I live here 4 years already. I passed the "sit moon" time. At that time, I took care of myself and the baby. My mom was intended to come, I told her not to, it was too cold for her to stay. She doesn't know how to drive, so she can't go anywhere. I can chat here very often, but it takes so long to load every page since I am still using 56K connection, unfortunately. :-P