 我10/12/2002 – 13/12/2002期間住院, 你呢? Makus而家在keenmind讀pre-nursery, 返左學真係易病左, 就last week佢先至入左院, 係發燒抽筋, 擔心c我. 今年9月佢會轉去讀st catherine, 我都係想佢先學好中文, 到grade 6先返canada讀書.

Nilli mami,
你99咁對你, 仲好意思叫你同佢去旅行? 真係唔要臉?
而家amanda係最好玩, 帶佢返hk氹下你daddy開心. 我都plan緊summer返canada探daddy mami.

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發表於 05-3-18 11:50 |只看該作者

Re: 請一起跟我走過在紐約黑暗無助的日子

Makusma,
我99有幾厚顏無恥, 我已施空見慣....
我會年尾同爸爸開開心心做生日呢!
小詠,
我99一樣, 好鐘意打麻雀... 但佢就成日想我同佢打...好難... 我識都唔打, 至憎賭錢, 我melbourne住咁多年打麻雀係習數only....唔講真錢架. 而且係大節(好似寒假)...同我大肚時...
唉! 我替你姑仔難受... 我99鐘意Amanda, 因為佢細,又唔駛佢凑又"啖啖"肉...但我最多一個月俾佢哋見一次, 有時一次都唔俾, 我老公入佢屋攞信, 我同Amanda喺車度都唔入屋架...費事, 99屋企啲塵成尺厚, 我怕Amanda有Hay fever 好似我咁.

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Monogram

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發表於 05-3-18 12:22 |只看該作者

Re: 請一起跟我走過在紐約黑暗無助的日子

Nillie_Mami,
唔好客氣﹗我都唔識去安慰你﹗但你的堅強真係感動我﹗我都覺得你可以將你的故事對個女講，讓佢更加明白你。有你的適心照顧，我相信佢大個一定會好孝順你。而家就係開開心心咁照顧個女同自己身體，靚靚咁返去同爹地慶祝60大壽，等佢老人家高高興興。繼續祝福你。

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發表於 05-3-18 13:24 |只看該作者

Re: 請一起跟我走過在紐約黑暗無助的日子

Monogram,
一時失守, click錯URL...多謝提醒我呢...
以下專欄嘅URL 已更新
便溺訓練係我未有手寫板前嘅專欄, 我已盡力寫中文版... 仲有一篇未寫完...係便便片篇...聽日應該ok架喇, 有需要就睇住英文先啦...
Amanda只錫爸爸, 佢好怕我, 因為佢知我好嚴....
希望佢大個唔好憎咗我就好開心lu

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Monogram

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發表於 05-3-18 14:28 |只看該作者

Re: 請一起跟我走過在紐約黑暗無助的日子

Nillie_Mami,
多謝晒你呀﹗無問題，我會睇住英文版先﹗

我都係一個好嚴的媽咪黎嫁，我個b都好清楚嫁，不過就唔算好怕我。:mrgreen:

放心，Amenda大個一定明白你的好意既。

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發表於 05-3-19 00:09 |只看該作者

Re: 請一起跟我走過在紐約黑暗無助的日子

monogram,
唔好意Ｃ, 不過今曰下晝就會寫完中文版...
我都知...中文版係親切D..

唉...Amanda有時都會錫我嘅...當爸爸唔喺度咯... 唉!..全職媽咪喺Amanda心目中份量係低D架喇... 爸爸永遠係最好! :evil:

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Mone

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發表於 05-3-19 18:54 |只看該作者

Re: 請一起跟我走過在紐約黑暗無助的日子

Nillie_Mami,

睇完你嘅 messages 都有點眼濕濕, 我只係想講一句, 全世界嘅人對你唔好都唔緊要, 只要你對自己好就夠了, 因為咁樣你囡囡先會有人愛錫佢架!!

我老公都係黎自 Melbourne 架, 佢細細個時都係住係 Bundoora, 後來搬咗去 Watsonia!! 不過我哋而家住响香港, 諗住過多十年先會番澳洲住, 到時應該會住 QLD 卦!!

你要努力呀!! 珍惜自己同你己擁有嘅所有呀!! 相信你最因難嘅時刻經己過去, 祝你以後生活愉快!!

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發表於 05-3-19 22:28 |只看該作者

Re: 請一起跟我走過在紐約黑暗無助的日子

Mone,
我會架喇, 有你哋嘅支持, 我人生充滿意義!!!!!!
我大約10年後都會搬番澳洲住, 不過住番melbourne....自已地頭嘛! 我哋可以買間屋大啲, 可以等你哋冬天落嚟去Mt. Bulla滑雪時寄住喎!!!!呵呵!!
嘩小B就出世啦, 佢收到baby shower gift 未?
如果你鐘意...只要話我知係仔定女, 我鈎啲小驚喜俾佢啦

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