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Re: 基督徒的姊妹小產過後之"再戰江湖--生仔篇"（Part II)

oh, ic ~

我仲以為你已經轉左做part-time tim~ :mrgreen:

Jen 寫道:
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ypt 寫道:
Jen....你份工轉左做part-time未呀~

Not yet ar. Will ask my boss again during appraisal, but don't want to give her too much pressure.[/quote]

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Re: 基督徒的姊妹小產過後之"再戰江湖--生仔篇"（Part II)

jen....真心多謝妳嘅邀請~!

不過我好怕"生保",所以,多謝妳la~! :lol: :lol: :lol:

所以,我有時好懷念中學果幾年,every sat.返团契嘅日子,好開心! 長大左之後,無lu~~!

Jen 寫道:
My cell group is for couples. We have 4 couples, and have gathering once a month.

My other fellowship on Friday is a weekly Friday gathering for working adults. If you don't mind, you can join this one as well. We focus on Bible study, and you can see whether you like it or not. We are studying Hebrews now. We meet in Admiralty, close to where you work in Wanchai.

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米水寫道:
jen...好好呀,妳有cell meeting,我church都有,but大家好忙,好耐先一次meeting,我對上參加,係今年3月嘅事la~

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發表於 05-11-10 15:02 |只看該作者

Re: 基督徒的姊妹小產過後之"再戰江湖--生仔篇"（Part II)

我church都有團契架~ 但我冇返好耐lu, 因為時間就唔到, 同埋有左bb後, 個人好容易累, 如果放工仲要返團契都幾辛苦架~ :cry: 所以我只有每個星期返崇拜咋~ :cry:

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發表於 05-11-10 15:07 |只看該作者

Re: 基督徒的姊妹小產過後之"再戰江湖--生仔篇"（Part II)

ypt...如果我church有成人团契我都想返呀~~可惜係無,得cell group,要自己安排時間,成日開唔成

我覺得cell都好重要,可以sharing大家各方問題,互相代禱嗎~!

ypt 寫道:
我church都有團契架~ 但我冇返好耐lu, 因為時間就唔到, 同埋有左bb後, 個人好容易累, 如果放工仲要返團契都幾辛苦架~ :cry: 所以我只有每個星期返崇拜咋~ :cry:

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發表於 05-11-10 15:09 |只看該作者

Re: 基督徒的姊妹小產過後之"再戰江湖--生仔篇"（Part II)

ypt 寫道:
mcdull....係呀, 填番個chop個醫生名, 因為呢張form係呢個醫生發出架嘛~ [quote]
Mcdull 寫道:
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ypt 寫道:
mcdull...你fax左張form去美贊臣未~ (queenie比你果張拎bb奶粉的form)...我頭先fax左去, 佢地好快就覆左我啦~

未呀！　係呢醫生姓名個欄你係唔係填返張form上面印個個名呀？[/quote][/quote]

noted, thanks!

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發表於 05-11-10 15:09 |只看該作者

Re: 基督徒的姊妹小產過後之"再戰江湖--生仔篇"（Part II)

米水,

I know how you feel. I don't want to put pressure on my husband also. He can sure support the family, but I have my family responsibilty also. I don't want to put my family burden on him as well. That's why, I want to work part time and support my own family.

Raising a kid really costs a lot of money, tuition, extra curricular activities. Quality of living is going to change. My university friends who can afford new watches, jewelry, handbags, fine dinners, etc, I just can't afford them. But I really won't trade that with the happiness we have as a family.

耶和華是我的牧者．我必不至缺乏。Thanks God for my lovely family.

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Jen

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發表於 05-11-10 15:10 |只看該作者

Re: 基督徒的姊妹小產過後之"再戰江湖--生仔篇"（Part II)

米水寫道:
jen....真心多謝妳嘅邀請~! 不過我好怕"生保",所以,多謝妳la~! :lol: :lol: :lol:

所以,我有時好懷念中學果幾年,every sat.返团契嘅日子,好開心! 長大左之後,無lu~~!

Anytime you want to go, you just let me know.

耶和華是我的牧者．我必不至缺乏。Thanks God for my lovely family.

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發表於 05-11-10 15:13 |只看該作者

Re: 基督徒的姊妹小產過後之"再戰江湖--生仔篇"（Part II)

米水媽.....我church有少年團契、有青年團契, 有伉儷團契tim, 我未結婚前有返青年團契架, 因為大家都差唔多年紀, 班團友仔全部都係由細玩大, 但係結婚之後, 家庭時間用多了, 返工放工仲要返屋企做家務, 有時又要family day, 所以時間好難就, 因為我地青年團d時間係星期五放工後7:00-9:00pm....要返團契都好大掙扎架~

至於伉儷團契, 其實都係cell group, 因為大家有家庭, 有小朋友, 都係只會每季約一次gathering咁咋~[quote]
米水寫道:
ypt...如果我church有成人团契我都想返呀~~可惜係無,得cell group,要自己安排時間,成日開唔成

我覺得cell都好重要,可以sharing大家各方問題,互相代禱嗎~!

