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原帖由 Nillie_Mami 於 10-3-5 22:15 發表
Ellie,
see.. hee hee.. Told you that moms are helpful here..
My husband growth up here.. he came when he was a little boy.
Well, my husband helps with the garbage, and do groceries shopping, and mostl ...

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原帖由 ellie79 於 10-3-6 00:15 發表
Nillie & Rose-Mag,
Nice to meet u here~ 我又識多個朋友~~~ 好野~
咁你又響邊既呢Rose-Mag?
其實我覺得自己做人都算係咁...
成唔成熟係睇人生經歷...

Hi Ellie,
I live in San Francisco, a few drive from LA. So, if you have time to visit here, please contact me and play with my 2 kids. When they are good, they are angels and adorable. But, most of the times, they fight and you can see 2 fierce monsters crying and screaming, LOL. Both I and my hubby love kids but after we have our own, we both have mixed feeling. When I am away from home, I miss them. When I am at home with them, I want a peace of mind. Kids are smart and they know how you feel. They will kiss me, hug me when I seem to be sad or hurt. But, it is a lot of work to raise kids especially when you have more than 1. To us, we always want at least 2, no matter if they are 2 boys, 2 girls or 1 boy 1 girl (our current case). We want them to have buddies to grow up with. Now, even though my son and my daughter fight everyday, they are their own best friends. They play together, giggle together, being naughty together. They will miss each other when one of them is not around.

I learn to not bother what the others think or say but sometimes it is hard. My parents take things too serious and my mom worries about me being alone in here after she and my father die one time. I told her that I have my husband and kids plus my brother. She concerns about my relationship with all my uncles, aunts and cousins. Honestly speaking, we grew up in 2 different cultures and it is hard for us to get along. All of them are richer than us and some of them have their own businesses. We are in 2 different worlds. I only concern how to raise my kids and to take care of my husband. He has hypertension (being too fat) and he needs to on medication everyday. I hope that we can still enjoy ourselves after the kids graduate from school. So, I told him that he has to keep himself healthy and I don't allow him to die too soon. I always tease him saying that I will buy him his dream car when we celebrate our 30th anniversary. He will be 74 at that time, hahaha

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wakaka.... I am here for 5 years lor..
Ellie...
your relatives just like my mom's relative.. exactly the same.. wakaka... (wish every body worse than them).
They even said that I got pregnant before we married, so that is the reason we must have wedding.
WHAT???? We got married at 02, and at 03, I was pregnant. Too soon.. well.. can't go back and do it again.. If I could.. I will wait until I settle down in US and make sure that I love to stay before I conceive.
My aunt kept saying that I am not virgin when I was married. therefore I got pregnant so easy. And she kept telling my mom that I sure gave birth at about May that year.
My mom got so upset and ran to me and shout at me.. well.. What I told her.. haha
I said, if Amanda was born at May 03, not Sept 23.. (however, Amanda was born at Aug 11, pre-mature-6 weeks early) fine.. I will cut Amanda's head down and let her sister to sit on it.. In fact, she should tell her sister to lay down, under my daughter's dead body. If I have a dirty mouth.. who is even worst.. that made all those dirty story about her niece.. just because I got married with a person, with a small business in US and Australia, and can afford to have a wedding in hk with all relatives from other countries??? she can also have her children to find someone like that?
I have no dolls and toys in my childhood, but it doesn't need to be sad.. on Mid Autumn festival while other kids had electric lantan.. I have the one from the grapefruit that my grandpa made for me.
I love that one ..Still!!
I did have very rich live when I first got married with my husband.. we travelled a lot, and left the company with his sister.. however, on the period she took over, she sold it and ran away, we have a factory with more than 100 staffs.. just only 2 months.. she sold every thing and took all money with her.
Well, my husband has been down for more than 2 years, and my 99 was crying and said that I was the bad luck daughter in law, whom took her daugher away from her.. come one, her daughter was the one whom stole my husband company and sold it, and took all money and ran away!
That period, i did not tell my family about that.. I studied my license at home, looked after my daughter, got my license and I went to work in hospital immediately.. just to get income to run the family....
it took my husband 3 years for him to wake up.. that he shouldn't sit at home and stay in his "blue". I needed support as well.. Glad that I got out from my PPD because of BK.. then, I got my license and I would stand up and support the family.
For me.. I only meet my husband's family once a year or not even once a year.. those people will only try to hurt my children, all dirty words from their mouths, are unbelievable. that you couldn't believe that they receive university education.
Some even have their child that is about 2 years old.. that was the first time we met.. my son, 3 years old, the first time to meet his aunts and uncle. under my 62's requested.
If not necessary.. better to keep distant if they are not supportive..
Ellie,
I know that you may have better live here than in hk. For those relatives whom asks for your help.. ha.. forget them and you did it right. just give those jurk a smile (sorry for my dirty mouth).

