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渣渣,

[quote]原文章由 ardnas65 於 08-1-9 23:06 發表

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我今朝已經搞掂4隻角, c fu 亦已經開始confirm 尺寸, 聽日就開始拆牆.... 好期待呀.... 3個星期!!!!

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原文章由 easybring 於 08-1-10 00:35 發表
咁, 請問渣&小虎媽當初請工人係搵"叻"or"蠢"? 有冇local/singapore exp? overseas 定 local完約?

早晨呀!
我無睇佢係叻/ 蠢woh, 同stephanie一樣, 只係睇佢有無結婚同埋有無小朋友咯.... 同埋睇下個樣順唔順眼咯....
mi 姐姐之前個賓賓姐, 學歷唔錯, 乾淨企理....之但係就係太文靜... 鍾意理埋反剌綉..... 叫佢熨衫, 佢係坐係到... 話腰骨痛..... 佢廿幾歲, 未結婚.... 好彩個陣我仲未有亞仔咋.......

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原文章由 easybring 於 08-1-9 14:02 發表
May,

我都似你咁. 不過, 工人唔自律, 就唔可以再安心畀佢自己安排工作, 下下睇住, 我又唔得. 佢唔iron唔重要, 最重要係成2星期, 而且果條係校裙, 如果係我老公d shirts都算啦.

佢琴晚唔洗碗, 我半夜12:00am見佢未 ...

This is totally unacceptable.
I am free-hand in one hand but I actually am closely monitor my maid. I must ensure her finished washing the dish, taking the garbage out...etc before she takes the bath. If not, I will ask her to do the job immediately. Then she will play with my son. She only go to sleep when I told her to do so or when Zachary go to sleep. She usually sleeps at 11:30pm.

My maid is quite self-disciplined, there are some occasion I told her not to wash the dish as it was really late after going out for dinner. She insists to do so.

In your case, you may need to remind her to do the task and ensure everything is comleted before she go to school. Even you are not intend to renew her contract, you must still talk to her regarding last night incident i.e. she did not clean the dish.

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原文章由 easybring 於 08-1-9 18:12 發表
2個月前都ok架, 有相有量.

我唔驚佢, 因為我諗, 如小朋友太跟個工人, 反而要兩年換一次, 等佢地明面姐姐係外人, 我成日同曉琳講媽咪出去返工, 姐姐黎我地屋企返工煮飯, 星期日媽咪返屋企照顧你, 姐姐返自己屋企放 ...

Whether the 小朋友太跟個工人 or not, I think it is determined by us.
There are some jobs that I will not pass to my maid to do it....e.g. take bath for Zachary. When I am at home, I will be the one to take care Zachary and my maid will do the homework. On Sat and Sun, I will also be the one to take care Zachary e.g. send him to class / school, feed him, play with him and my maid is only doing the supporting role.

Thus, Zachary sticks to my maid when I am not at home. When I back home, he will stick with me and will not stick with my maid.

I do not treat my maid as "outsider", I treat her as one of my family member. I believe if I care about her, she will care my son. Most of all, she is the one to take care my son when I go to work. I will give her some small gifts e.g. Chocolate. It is because I don't want her to treat my son as the "outsider".

There are several occasions that while I punish my son, she feels very upset.

[ 本文章最後由 mamay 於 08-1-10 09:59 編輯 ]

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早晨!
呢排公司好忙, 要下星期四打後先得閒上黎吹下水咯~~

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same same. 我一放工/星期六日, 佢兩個係痴住我, 不過我太夜, 所以姐姐同佢地沖涼. 家姐係明我先係亞媽, 好親好親, 只有我幫到佢解決問題.

原文章由 mamay 於 08-1-10 09:56 發表

Whether the 小朋友太跟個工人 or not, I think it is determined by us.
There are some jobs that I will not pass to my maid to do it....e.g. take bath for Zachary. When I am at home, I will be the one ...

