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Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part III

各位﹐
我今日好唔開心。RYAN晏晝食緊奶時唔知係咪痙攣﹐手震腳震有小小反白眼﹐5-10秒到。我初初見他手震以為他凍﹐跟著見唔對路便捉著他隻手叫下他拍下他﹐又無反應﹐我便抱起他便無再震。後來打比PED﹐佢話希望係RYAN食奶肉緊得濟OR胃酸倒流令佢有HEARTBURN所以會噤。又話好少食緊奶會痙攣﹐同埋痙攣通常會超過3分鐘。又話下次如果係噤要去ER﹐又叫我去某間因有小兒科既腦科醫生0係0個邊。哎﹐嚇C我。
我個公公有事﹐我想提早0係6月初返LA﹐但RYAN老豆就會唔見左個仔3個幾月﹐因他要9月先請到假來LA接我地返黎NY。RYAN 7月中要打針﹐我想同他在LA打﹐但又怕唔好。哎﹐個腦實左﹐稔唔到有好方法﹐有無媽咪幫到我?如果打完針先返去﹐我怕我外公唔擺得噤耐。如果6月頭返然後7月中返黎NY打針﹐噤RYAN老豆又請唔到假﹐我要一個人同RYAN返來﹐我怕0係機上搞唔掂呀仔。如果6月頭返﹐7月中係LA找醫生同RYAN打針要SELF PAY因INS係PPO有指定醫生&RYAN會3個幾月唔見左老豆。
哎﹐我唔識稔呀﹐好煩。我問老公﹐他又話他明白﹐但呢兩日不下20次提著話會3個幾月唔見左呀仔/會MISS左好多野等。其實我都唔開心﹐我心稔﹐RYAN老豆/爺爺嫲嫲一年有噤多個月都見到RYAN﹐我稔著返去3個零月比公公婆婆見下都唔SUPPORT我。:-( :-( :-( :-( :-(
小肥佬﹐
我未返生前磅數﹐我稔無乜可能。仲有10磅到。

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Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part III

Whalebb,

Don't be sad la :-( :-( :-( ....you can win back the $$$ next time

We can go window shop at Gucci first...hehehe.

Marble,

When will you arrive to LA? Let me see if I can stop by your hotel with Natalie :lol: :lol: My husband won't be able to join unless we meet in the evening.

Little Fat Man,

I'm so glad you sent me some recent pictures...so I will recognize you and Mini-Matt this weekend. Mini-Matt is so big now...he looks more Chinese than when he was younger. Have you bought him a convertible carseat yet. We bought Natalie a new carseat last weekend...her head and legs were sticking out of the old one. We got her the Britax Decathlon from Babiesrus. I already returned the learning table becuz Natalie doesn't care for it. She likes to play with the shape sorter...the kind where you push different shaped cubes into the correct shaped hole :-P :-P :-P

Nillie,

Do you get arthritis pain from you back? My husband was in a car accident many years ago and sometimes he will feel pain when the weather changes:-( :-( :-( I always tell him I married and old man :mrgreen: :mrgreen: Have you tried going to a chiropractor..I had a weep lash on my neck before and a chiropractor fixed it

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Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part III

Babygigi,

I don't know much about seizures in baby. You must be very scared. To get reassurance, can the doctor give Ryan a checkup to rule out any big issues...what does your husband suggest? I would also search online and see if you can find more information. I can understand it will be hard for your hubby not to see Ryan for 3 months becuz the baby will change a lot. But if your grandpa is really sick, then better bring Ryan to show him so you won't have any regrets. You can always return to NY earlier and ask your parents to fly with you if necessary. Sorry...I don't know how to make you feel better

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Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part III

babygigi

睇完你個故仔,我一邊睇,一邊驚呀...唔駛咁担心, 照ped.講應該無事既..其實我都會明白你既感受架..因為mini-matt 係四個月開始,佢一臨瞓前(好眼瞓個隻),佢就係咁杻頭,但係間唔中囉..咁我問個醫生,佢話只要個bb個頭唔係向前"鍾",就無問題, 好多bb都係咁..個時,我又係好担心架..好彩,佢依家都少咗係咁囉..
至於你返LA 既事...如果你怕公公唔得,咪早D返囉..有D嘢, 唔好比自己後悔嘛..咁你可唔可以自己早D返NY..咁呀..大家就吓D時間..實有一個最後既方案既...
希望你公公無事啦...

MARBLE,

我唔同咗樣? 係唔係樣衰咗 ? C9咗呢? :-( :-(
你咁急,我又無人車我去,我都想見吓你哋一家嘛..

