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Re: 1999 年開心媽咪part 2

Yuetmama
Thank you!佢英文都是佢同佢中文程度的4yrs
你可以試下好好利用你的菲傭, 規定她每天要讀故事書給你女女聽, 你女女聽得多便會進步, 不過你要花時間去圖書館, 你可選d 每頁只有1-2句的

或者你教佢星期日去了邊度街, 晚上工人姐姐回來, 你用英文同佢講一次, 佢不懂的字你先教佢一次, 習慣下佢有時會同個工人傾下計.

原來你地k1 已教了憫農詩中文及普通話, 真犀利.

好呀!晒了相post 上來比你們來, 你女學校是否有 halloween.

心心媽
你同心心講你大個女吃飯要快d 否則食物凍了吃在肚是冇益, 也很浪費時間, 我地吃快d 可以同你講多2個故事or 玩多2個game
你要狠心d 放個計時器在桌上20分鐘吃不完就收野

twins 媽咪
傾計當然是答下dad,物都講下, 如果個個講完1句就包號, 邊有禁多話題, 我見之前個topic 成日冇人發表, 我咪講多d 口水.
我都係開了個word 得閒打d 得閒打d , save 了, 才post 出去, 便不會辛苦打完, 不知發生了什麼事又冇晒, 費事再去發表, 我都是以前試得太多了

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Re: 1999 年開心媽咪part 2

心心媽寫道:
yuetmama

我個女每晚10:00至10:30上床,早上7:00起床,午睡1.5至2.5個鐘. 我要求她在下午要做完所有功課,我放工回家幫佢睇睇有沒有做漏.

我想請教有麥方法令個女食飯食快d,她晚晚由七點食到九點呀!足足2個鐘,攪到無時間溫書或睇書!!

心心媽,

My girl attends full day nursery ga, she will only arrive home at 6pm, then
6:00 - 7:00 rest (or bathing) & play
7:00 - 7:30 dinner
7:30 - 8:00 relax
8:00 - 8:30 doing homework & fruit time
8:30 - 9:00 playtime
9:00 - 9:20 piano practice/ playtime
9:20 - 9:30 tidy up
9:30 - 10:00 bathing/taking milk
10:00 - 10:10 brush teeth/clean face
10:10 - 10:20 read bible & story book

Her schedule is pretty tight. If there is any delay, the piano practice or story time will be cut. :-(

Don't say 請教 la.....just share my experience. My hubby always scolded my girl & requested her to take dinner properly before (no playing/TV) but seemed no use. But last time, she suddenly finished her dinner quickly, I wrote a memo to her teacher to appraise her good act. She treated that note as a merit & happily showed it to her teacher. Her teacher also wrote a similar note to me that day & said that my girl was very happy that day & finished the food very fast. Since then, my girl always finish her food quickly. It is the power of appraisal. I can't imagine it is so effective on my girl. Perhaps you can try to give more encouragement to yours. Otherwise, restrict the time of dinner, say 45min, no matter how much the kid eats, stop when the time is up.

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Re: 1999 年開心媽咪part 2

yinyin,

Just to let you know, my Filippino maid has gone already (refused to return after vacation in the Phillippines). Now the responsibility on teaching English rests on me. So, I need to study the oral English more now.

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Re: 1999 年開心媽咪part 2

[quote]
So 寫道:

我個仔唔

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Re: 1999 年開心媽咪part 2

No problem, I hope is good news

[quote]
So 寫道:
Vivianyip >>
唔該哂﹗等我再打去問

Vivien

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Re: 1999 年開心媽咪part 2

yuetmama
你個舊工人走了之後, 你不是再請了1個新的嗎?

你仔仔返學是全日or 半日

vivian
你小朋友考香兒小提琴, 請問他本身是否已懂基本的or 完全都不懂

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Re: 1999 年開心媽咪part 2

yinyin,

首詩最尾兩句都聽過，有d字都幾深同好少用到。我間中都有教朗朗念唐詩，佢會叫我解首詩佢聽。至於英文，佢成日問我d嘢英文叫乜，都唔知佢記得幾多。我都想教吓佢日常用語，應該點教好呢？先講英文再譯番中文比佢聽？

我之前買咗兒童快報，邊張相有你呀?

Teresa

yinyin 寫道:
Twins媽咪
請問你細女生日?名字?學校名?
細女好叻女呀!通常有家姐帶住都是叻d

yuetmama
sonia 可以對住外國人講英文, 對住中國人講中文, 因佢學校每天都有1小時由外藉老師上課,.
現在學校已是教句子, 不只是生字
每天都會同佢讀3-4本英文故事書及1本中文故事書
佢講英文比講中文叻的, 可能是我在佢英文方面投資了很多金錢及時間,

心心媽
thank you
我個女數字只有數到1-30, 你個女都好叻呀
佢不是讀名校, 不過一般九龍塘幼稚園都是深d , 因為一般父母都是打算考私校.
我建議不要買電子琴, 因會學壞手勢, 用電子琴的力度不同鋼琴, 用鋼琴會辛苦d, 你可以去琴室練or 租琴回家.