原帖由 ellie79 於 10-3-5 11:17 AM 發表
真係希望大家會KEEP住響呢度~
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Rose-Mag,

好呀~ 實有機會架~
我自己都幾鐘意小朋友...我都好希望第日會生兩個...
但係我老公就話要4個...佢唔係講笑既...十分應真...
因為佢好多理論同你講果D一樣...
想佢地大既時候有buddies一齊大...
無咁悶...因為我老公係only child...
佢話唔想自己d仔女好似佢細個咁...

雖然我仲未明白做人媽媽既感受...
但係已經pic到會係點...一時激死你...一時lum死你~
haha...都幾得意~

你爸媽既擔心...就好似我亞婆咁囉...
成日驚我去到無個照應...
不過係咁架啦...就算我地幾好...佢地都會搵d野擔心下...
但係呢d都係一d動力黎架播...
因為我愛既人擔心我...所以我要比任何人活得更好...更識照顧自己~~~ hohoho~~~

你老公點肥法呀?
我2年前同老公結婚果時...佢165 lbs...有身型仲有6 packs...2010年CNY我響機場一見到佢...已經190 lbs + 6神合體...haha...我相信未來既日子...佢既體重係仲有得進步...
我都要學下你搵D野引誘佢...等佢錫下自己身體先~

原帖由 rose-mag 於 10-3-6 02:15 發表

Hi Ellie,
I live in San Francisco, a few drive from LA. So, if you have time to visit here, please contact me and play with my 2 kids. When they are good, they are angels and adorable. But, most of ...

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Nillie,

真係果D咁既三姑6婆...把口真係唔收...咁都up得出...
講真...幾時生關佢鬼事咩...又唔係叫佢生...
佢(your aunt)就真係queen of dirty mouth啦...
佢係唔係無仔女果D人黎架?
定係佢D仔女係和尚/師姑???
定係佢而家仲係VIRGIN??? wakakakakaka~
佢呢D就正一叫做唔低得...佢無呀MA...咪係咁踩人囉...
佢呢D叫變態~

沙田由燈籠係唔係? 我都有~ 亞婆整既~~~
HOHOHOHOHOHOH~~~

嘩...因為錢咁走左去...
你老公個SIS真係@!%@#!^$!&^%#$(粗口)
咁你就一個女人負責晒咁多野養家呀???
你真係好TOUGH~
你99果d就真係極品....................痾屎唔出"奶"地硬...
佢個女錯在先...如果比著我...呢一世都唔見佢...

我就更係唔理果d親戚啦...啋佢都有味...
而家d堂亞哥...都定時定候打黎問我借錢...
我有錢都唔會借比佢地...
因為佢地風光既時候要我地住房仔...
到佢地唔掂既時候先搵我地幫...
係有人性既都唔會幫佢...你估拍戲咩~

你唔係dirty mouth啦~ dirty mouth係你個virgin aunt~ :p

原帖由 Nillie_Mami 於 10-3-6 02:35 發表
wakaka.... I am here for 5 years lor..
Ellie...
your relatives just like my mom's relative.. exactly the same.. wakaka... (wish every body worse than them).
They even said that I got pregnant before w ...