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發表於 05-6-1 08:03 |只看該作者

Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part III

meeemeee,
The weather is so nice these days!! I moved to Dublin in 2001, the Ulfa Center and Ikea are very close to my place, I'm actually in Dublin Ranch. Wherer are you in Castro Valley? As you're 地產經紀, do you know about the 樓價 will continue to go up in the bay area or almost 飽和? I noticed that the price has been gone up a lot in the last 2 years.

My boy will turn 4 years old in June and my girl is 7.5 months old. How about you?

Nillie_Mami,
Good that you bought the machine, i hope it can help a bit of your allergy. Do you know 乾咸鴨腎is also good for 7.5 months old baby? I make congee for my girl every other day and usually put meat/chicken/fish, want to try more things on her.

Lidvia,
I live in Dublin. I know where is Rivermark, it is very close to my hubby's work. There was one time he told me he wanted to move to Rivermark as he doesn't need to commute to work. I will also go to HK in July with my kids. Nice to meet you here.

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發表於 05-6-1 08:42 |只看該作者

Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part III

Natmama

Maybe mini-matt's got my nose and eyes, so he looks more Chinese now ...

..Not yet, mini-matt still uses the old carseat..We shopped around before, but we don't know which one is the best..

Actually , the carseat is too small for mini-matt now..As you say, his legs sticks out of the carseat, but he never complains it, so we just keep it until we get the good one..

Did you preserve Natalie's little hand and foot print ? I did..

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Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part III

babygigi﹐

rayan 咁比著我都驚, 不過而家話冇事就好。不如你6月初返LA﹐至於 rayan 爸爸會唔見個仔3個月, 你可唔可以自己帶rayan 飛返 NY ? Rayan 都 4個幾月, 多數都係食飽就訓, 唔會勁扭。唔係就叫你老公等3個月.,好似小肥佬講, 唔好比自己後悔,有D野會後悔一世。

小肥佬,

唔似c9, 都唔似.

natmama & 小肥佬

聽日 12 點前會到 LA , 我地會去 Universal Studio 先,玩完就會去 disneyland 果邊, 大慨應該會係夜晚。星期四全日都會在 disneyland.

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發表於 05-6-1 11:17 |只看該作者

Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part III

各位,

今日收到由香港寄來的相簿, 是我以前去旅行的相..有成七,八本咁多...由於香港屋企細,我嫁咗嚟美國,我亞媽都開始寄我d物品嚟啦...
我睇完d相之後,覺得好唔開心,好有失落感..因為我原來仲好掛住,一路工作,一路儲錢去旅行既日子..我仲同我老公講,真係有d後悔咁快結婚,生子 (我係唔係好衰呢?).. ..
:-( :-( :-(

不過,話時話.你哋bb申請passport,幾耐倒,就有得攞呀? 大人同bb 係唔係都一樣咁耐呀???? 唔該..

marble,

你e-mail 你個電話比我呀...睇吓可以點? 你由universal studio 去disneyland , 會唔會途經long beach 或者附近?

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Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part III

無見一排, 你地已經傾左成十頁紙, 追死我

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Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part III

Natmama,
I went to visit chiropractor for a couple of years in Melbourne, every week for 3 years, they did help me to get rid of the pain, but not yet 消除病灶, the my spine was spinned... (the actual spine bone spinned to one side at my lumbar spine L1-3 and my T1-3 on my upper back) Still remember, I did have a very bad sniffed neck, I can't even move my body, I was crying on my bed in the dom, and I used my mobile, to call my accupuncture therapiest inside on-campus and my colleagues, they came and put the cushion on my neck and sent me to chiropractic clinic for urgent therapy, that time.. I spent a week there, every day with my cushion on my neck to lectures, and went back to medical centre for therapy. Every one laughed at me

My lecturer yelled to me that I always studied over night and that was the RESULT!!!!! They said that I have never taken good care of myself....

I went to visit the accupuncture therapist which Cutie mom suggested, he is so kind.. Hey, he knows kind of like.... chiropractic therapy.. he turns my back and leg to some angles and does some pushing on the bone, that gave me some relief.

Cutie mom, Jaan, Marble, 小肥佬, shuba_inu...
嘩! 我噚日喺林醫師clinic 喥, 做做吓針灸時瞓咗.... 好relief, 林醫師話我要一星期2次therapy ^o^... 好在唔駛"拮"我鼻哥...只係"拮"我2個手掙同背脊....差啲嚇到我呢...