煦程媽咪
我個女今天都參加學校hollaween party, 我同事在美國買了套衫比佢, 扮紅魔鬼,有角,bra top, 長褲不過太長因此我同佢穿了條紅色短裙加長boots,手套, 尾巴, 我沒有同佢畫面, 因我怕佢會放學時變成花臉貓,我用貼指甲果d 貼紙,貼了佢面珠同額頭, 佢勝出了, 因此明天學校運動會會上台領獎.

朗媽
你仔仔真是大過仔好多.
我個女平均晚上訓9小時, 中午訓2-2.5小時

tin_tin
我都認為用遊戲形式去教小朋友佢地容易接受及會好開心

各位mami
今星期個女學校教了首中文兒歌冊都幾深,有個字,我都不懂讀要去問校長

憫農詩
鋤禾日當午
汗滴禾下土
誰知盤中飧
粒粒皆辛苦

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Re: 1999 年開心媽咪part 2

yuetmama & yinyin,

Thank you so much for your quick response.

咁多年來,我軟硬兼施,o麥辦法都試過!我試過的方法如下:

1.貼紙獎勵法
2.打
3.罵
4.定時間(她肚餓,晚上會起床要奶奶飲!!)

我想再請教,如果我set時間定1個鐘內要個女食晒飯,時間到我就收野,咁臨上床我比唔比奶她呢?

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Re: 1999 年開心媽咪part 2

tin_tin,

件衫好抵呀！！！！今朝朗朗微燒，無返學。但係放學時間返咗學校攞功課，可以同同學仔影相，朗朗劃咗花面。

Teresa

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Re: 1999 年開心媽咪part 2

係完全都不懂的,但有上樂理班,因通常要學曉基本的音樂拍子才可升級學琴、小提琴....!上年考合唱就衰佐,因無樂理根底,又唔識打拍子,希望今年好的啦,Anselm而家係香兒跳緊中國舞囉 :-P :-P
妳呢??
o繼續

yinyin 寫道:
yuetmama
你個舊工人走了之後, 你不是再請了1個新的嗎?

你仔仔返學是全日or 半日

vivian
你小朋友考香兒小提琴, 請問他本身是否已懂基本的or 完全都不懂

Vivien

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Re: 1999 年開心媽咪part 2

yuetmama 寫道:
All mami,

When will you kid go to sleep in the evening? I try to arrange my girl to sleep earlier. But it is really difficult as the schedule is too tight for dinner, doing homework, playtime, piano practice, bathing, drinking milk, reading bible & storybook..... How about yours?

yuetmama,

Long Long goes to bed at 10:30 to 11:30 pm, depends on whether his father is at home or not as he likes to play with his father very much.

In fact, what we usually do at night are watching TV, playing football or lego at home and drawing, etc. Sometimes longlong does writing himself after I bought him an execise book. He does not want me to disturb him when he is doing the execise book.

When did your daughter start learning piano??? I wonder whether Long Long is patient enough to learn piano as he is very attractive.

Teresa

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Re: 1999 年開心媽咪part 2

As above!

Vivien

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Re: 1999 年開心媽咪part 2

妳試試:
1.貼紙獎勵法(每日一個貼紙滿10個就有賞的她喜愛又唔會成日食到的食物啦!例如:ice cream、chocolate、candy.)
2.打(太多無用)
3.罵(太多無用)
4.定時間(她肚餓,晚上會起床要奶奶飲!!)(試在飲奶奶時解釋比BB知)

以上是本人日常做緊的

妳試試OK 唔OK!

心心媽寫道:
yuetmama & yinyin,

Thank you so much for your quick response.

咁多年來,我軟硬兼施,o麥辦法都試過!我試過的方法如下:

1.貼紙獎勵法
2.打
3.罵
4.定時間(她肚餓,晚上會起床要奶奶飲!!)

我想再請教,如果我set時間定1個鐘內要個女食晒飯,時間到我就收野,咁臨上床我比唔比奶她呢?

