我今年有俾阿女考其他K1, also admitted by St Catherine(英粵班). 咁係未要同佢轉去St catherine, 等到時考私立/直資有大啲Chance呢??
==> 我倒認為冇此必要, 反正你地都喜歡亦適應了 Victoria, unless 你地本身都好 likey St Cat 咁先轉啦, 因為: 首先, 入到佢都唔包一定考到私校/直資 ga wor (尤其多人爭個d), 你睇出面 forum 都見有好多讀 St Cat, Kentville 個d 都唔收的, 所以唔可以當 St Cat 係一個保証, 我會形容呢d 學校係可以令你小朋友從小就習慣典型 HK 式既學習多d (e.g. 做功課, 聽書, 坐定定呢類) , so 佢地將來上到小一係會易追上多d , rather than 話佢地可以令小朋友考得入某d 學校 la
==> 明我係以多功課見稱, K1 已有生字寫, 默書等等, 依家我細彥既朋友仔中 (0604) 有兩個讀緊, 都成日聽到佢地講有好多野做 (功課), 家長都要出力唔少, 但我又唔見d 家長呻好慘 bor, 佢地都係 working mom ar...so it depends on 人人既接受程度啦, 我見佢地一邊好忙咁做, 但又都幾開心 bor, so 只可以講人人唔同, 但 for sure 就一定係多野做同忙, 呢點就肯定的.
that's great, as i do not hv friends whose childrens are studying there
but do u know the teachers there are nice? how about the childrens? are they happy even though there are a lots of homeworks & dictations? are they well-disciplined or naughty? as i want to know not only the academic aspect of the kd, but also the discipline training too? sorry for so many questions, many thx
thx vvv much for your prompt & helpful answers, it helps me a lot, u r really a nice mom., that's why u deserve having 3 lovely kids who do not require a lots of attention fr.u
其實我一向都支持家長有自己既想法同取向, 只係我見你上面就咁就問我呢三間學校, which is 係出面 forum 真係就係問黎問去咪就係呢幾間囉, 我就好自然有個諗法..你係聽得人講得多, 就自然地都覺得你都想要呢d 野, 定係你一早已自己 plan 好對小朋友既教育方向先..?? 係後者既我一定 support, 係前者呢就......唉~
因為我想答你既同我前面咁多版答d 媽咪既都一樣, 揀乜之前先問自己: (1) 你到底最後教出一個點樣既細路? (2) 咩對個細路先係最需要既野 esp at KG? 係校風, 身體強健, 定係學習態度? 一間校風非常嚴謹, 但每日番學總唔齊人, 唔係呢個病, 就個個因為媽咪同佢請假去左外國玩, 所以就返少幾日...邊樣你認為影響大d ? (3) 係唔係真係有咁多 KG (我係講 KG, 唔講中學, 兩者相當唔同) 既 "校風" 有咁大分別, 要係 3 歲既階段就要一定揾到一間 "校風" 好既學校..?? 我唔認為 KG 都要分成 3 個 band 咁選校卦..?(4) what is your definition about 校風德育好..e.g. if 一間學校校風係相當嚴謹既, 即係最好你個細路係 '唔會跑, 唔會跳, 唔會呱呱叫", 因為咁老師就可以專注教到d 細路, 到你細路一離開張 chair 就會 control 佢, 要佢坐埋一邊, 之後就會打電話同你 "反影" (即係叫你幫手係屋企教下佢), 到畫圖畫或者寫字唔靚個時, 亦都會又同你 "反影" 叫你又要幫下佢, and/or 老師會好有老師既風範, 即係見到佢要叫佢, 唔會下下就表現得好親近d 學生, 因為長幼有序, 學生要學懂尊師重道, 唔可以太反斗上堂時變成唔比面老師了...之類...你會界定此類手法係 "校風德育好" 定係 "對細路唔夠關心包容" 之類呢....??