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未請工人之前, 有朋友教路, 唔好請本地完約, 建議搵新加坡完約, 一來果邊人工福利唔及香港, 佢地好恨有香港僱主請佢; 二來新加坡多華人僱主, 生活飲食文化同香港人接近, 來到香港工作會好快適應.

當時我睇cv, 會留意佢地每份約既工作年期, 越長代表越忠心, 僱主滿意先會續佢幾個約. 另外當然會睇佢地有無照顧newborn或小朋友既經驗, 如果同一個大家庭打工就更好, 咁佢懶極都有個譜. 到睇video, 會留意佢既表情笑容等等, 說話有無誠懇, 呢part好容易睇到自己對佢有無好感. 蠢/精好難從cv或video分辨到, 但我儘量唔揀太文靜太被動或太young果d.

其實我請到呢個姐姐真係好運多過其他, 佢係single parent, 要供一對十幾歲既仔女讀書, 搵香港工係想賺多d錢, 改善仔女既生活, 佢同我講想做10年, 供完仔女讀書又可以起番幢樓, 所以佢一路都好俾心機工作.

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原文章由 mamay 於 08-1-10 09:56 發表

Whether the 小朋友太跟個工人 or not, I think it is determined by us.
There are some jobs that I will not pass to my maid to do it....e.g. take bath for Zachary. When I am at home, I will be the one ...

同亞may個做法都係一樣.... 亞mi 姐姐都好自律.... 如果佢知道有碗未洗/ 廚房唔乾淨, 佢會搞晒d 細路訓覺, 跟住佢就會去搞個廚房, 跟住佢自己先訓覺.....
因為亞哥係要我同佢訓佢先訓.... 之但係哥哥訓得覺來... 又要妹妹訓覺... 但係好多時亞妹就係到搞搞震.. 係咁嗌哥哥.. 哥哥又同佢反..... 總之叫佢地訓覺個陣一定要分開兩隻馬騮...... 姐姐就會係廳到搞亞妹, 我就會搞亞哥,到亞妹訓左.. 就會放底亞妹, 姐姐就會去完成佢ge 野... 跟住再訓覺... 大概11.30左右啦... 跟住就餵亞妹食奶... 再訓.

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原文章由 QQ吉吉 於 08-1-10 10:02 發表
早晨!!

2. 我買左幾個月消耗品 eg. toilet paper/detergent, 早兩日叫佢去我指定藥房買, 點知買番黎嘅野全部改晒牌子, 兼唔貴唔買. >> 我當然叫佢下次買番用開嘅牌子, 但佢咁識揀靚野, 你話有幾蠢?.

會唔會係藥房d人係咁sell 佢呀????

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同阿may阿渣一樣, 我家姐姐會settle晒小朋友瞓覺先洗碗沖涼, 有時熨衫熨到半夜1點, 叫佢留番下機衫一齊熨, 佢都堅持熨埋先瞓. 平日多數12點幾瞓, 但每朝準時7點叫我起牀(呢樣無佢好唔掂).

原文章由 ardnas65 於 08-1-10 10:35 發表

同亞may個做法都係一樣.... 亞mi 姐姐都好自律.... 如果佢知道有碗未洗/ 廚房唔乾淨, 佢會搞晒d 細路訓覺, 跟住佢就會去搞個廚房, 跟住佢自己先訓覺.....
因為亞哥係要我同佢訓佢先訓.... 之但係哥哥訓得覺來... ...

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原文章由 小虎媽 於 08-1-10 10:57 發表
同阿may阿渣一樣, 我家姐姐會settle晒小朋友瞓覺先洗碗沖涼, 有時熨衫熨到半夜1點, 叫佢留番下機衫一齊熨, 佢都堅持熨埋先瞓. 平日多數12點幾瞓, 但每朝準時7點叫我起牀(呢樣無佢好唔掂).

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我家姐姐又係...最遲8am都見唔到我蒲頭, 佢就會入來摷醒我... 又或者叫亞仔叫我起身.....

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