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ellie,
你好鬼"西""利"喎!! 我啲cantonese English 你都睇得明! wakaka!!!

office 冇手寫板呀! 冇法喇!
我阿姨..生2個仔.. 都令佢好心up... 所以佢"唔見得有人好過佢".. otherwise, 佢有顛婆偉論一大堆等住你...
佢試過叫我養埋佢喇, 攪假working visa 去申請佢個仔(我表弟)嚟美國做廚師喇, 介紹美女(美國女人)俾佢個仔假結婚喇... well. 咁嘅大人, 心術不正, 最好遠離一啲...
個沙田柚燈籠仲瀝歴在目.... 童年時有爺爺,嫲嫲牽住手嘅日子, 係永不磨滅.
所以, 我以前幾嬲99無理取鬧都好.. as long as 佢錫, 唔harm我小朋友, 我都教Amanda同Gabriel 要尊重同錫佢自己爺爺嫲嫲

原帖由 ellie79 於 10-3-5 05:16 PM 發表
Nillie,

真係果D咁既三姑6婆...把口真係唔收...咁都up得出...
講真...幾時生關佢鬼事咩...又唔係叫佢生...
佢(your aunt)就真係queen of dirty mouth啦...
佢係唔係無仔女果D人黎架?
定係佢D仔女係和尚/師姑???
定 ...

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nillie,

HAHA~ 因為我果D都係cantonese english囉~

講真...佢兩個仔令佢心UP...佢自己更加要有口德...仲講三講四...火星先岩呢D人住...HAHA~
點養埋佢呀...之前一巴一巴咁打...仲叫你養埋佢? 德蘭修女都有火啦...佢都傻傻地~

我身邊呢D心術不正既人...其實全部都係亞爸果邊既親戚...佢地有錢既時候唔積屋防饑...好景既時候...每一家都幾層樓...有車有狗狗...響澳門賭場一手大細都20萬...堂家姐6年班已經用Gucci...堂亞哥中五出黎就做老闆...如果佢地有用腦去RUN亞爺既公司...跟本唔洗休...到亞爺亞嫲死晒...無人管住D錢...就開始癲...佢地只係未去到要上法庭掙家產咋...
我就無呢D福氣...不過我覺得好彩無囉...如果唔係都幾大獲~ HAHA~ 而家佢地打黎約我我打死都話唔得閒囉~

做親戚/朋友既...我都係覺得得人因果千年記...我成日同自己講...人地比$1我...我要比番$10人...有福氣先有機會受人恩惠...但係換轉另一面...你打我一巴...我要打番你10巴...有因就有果...我都幾硬頸~

嘩...我仲記得果D沙田柚燈籠...我會身手入去抓D內皮...攪到隻手一陣柚味...其實係幾臭既...HAHA~

原帖由 Nillie_Mami 於 10-3-6 19:47 發表
ellie,
你好鬼"西""利"喎!! 我啲cantonese English 你都睇得明! wakaka!!!
office 冇手寫板呀! 冇法喇!
我阿姨..生2個仔.. 都令佢好心up... 所以佢"唔見得有人好過佢".. otherwise, 佢有顛婆偉論一大堆等 ...

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Lillian wong,
I found one training school in Flushing, for the beauty training.
May be you can ask them the way how to get your license verified.
http://www.gracebeautyschool.com
718-886-6660
136-31 41 st Avenue, 6th Floor, Flushing, NY 11355

For the art and music class, you can relax a bit, there are a lot of art and music schools in Brooklyn, but for 古箏, I haven't seen any school provide it yet.. but did hear from radio that they have ppl teaching it in Queens, or Manhattan 2-3 years ago..

原帖由 Lillianwong 於 10-2-23 11:43 AM 發表
Dear Nillie,

您好!

1. 我在香港考取了國際專業美容和化妝 - 英國 ITEC 出的 Diploma for Beauty Specialists, 不知在美國承認否?

2. 我囡囡想去到美國繼續學:(i) 鋼琴6級, 她剛剛考完了英國皇家的5級樂理試, 現 ...