其實我根本可以唔駛打上面咁大堆野, 但我都再想籍此機會同你, or 其他想問我同類問題既媽咪, 好好諗下....你到底想要乜...你係真係想要某d 野, 定係因為 80% 以上既人都話個樣野好, 你就自然都覺得個樣野好, 所以你去揀個樣野呢...?? 請明白, 全世界都唔會有一間學校有齊哂你想要既野既, 某方面好d 時, 相對就另一方面可能唔夠, 人都一齊, no perfect person ga la...對嗎?
我舉出上述一大堆例仔都就係想幫你諗下 what do you really want to see at the end? 小朋友每個成長既階段我認為 target 都唔同, 係幼兒教育方面, 在我, 我根本唔會 target "校風" at this stage, 唔係我唔理, 而係我睇唔到 A 幼稚園同 B 幼稚園可以有幾 significant 既分別, even 到佢小學 (我估你講呢 3 間都係因為佢地有相對既小學, right? 所以唔想煩, 可以既話, 想直升..??)
But if you think this answer is not good enough, 想要 detail D 既, 你就要問你自己你排哂 priority 未先...? 只係諗校風同品德, 我會話...well 唔夠仔細囉, 因為作為過來人既我, 我就會話你知 (1) 以上你講個三間係校風, 德育都做得好好的, 三間都冇問題...then you will ask, 咁邊間好d ..? 咁我咪就係又會問番你我上面舉既例子囉, how do you define 校風德育好..?? 可以令你細路坐定定留心聽書既就叫"好", 定係會俾佢四維走, 發掘不同 idea 再 build on 去學既叫"好" 呢..? I guess 每個家長既 definition could be different here, right?
既然係咁, 你揀校就唔可以只係單睇一瓣, 而係要問自己 (1) 你最想要既係乜 (2) 你一定一定唔可以妥協既又係乜 (i.e. your bottom line) 然後先有得 base on your constraint 去 shortlist 學校 ga wor... 唔係就咁人地話呢三間好就係岩你 ga ma... I wish I had made myself clear here?
==> 先講講: 我唔想 "誤人子弟", 我自問對學校既認識都有一定, 但絕不能講到 "一問就識", 所以, 與其我只講自己既 "感覺" which is not fair to the school, 倒不如你問有讀緊既家長, 佢地 should be able to share more with you, 只係, 溫馨提示: 就係你唔好好似上面咁問人...e.g. 派位好唔好...校風好唔好...因為你問得 "好唔好" 就會有主觀意願在內, 我可以大膽話你知, 你咁問d 家長, 十個有九讀緊既個都會答你 "好", 因為 (1) 唔好都唔會仲係樹啦, 又唔係真係轉唔到校 (2) 佢地都冇見過 or 試過出面其他學校, 咁冇得比較, 就梗係 "好" 啦, but 話唔定有朝一日佢地小朋友有讀到其他學校時, 有接觸了, 咁就 可能 "唔夠好" or "非常好" 了, 係冇..?? but that's not quite possible, right? 唔通年年轉校咩...
So, in this case, 你可以問佢地既係 :
1) 程度深淺, 派位情況 (唔係問佢地 "好唔好") 等佢地話你知, 而係問佢地 e.g. (a) 學校一年班教乜, 點教, approx 幾多功課, 幾測幾考, 學校對成績唔得既學生有冇咩特別處理方法...etc....or simply 你上佢地校網都有機會睇到的 (有d 學校幾 open 肯自己講既) then 你自己睇, 再決定個d 間學校係 "好唔好" in your eyes
2) 校風 - 你可以問, 但更有效既, 係你自己用對眼去睇, 得閒既, 行開街既, 去個間學校樹睇睇, 睇下d 小朋友之間既相處, 老師係學校門口同學生又點交流, 家長之間既言行又點...呢d 都係 useful information 多過你問人, 你亦大可以係出面 forum 樹, 睇下呢間學校d 家長講野時既用字, 態度, 語氣, etc, 所謂 "見微知著", 多搜集一段時間, 你自會有結論, 駛乜靠聽人講呢...?? 我成日都話, "人地講" 就係人地既感受, 你唔應該 base on 人地既感受去選校, 係要 base on 人地講既 fact 去 make decision, 咁先係 "明智", 因為人人要求都唔同的, 係冇..??
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