Re: 單親媽媽
Can anyone give me some suggestions for my complex situation ? I am so puzzle about my dilemma. I cannot tell all the truths to my friends / family.
So sorry I am not good at typing Chinese characters……
I have been with my husband for 10 years since 1995. My only son is now 4.5 years old. When he was 8 months old (2003), my husband left home because my relationship was too worse due to many family problems that led to non-stop arguments and fighting.
During the 6-month period he left, he seldom visits my son but he still loves his son so much. After the period, in view of my son, I agreed to forgive him provided with some agreed conditions. He accepted and returned home. After he returned home, we found that our relationship can no longer recovered like before but we still bear each other because of my son.
Unfortunately, some time later I found that he had another woman and had drugs addicts starting from that 6-month period. He said it was because he was in such pain that he used drugs to help himself.
I was really angry and unacceptable and I cried and cried since then. Eventually I proceed to divorce even he is not willing to. After the divorce application submitted, he tried his very best to get rid of both the woman and the drugs in view of my son. As far as I know, the woman had been gone but the drugs situation is still unstable.
Also, although we try to live with each other again but we found that we can no longer bear each other because of many previous hurts. Now we usually meet once a week for a gathering with son. We had no actual spouse relationship for years. Both of us do not like this kind of relationship but because we both want to maintain a relatively complete family for my son and do not want my son to have divorced parents. However, our gathering usually ends up with unhappiness.
This event always make me depressed if I think of it and I do not know what should I do next…. I am not sure whether I should go ahead for divorce or not.
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