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Ellie, Nillie,

咩人都有,我地都唔會明佢地係咩心態,因為我地唔係好似佢地咁心理變態,我而家做咗媽咪,我會成日諗,我會唔會想我小朋友第時會咁,如果係唔想,我就唔會做,因為佢地會copy父母嘅言行,好似有d父母扼綜援,以為有著數唔駛本,咁你估佢地d仔女會點諗,一係好睇唔起自己父母,一係大個做埋一份~

扼綜援,假結婚我聽過亦都見過,有父母為咗扼政府錢辦離婚,個媽就以單親申請福利,個女入大學有靘宿舍又有資助,個爸爸送架新車俾佢做禮物,但佢話冇錢交學費,你話有冇離譜d~

我都有朋友為咗wic,取消晒d銀行a/c,平日用現金,份工又係出現金,明明有老公養,佢同社工講老公走咗佬,其實係喺大陸做嘢,為嘅係d免費芝士奶粉果汁,佢食唔晒果d佢就送俾人,佢可以一日買2個fendi袋幾件burberry衫,但就個個月去walgreens攞免費嘢~

我d有錢親戚都係,有免費嘢點都唔會唔要,有d仲覺你有好嘢一定要預埋佢地,但佢地有好嘢我地一定冇份,我d亞叔姑姐好多都係人辦,媽果邊好少少,我老公d親戚仲經典,亞婆一死就親戚都冇得做,因為爭家產,兩個仔加個細女霸晒d遺產,其他女可以係分得好少,甚至係冇,原來亞婆死前一年佢地同佢改遺囑,果時佢都90幾,我都唔知係唔係佢自願改,以前所有人一年聚十次八次,老公同佢d舅父亞e成日通電話,而家一年都唔見一次,因為我老公知佢地太多嘢,亞婆死咗之後佢地即時變臉,老公初初都睇唔開,唔明點解由細到一實玩嘅亞e(大老公6年)會唔啋佢,一字咁淺:錢!

唉,錢真係咁好咩,值得人出賣自己親人咩?唔明!不過,兩個舅父都有報應,佢地唔分錢俾自己姊妹,亞婆死咗冇耐,佢地出租果間apartment building大火,燒咗唔知幾個單位,要執番好都要一大筆~

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Rose-mag,
that's happened to my mother's side.. but only on my aunt... all my uncles from my mother's side are good people, my father's side are very nice..to us too.
The dangerous people in our whole extended family is my mother and my aunt, the two female.

Well.. that also one of the reason, i don't want to go back to hk with my ex-fiance. I really don't want to return to hk that time from Australia.. I want to stay in Australia that time. And my fat bear hubby knew that so, he asked if I would cancel the wedding with my ex-fiance (whom doesn't want to go to Australia and stay with me, he wants to stay in hk).
However, end up.. I landed in US. Well.. I don't know if I have a chance to choose again.. what I will do.. but at least, at this point, I am satified what I have.
Rose-mag,
I thought that your family will have all nice people, because from the words you wrote, I feel that you are a very sweet person, like surrounded by love.

原帖由 rose-mag 於 10-3-8 05:40 AM 發表
Ellie, Nillie,

咩人都有,我地都唔會明佢地係咩心態,因為我地唔係好似佢地咁心理變態,我而家做咗媽咪,我會成日諗,我會唔會想我小朋友第時會咁,如果係唔想,我就唔會做,因為佢地會copy父母嘅言行,好似有d父母扼綜援, ...

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原帖由 Nillie_Mami 於 10-3-8 21:57 發表
Rose-mag,
that's happened to my mother's side.. but only on my aunt... all my uncles from my mother's side are good people, my father's side are very nice..to us too.

Nillie,
You are right. I think that I am lucky with so many nice people around me. Although my family was very poor when I was a kid (we are not rich now but we are satisfied with what we have), my parents would not let us feel inferior to the others. All the children did not have pocket money until in the secondary school and we were taught not to waste money on unnecessary stuff. We seldom ate junk food and soda (these were luxury). We created our own toys and my mom sew our dresses (too bad that she did not keep any, I would like my daughter to wear those dresses). We drew, we read and we shared. That's why I am close to my brothers and sister even though we are now in 2 different countries.

My father worked hard and he is never greedy or always laughs. My mom has bad temper but she loves kids. My children are just so lucky to have grandmother to take care of them. Both my kids love my parents. My father-in-law is stubborn but he loves our kids. If my mother-in-law is not greedy and selfish, she is a nice person but I teach my kids to respect the older generation anyway. I never let them call their names directly. They have to say grandfather, grandmother, uncle XXX, auntie XXX when we visit their home. I don't like the idea for the kids to call the older generation by names and I expect to my kids that they cannot call uncle XXX as XXX because it is no manner. Both of my kids seem to understand, they keep repeating my words, LOL.