我做姑娘咋, 都會怕needles喺個鼻喥呢

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Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part III

智仔媽咪,
當然可以, 7.5個月大嬰兒係時候多試其他固體食物.
好似Natmama, 同小肥佬咁, Gerber嘅finger food --veggie puffs/fruits puffs 對B女好有益.. favour 方面-->有sweet potato, banana, apple etc.. 我哋叫佢做星星餅, 好似花型.. 一尺高黃色膠樽with 藍蓋.. 學手眼協調就一流...
乾咸鴨腎--每星期煑粥一次, 有營養又好味.
6個月大打後,除非B女飲+iron 嘅formula, otherwise 你要concern B女嘅iron intake 啊!
1. 用乾咸鴨腎煲雞or瘦肉粥
2. 用元貝(乾榣柱) 煲雞 or 瘦肉粥
3. 如煲魚粥宜把所有材料放入魚網袋/ 只用冇骨部份. ^o^

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發表於 05-6-1 22:29 |只看該作者

Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part III

小肥佬...
你驚唔驚寄失Mini matt嘅出身紙先??
如果唔怕就郵寄form, 3-4 weeks就收到passport..
otherwise, 好似我咁...驚就做快證...(貴啲)
去immigration話mini-matt要當晚坐飛機返香港, 要即日攞passport (當然之前, 去相熟旅行社整張broading pass).
帶錢, 你嘅photo ID(passport 最好), mini matt 嘅出世紙同有相(白底)嘅form 就ok.. 上晝去下晝攞... hee hee

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發表於 05-6-1 23:43 |只看該作者

Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part III

babygigi,
我會建議你seek for second opinion. 抽筋10秒已要留意, 因為抽筋係可大可小呢!
約跟你pedi嘅standard, 等抽筋達3分鐘先算convulsion, 4個月BB就好大問題.
你pedi有冇record Ryan仔呢次incident?
下一次touch wood, 再發生時:
1. 停止所有活動, 如有家人在家, 揾人call 911叫救傷車去ER
2. 鬆開約束嘅衣物, 停止餵餔3小時
3. 記錄開始同完結時間, 用有秒針嘅鐘
4. 記錄facial expression
5. 記錄手腳, 頭身嘅movement
6. 保持Ryan仔安全, 發生時敵Ryan仔在地上 around 1metre冇障礙物/ 在大人床上...**with close observation
7. 當抽筋完咗, 平卧(左側).. check 清楚個口clear(Air way), Ryan仔有呼吸(Breathe), Ryan仔有心跳, 面冇籃(Circulation)..
8. 保持Ryan仔温暖
9. 等救傷車
救傷車D staff要基本發生事嘅info.. 所以你一定要夠冷靜..

另外, 知你公公唔舒服, Amanda祝公公身體健康... 個人認為... 孝道更重要, 係我就會6月過LA, 7月返NY等Ryan仔打針. 你買一個位俾Ryan仔, 佢坐自己infant seat/ 飛機bassinet都會瞓瞓瞓.... Amanda 7個半月坐20hrs 轉機返香港見一見太婆, 咁令我倆覺得無遺憾.. 當中Amanda都瞓咗17小時.... ^o^
Ryan仔咁細嘅BB係大部份時間瞓, 加上飛機飛行時嘅震盪... 好似坐車咁... 仲好瞓啲呢... 只係揾人接機同揾人送機囉

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Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part III

muimui313,
hee hee... 如果生活指數唔太高都ok... 正如你所講..要儲college fund.呢..
聽姑娘講...嗰個亞伯個女都好慘, 因為佢蓄意傷害醫護人員, 俾警察拉咗, 未保到釋時, 老伯就過咗身, 冇親人送終.. :-(

SYmom...
你去咗邊喥呀? Sean上preschool 未呀?

各位靚媽咪,
請check Email... 睇吓有冇漏網之魚.. 我已再snet咗1次 NEW YORK 香港媽咪 gathering嘅相俾各位^o^

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發表於 05-6-2 01:17 |只看該作者

Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part III

babygigi,
I feel so sorry to hear Ryan's case. I bet you were very scared at the time it was happening. I agree Nillie's comment about seeking a second opinion, just to be save.

Nillie,
I feel sorry to hear your accident. I hope that you will be feeling better after all the treatments.
I checked my email, and I only received your invitation on msn messsager, but not seeing any pictures. Could you please resend the pictures? Thanks.

muimui313,
I am still using my own last name too :) I am just too lazy to change all the documents, and plus I don't feel it is necessary to changes the last name. I know some of my friends did not changes their last name after married too.

Zic, do you have pictures to share too? My email address is : [email protected] Thanks.

all us mama:
Regarding the college fund, does anyone already started the college fund for your kids? I have been thinking about it for a long time, but not sure how to start. I am too lazy for the research, it would be great if anyone have the information to share. thanks.