Vivien

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Re: 1999 年開心媽咪part 2

Vivianyip,

我用印仔獎勵法，儲夠十個就有小禮物，如貼紙、扭蛋、小玩具，甚至McDonald's餐。我覺得呢個方法幾好，等佢有目標，另外佢一要我買嘢，我就話"你都未儲夠印仔"，佢多數唔會扭計。

Teresa

Vivianyip 寫道:
妳試試:
1.貼紙獎勵法(每日一個貼紙滿10個就有賞的她喜愛又唔會成日食到的食物啦!例如:ice cream、chocolate、candy.)
2.打(太多無用)
3.罵(太多無用)
4.定時間(她肚餓,晚上會起床要奶奶飲!!)(試在飲奶奶時解釋比BB知)

以上是本人日常做緊的妳試試OK 唔OK!

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心心媽寫道:
yuetmama & yinyin,

Thank you so much for your quick response.

咁多年來,我軟硬兼施,o麥辦法都試過!我試過的方法如下:

1.貼紙獎勵法
2.打
3.罵
4.定時間(她肚餓,晚上會起床要奶奶飲!!)

我想再請教,如果我set時間定1個鐘內要個女食晒飯,時間到我就收野,咁臨上床我比唔比奶她呢?

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Re: 1999 年開心媽咪part 2

心心媽,

<<4.定時間(她肚餓,晚上會起床要奶奶飲!!)

我想再請教,如果我set時間定1個鐘內要個女食晒飯,時間到我就收野,咁臨上床我比唔比奶她呢?>>

Do you mean that you have no practice to give milk to your girl before sleep? If yes, tell her straightly, no milk if she feel hungry after dinner. Once you starts several times, she should know the regulation of the game & hope she can eat dinner properly & faster.

I always give time for my girl to follow. If time is up, no more excuse, stop immediately. Sometimes her action is too slow, in order to meet the same sleeping time, she has to give up the storytime (of course I don't want too). For the first several times, she cried but I re-emphasized she should follow the rule. Now, she really knows the rule of the game & no more complaint.

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Re: 1999 年開心媽咪part 2

Yuetmama >>
Hei B每日都係

親子王國已刪除閣下簽名檔內容，煩請自行檢視頭像、頭銜、暱稱，如帶有廣告或宣傳推介成份，應立即修改或刪除，否則可被封鎖戶口，謝謝合作。

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Re: 1999 年開心媽咪part 2

朗媽,

LongLong sleeps so late ah. Then when does he wait up to school?

<<Sometimes longlong does writing himself after I bought him an execise book. He does not want me to disturb him when he is doing the execise book.>> That's very good. He can focus & pay attention to do his writing.

My girl starts to learn piano since last Nov but in a very slow progress (due to SARS). I always need to encourage her to practice as she is a very active girl. I can say she is hyperactive

It is quite difficult to train her paying attention & be patient & be quiet in front of the piano. You can try to ask Longlong play piano in the TomLee when passing by & ask him whether he is interested first. It is really a long way in learning piano. Once you step in, you have to devote a lot (not only $ but also your time & your kid's time). Think it over ah!

yinyin,

I have not hired another one. Just a local helper to come to my house for cleaning & cooking 2 hrs/day. My son has just started his full day nursery. Glad that he gets adapted very fast. This morning, he even waved his hand & said goodbye with my in the schoolbus. Such a cute boy!

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Re: 1999 年開心媽咪part 2

yinyin
好心急，收Ｄ曬相。我個女學校今日都可以着扮野衫，我下午打電話返屋企，我媽媽幫個女整頭整到過哂鐘，最後要搭的士返學，唔知今日又攪咗個乜樣?

心心媽
初學未買琴，可以用一張紙將中間最常用那幾個鍵跟足琴大細畫好，比小朋友練習。我老閭是 Twins屋企得一個琴，一個彈緊、另一個就練手指位及看譜，有時出街都可比練，。

tin_tin
我教個女串字，都有用唱歌方法，我覺得比較生動，無咁悶。

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Re: 1999 年開心媽咪part 2

心心媽，

我個仔同你囡囡都你一樣，個①含住唔郁，有時喂都唔肯食，如果煮通粉，意粉就好少少啦！但係有菜，肉類果時，就要切得好碎才肯食，唔係就吞出來，死都唔肯食，4歲半只得34磅左右，佢亞妹3歲都有32磅了，佢係一名奀仔兼性格好" 敏 " ，都唔知點樣替伍增肥。可能佢還是9個多月時，我就陀住個妹妹，很少抱他也未定，加上當時菲傭亦要睇住BB女，所以好縱他，現在脾氣比較差的。

晚上他們睡覺通常11:30就睡了，第二朝早上7:15就醒了，下午3:30左右就午睡至6:30，因為我想用此段時間跟大仔功課，而晚上9:45我跟大仔說完 " 睡前話 " 後，就可跟他們玩一陣至11:00，在房內準備睡覺。所以由9月就調較這個安排。

快樂取決你主觀的心不在決定於客觀的事

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