b_mama 寫道:
Hello everyone,
I'm a new mom and would like to get some advices. My baby is 2.5 weeks old and he is already quite good. He's able to sleep 2-3 hours at each nap time during the day and usually around 2 lots of 4 hours at night. I often have to wake him for a feed. I would like him to sleep for 10-12 hours at night, but find it hard to do so as he already sleeps so much during the day. We try to have longer play time with him during the day but he gets tired quite quickly. Can you offer some advice?
His day time pattern is usually
1) sleep for 2-3 hours
2) breastfeed for 30-40 mins
3) play for 20-30 mins
4) sleep again
My quesionts are:-
1) How can we extend his play time? We talk to him, put him on his play gym, play music.
2) We hold him during his play time a lot, I'm worried that he will get used to cuddling and then demand to be cuddled to sleep. Is it okay to cuddle him during play time?
3) How do you keep your baby awake for so long during the day?
Thanks.
jcryan 寫道:
my bb is almost 6 wks now, she can sleep on her own bed in mid night time, but can't sleep on her own bed during day time, she just sleep on our hands, no matter how long we carry her already, once we put her down on her own bed, she will wake up immediately (sometimes better few minutes later) and cry. Carry her then she will sleep again. Do anyone can help to give me some advice ? I've try the suggested method on 1st page but fail. I need to go back work, my maid can't hold her all day long as I've a son as well.
cherrieyan 寫道:
My bb just 2 months old, I tried Tracy's method which put bb on her own bed while bb is sleepy, I success for 3 days but then don't know why, my bb refuse to sleep by her own. Once I put her down, she cry and cry untill I carry her. want to ask mama here:
1. Is 2 months too young to train sleeping pattern?
2. I heard some mami will let bb cry for over 30 mins (of course will come to calm bb every 5 mins), is it too long? everytime I just try about 5-10mins. and then I give up. coz I'm afraid bb cry will absorb a lot of "wind" and then easy to 嘔奶 !! I am so scare, becoz she is very thin, untill now she only drinks ~ 24oz milk per day, I'm afraid she doesn't get enough milk and will get worse if she 嘔.
3. my bb keeps crying in the late afternoon, crying for few hours!! any idea why does she cry? I have already tried hard to distinguish bb different sound of cry, and make sure not becoz of hungry/changes. If bb is overtired or 肚風, will they cry for so long? my bb cry sound like " wa---------wa---------wa--------" and then a sound from throat, repeat and repeat...
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ah-ta 寫道:
如果唔理bb由他喊, 但係他喊到無晒聲,好似呼吸唔到咁應唔應該即係抱呢?抱左又會唔會無用呢?
同埋我想問,放他係床,他不斷郁我點知他係就sleep定係有風呢?
如果他一飲完奶就sleep (掃風時, 仲未掃到風),咁應唔應該放落床呢?
ah-ta 寫道:
多謝你地的回覆,昨晚我想試下,在bb飲完奶掃完風之後見他脈定定就放他落床,點知隅左陣就喊,由初初細細聲(我就只係同他講野同拍他安撫他),到他喊到大聲就抱起他,拍下他...到他定左ok就再放他落床,點知無耐就喊,遢試左2次,第2次抱住他仲喊得好勁同好耐,好似話我唔理他咁...我都唔知點...
我真係好頭痛,因為我個b飲奶份量,時間都唔定,唔知係唔係開始時工人見他夜晚喊就俾奶他所以慣左,而家夜晚係要喊一陣(好似9:30pm飲完4安半到11:00又喊,唔係其他原因,只要俾他飲奶就ok,之後工人搖下他就可sleep,但要抱住sleep...
我覺得而家好似幾個問題一齊,我都唔知係train他飲奶方面先定sleeping habit先.....