Re: 基督徒的姊妹小產過後之"再戰江湖--生仔篇"（Part II)
湊小b的問題, no perfect solution:
-俾99 or 阿媽湊, more responsible, but lots of potential conflicts. Afterall, there is no right way of raising kids. There are a lot of different ideas, and everyone thinks they have the best for the babies. It is hard to follow the old traditional way, and theoratically 工人 should take your instruction.
請工人, really hard to find a good one. Mine is good, and she goes to church. I always look for helpers who are devoted Christian. I have asked my old ones to help look for helpers in her church. She turn out to be good also. Mine has very good relationship with Jacob and teaches him a lot. May be you can find a good one also.
唔做野,湊bb, good in principle, but will be very hard work, very tiring to be a responsible mom. May get too tired with chores and hard to enjoy the time with your baby.
育嬰院, no experience, and don't hear much. But as Mudull said, babies are easy to get sick. I personally think that a good helper is better than 育嬰院. You get to do what you want, and the baby get better personal development with a person he/she turst.
Since there is no best way, may be the best is to pray to God, and ask for His guidance. He will have the best for you!
耶和華是我的牧者．我必不至缺乏。Thanks God for my lovely family.
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