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Re: 做教師的媽媽請進

misswen,

agree, go ahead!! You can please everybody's expectation when you want to make a wise decision. Just think about yourself and ask why you want such a change.

Good luck!! I hope I can be as brave as you one day!!

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發表於 06-11-30 08:08 |只看該作者

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but, of course, before you go, count the holiday and don't "lose" anything to the school

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發表於 06-11-30 09:39 |只看該作者

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For me, I would rather to summit the letter later and count to once after Christmas Holiday, I will leave the school, and earn the christmas bonus (if your school have).

Good luck, and I would say if school makes you very sad and unhappy, you should choose to leave. Anyhow, you may join this field again in later time.

Music is the art of thinking with sounds. –Jules Combarieu

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發表於 06-11-30 13:40 |只看該作者

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Thank you all sisters. What U said mean a lot to me !

The case is, I joined this sch last year and I am still
in the probation, which mean i only need 1 month notice in advance. If i really do it, my last day will be 1 Jan 07, a holiday.

I will meet my counselling lecturer tonight in CU. He has been giving me advice whenever I face critical moment. I am so grateful becos I have graduated from Cert. in counselling already 6 years ago, and he is still helping me out.

Thanks a lot again.

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發表於 06-12-1 19:42 |只看該作者

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有得走就好走，如果我經濟ok，我都會二話不說就遞信

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發表於 06-12-1 23:08 |只看該作者

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Dear sisters,

I tendered my resignation today, guess what? The principal wanted me to stay for longer as he is worried about the recuitment.

Frankly, if i being nasty, I would think, whether he is able to hire someone within 1 month is not my concern, it is something very common in commercial firms.

I feel desperate cos it's not a rush decision and my bitterness over all those years came back to me all of a sudden.

when I came home, i broke down totally, sat in the tube and cried for an hour.

The principal would talk to me on mOnday again to negotatiate the timing , not really fair to me. All they use as gd reason is ask me to think for the sake of the students...

my counselling lecturer told me that education in hK now is like 'printing' (copying) and I am a person who is gd at and wishes to draw ( drawing)

I jsut want to make a choice for myself, but I still need to please others ??

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發表於 06-12-2 00:14 |只看該作者

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misswen 寫道:

I jsut want to make a choice for myself, but I still need to please others ??

You don't need to. Set yourself free.

Learning from more than one teacher may inspire your students to learn better.

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發表於 06-12-3 01:35 |只看該作者

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No, never think that being a teacher is to please others. All principals are like that, they always want to have so less workload, so as to push others to do more for him/her.

I would just say, if you cant settle the job, go and quick go. Don't let the job depressed yourself.

May God bless you and keep you. Pray for you, and wish you all success.

Music is the art of thinking with sounds. –Jules Combarieu

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發表於 06-12-4 07:55 |只看該作者

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misswen:
你please人

, then誰please你

你老細要留你就應review你的workload,總有些東西可以不用你做,又總有些動作,老細應做！See?
要面面俱圓者,面面不圓！See?

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發表於 06-12-4 11:22 |只看該作者

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I need your help.

I dunno how to tell my Ss, esp my F.5 class. I have also 2 F.One classes, I am the class teacher of one of them.

U know what, today, i can see that the principal ignored me already .

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發表於 06-12-4 15:23 |只看該作者

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misswen:
咁ge態度,更不值得留戀！

但為便於請人(為學生好),你或可明言你可延至1.5月-2個月才走，但若早了請到人,亦可依時1個月後離職,點都要商量下。

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kaka0814:

我仲未收到回條

麻煩你盡快回覆
Pls check PM~
Thanks~

Joy_E

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發表於 06-12-4 18:21 |只看該作者

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misswen,

you see the reality already, and I am sure what your principal did to you will make your decision firm!!

Leave, you don't have to please and entertain anybody.

I agree that you have to set yourself free!!

Good luck!!

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發表於 06-12-4 19:13 |只看該作者

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Dear all,
Thank you for the support !

I just received a 'list ' of duties from my panel, stating all the things I need to finish before I leave.

Ironically, I myself don't even know when is my last date as the principal still has not cfmed with me.

And i can sense the teachers around me act different to me already.

This last period of time is going to be very stressful to me. :-(

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發表於 06-12-4 23:14 |只看該作者

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In fact, you need not to finish all things before you leave. You just need to be normal, everything the same.

Music is the art of thinking with sounds. –Jules Combarieu

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發表於 06-12-5 19:53 |只看該作者

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You need not to be confirmed, you INFORM him of the date you are going BLACK AND WHITE, especially they are not being good to you now.

Don't even stay for one single day more.

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Mon 一double lesson 講講

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