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發表於 05-11-10 15:16 |只看該作者

Re: 基督徒的姊妹小產過後之"再戰江湖--生仔篇"（Part II)

jen...我仲未真正感受到一個family帶俾我嘅喜悅(我覺得有小朋友先係一個完整family,得兩夫婦,好似拍緊拖咁嘅生活), 可能到左我個bb出世,我先會完全明白妳嘅感受! 到時真係會義無反悔咁,將自己所有俾晒個bb,好enjoy果份滿足感~!

Jen 寫道:
米水,

I know how you feel. I don't want to put pressure on my husband also. He can sure support the family, but I have my family responsibilty also. I don't want to put my family burden on him as well. That's why, I want to work part time and support my own family.

Raising a kid really costs a lot of money, tuition, extra curricular activities. Quality of living is going to change. My university friends who can afford new watches, jewelry, handbags, fine dinners, etc, I just can't afford them. But I really won't trade that with the happiness we have as a family.

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發表於 05-11-10 15:16 |只看該作者

Re: 基督徒的姊妹小產過後之"再戰江湖--生仔篇"（Part II)

jen...thank you!

Jen 寫道:
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米水寫道:
jen....真心多謝妳嘅邀請~! 不過我好怕"生保",所以,多謝妳la~! :lol: :lol: :lol:

所以,我有時好懷念中學果幾年,every sat.返团契嘅日子,好開心! 長大左之後,無lu~~!

Anytime you want to go, you just let me know.[/quote]

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Jen

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發表於 05-11-10 15:21 |只看該作者

Re: 基督徒的姊妹小產過後之"再戰江湖--生仔篇"（Part II)

ypt 寫道:
我church都有團契架~ 但我冇返好耐lu, 因為時間就唔到, 同埋有左bb後, 個人好容易累, 如果放工仲要返團契都幾辛苦架~ :cry: 所以我只有每個星期返崇拜咋~ :cry:

ypt,
I really encourage you to go back to fellowship when you feel better. The growth and support you get from a fellowship is really different from Sunday services.

I gave up fellowship after Jacob's birth. Like a lot other moms, having a kid is tiring, I just can't find time for fellowship. I went back to fellowship after the death of Nicole. It was not until then that I found learning God's way is so important. I know it is very important for Jacob to follow God's way, but if I am not close to God myself, how can I be draw him close to God.

I get off work at 6 o'clock sharp every Wednesday and Friday, then I went back home, pick Jacob and the helper up, and we go to church together. On Friday, Jacob will stay for singspiration, and then leave with the helper. I hope he can get a sense that going to church is a regular activity.

Try to go back to fellowship after your girl is born. I am sure that she will benefit also.

耶和華是我的牧者．我必不至缺乏。Thanks God for my lovely family.

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發表於 05-11-10 15:22 |只看該作者

Re: 基督徒的姊妹小產過後之"再戰江湖--生仔篇"（Part II)

米水媽.....係呀, 我都係咁諗, 可能小b仲未出世, 所以好多野都係心大心細, 唔知點咁, 可能小b出世後, 你見到佢, 又會義無反悔, 一心只為個bb, 咩都可以放棄~

我有個朋友, 佢之前話唔生bb架, 佢話要同老公二人世界, 要做事業女性, 點知意外有左, 生左個仔之後, 因為冇人湊, 佢又唔想請工人, 咁佢咩都唔理, 辭左份高薪厚職, 返屋企湊仔~

所以, 我都係等小b出世先決定, 我而家其實好擔心經濟架, 但到時我奶奶攪唔掂, 我都會咩都唔理, 辭職自己湊~[quote]
米水寫道:
jen...我仲未真正感受到一個family帶俾我嘅喜悅(我覺得有小朋友先係一個完整family,得兩夫婦,好似拍緊拖咁嘅生活), 可能到左我個bb出世,我先會完全明白妳嘅感受! 到時真係會義無反悔咁,將自己所有俾晒個bb,好enjoy果份滿足感~!

[quote]

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發表於 05-11-10 15:24 |只看該作者

Re: 基督徒的姊妹小產過後之"再戰江湖--生仔篇"（Part II)

agree!!!!

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Jen 寫道:

I know it is very important for Jacob to follow God's way, but if I am not close to God myself, how can I be draw him close to God.

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ypt

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發表於 05-11-10 15:24 |只看該作者

Re: 基督徒的姊妹小產過後之"再戰江湖--生仔篇"（Part II)

Jen......thank you for your encourage, i will try it when my girl born.

Jen 寫道:
Try to go back to fellowship after your girl is born. I am sure that she will benefit also.

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