I think if your husband can support family without too much pressure, really should let your body rest with good health before you plan to hv bb n don't work. My previous job got tones pressure n I got miscarriage at fourth month. I was at 33 at that moment so after that I quit n my health really improved a lot cos without work pressure, really a big difference. I then put the bb plan as easy one n always told myself if bb wants to come, I would hv so no pressure, n 7 months later I got preg again n my b is now 4 mths la.....
So add oil!!! If without job u feel boring, try to get something you like to do or do more exercises, n get your body condition good for your bb!!!