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發表於 05-6-2 01:45 |只看該作者

Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part III

Little Fat Man,

I only inked Natalie's footprints on her Hospital Birth Certificate. I didn't preserve her handprint :-( :-( :-( too late now. The reason why we bought her the carseat is the guy at Babiesrus told us that once the baby outgrows the infant carseat, then the protection decreases dramatically...so my hubby got scared and just bought the bigger one for her. The Britax Decathlon is pretty good...it is really secured with the multiple hook on system :lol: :lol: :lol: I also missed the days when I can go travelling...now we just have to wait a few years so the baby can join us. For the baby passport, it took us 5 weeks to get Natalie's. I printed the forms online and filled it out at home, brought her birth certificate/form to the nearest post office with passport service. I wasn't too concern about losing her birth certificate becuz I purchased 6 original copies. The passport and birth certificate came back about 5 weeks.

Marble,

I will try to give you a call tonight (wednesday)...have fun

Muimui313,

Try continue taking your prenatal vitamins...it will help with your hair loss. I took them for an additional 6 months and I can see a lot of bb hair grow from the front of my head....my hair stylist makes fun of me and said I have 2 sets of bangs

I'm glad that your new sitter is working out. As long as the baby is safe...that's all it matters. For the father's day gift...I bought my husband a vuitton wallet before. The good thing is they will exchange and give you a new one if he messes it up within 6 months. The leather is really tough and sturdy too

I also haven't changed to my husband's last name yet...he complains to me from time to time. I'm just too lazy...don't want to deal with the paperwork

Nillie,

Thanks for sharing the nice gathering photos. Glad you're new accupunturist is working out :lol: :lol:

Junw,

For the college fund, I looked at Vanguard's 529 Plan. But after some research, many financial advisors suggest not to put money aside under the child's name. The reason is there are many many student loans available to college kids that are interest free while they're in school. If you have extra money you want to invest, it's wiser to put it in a retirement fund for yourself, or even a roth IRA. So after that, I've decided to invest the money elsewhere.

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發表於 05-6-2 02:08 |只看該作者

Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part III

babygigi
我爸爸果時入院..........
我和家姊輪流陪佢在醫院過夜
因我地覺得醫院無人可以照顧佢
但我仍然好後悔無陪佢多d..........
希望妳珍惜和公公的每一分一秒
不要好似我咁後悔

bb打針大概2xx幾有d醫生比cash會收平d
我老公咪仲慘無見兩個女咁耐miss左仲多
但我地知道第日會見到煩啦

小肥佬
我無左500元呀
我玩$1機慘敗ka :-( :-(
係啦妳近排又變左樣wor
妳M嚟過未??我未

Natmama
Verniece出左疹後皮膚無哂問題啦
她食egg yolk也無事

智媽
妳女女皮膚好不好??
因鴨腎好毒
皮膚不好最好12個月大後先比

muimui
妳會不會貧血頭有風??
因我前排又係脫髮頭暈到c仲想嘔
我看西醫也唔掂
之後去中醫飲左三日藥好番
妳不如去看中醫

學懂凡事感恩和感謝,孩子終身受用不盡

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Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part III

各位﹐

多謝多謝你地既SUGGESTIONS。我尋晚冷靜落黎稔清楚後BOOK左6/9號機位返LA﹐RETURNING既機位未BOOK﹐但應該會7/21或7/28號返。老公會過LA接我地返黎﹐但SAME DAY黎SAME DAY走。9月同RYAN公公婆婆LV之行要推至11月。
多謝你地關心RYAN。其實我尋日都好驚﹐見唔對路後本能即刻抱起左RYAN﹐當時個腦好亂﹐有稔過唔知RYAN係咪濁親。我CALL左RYAN個醫生然後先打比RYAN老豆﹐所以佢都無咩SUGGESTIONS﹐淨係叫我再發生時要定﹐唔好緊張。NILLIE你個SUGGESTION好好﹐我剛抄低﹐TOUCH WOOD第時有乜事都用得著。我想問下﹐LET SAY係發羊吊有嘔肚物噤應唔應該抱起/側臥﹐然後整BB喊﹐等唔好D嘔肚物CHOCK親? 定等他自己嘔出? 死啦﹐現在我好驚﹐尋晚&今日我見RYAN訓得耐我整下佢醒﹐或看下佢有無呼吸。哎﹐現在先深深體會到人地成日講﹐細時驚養唔大﹐大時又驚學壞。:-( :-(

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