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we have similar background.. no toys or much junk food..
my father is not a fun person.. hee hee.. but I love my father... because my father loves my children.
my mother.. well, she loves my brother's children, but she loves to show off that she have 2 grandchildren can not speak chinese (wired human beginings) whom live in US.
I am not take close to my slibing, because we separate apart since we were young. We used to be very close..
Well.. every one has their families, it doesn't matter anymore --at least for me.

But ... Ellie,
I wish that you will keep the close relationship with your slibing.. they are your support!

I taught my children as the same, call grandma as mama, Grandpa as yeah yeah, uncle is uncle, auntie is auntie.
Respect is very important. Manner is what this generation always easily forget.. so the way to keep it up.. is up to us.. to remind them all the time!

原帖由 rose-mag 於 10-3-8 03:51 PM 發表

Nillie,
You are right. I think that I am lucky with so many nice people around me. Although my family was very poor when I was a kid (we are not rich now but we are satisfied with what we have), my ...

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Dear Nillie,

您好!

唔好意思呀...我近來忙著囡囡的事 (佢學校經常都要推啲學生出去幫學校參加校際比賽, 小息都無埋用喱練習, 放學後又留堂用喱練習, 唉...返到屋企, 要趕功課, 又要默書, 晚晚11點幾先上得床, 朝早7點就要起身, 琴都無時間練...), 所以我很久沒有上來這裡了...

Nillie, 今日, 望一望, 才看到您給我的 message, 您知道嗎? 天涯海角, 素未謀面, 原來您一直都在幫忙我,找尋資料...這一刻, 無疑, 我是感動的! Nillie, 再次謝謝您!

Nillie, 我三姑奶在02年時, 移民加拿大前送了一部20多年的鋼琴給我囡囡 (佢當時只有兩歲), 到我囡囡四歲時才開始學鋼琴, 現在已學了六年了, 我囡囡人比較懶, 所以在鋼琴路上, 我出盡法寶, 唔易行呢..., 現在, 老師教她彈一些名曲, 她十分喜歡, 彈起上來很投入, 有板有眼, 鋼琴的聲音的確很動聽, 想起上次我倆帶著憂愁從美國回來, 我囡囡就是彈了這首 <夢中的婚禮>, 真的, 聽了這美妙的音樂, 人變得豁然開朗, 不會為些小事計較了...

Nillie, 她的古箏老師說在唐人街可嘗試找老師, 如果找不著, 惟有暫停...

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我會架啦~~~ ^_^V

原帖由 Nillie_Mami 於 10-3-9 05:12 發表
we have similar background.. no toys or much junk food..
my father is not a fun person.. hee hee.. but I love my father... because my father loves my children.
my mother.. well, she loves my brother' ...

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LillianWong,
You are very welcome.. I wish that once you settle, and when you see the new comers need help, you won't mind to give them a hand.

For Piano and art class, sure with no problem, and many of them operated by chinese as well.
I personally like those Russian teacher, because they are tough.. the way they learned piano in their home country.. not many people can do it.
So, they know the way how to teach others.
My daughter.. same as your daughter.. she won't practise with the boring pieces.. she needs challenge all the time.

If you need cantonese teacher, one of our BK moms are piano teacher at home. I will let her know if you are interested.

for "Goo Tsang".. I couldn't find it.. I am sorry.. but I will ask moms in Queens, if the Queens parents magazine indicate anything.. or the newspaper has any ad. on it.
Sorry for my memories loss.. when will you land again?

原帖由 Lillianwong 於 10-3-9 11:26 AM 發表
Dear Nillie,

您好!

唔好意思呀...我近來忙著囡囡的事 (佢學校經常都要推啲學生出去幫學校參加校際比賽, 小息都無埋用喱練習, 放學後又留堂用喱練習, 唉...返到屋企, 要趕功課, 又要默書, 晚晚11點幾先上得床, 朝 ...

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Dear Nillie,

您好!

我們原本預備好四月份正式移民美國, 但,現在情況有變, 要到6月份尾先走得...

Nillie, 最近, 您有沒有留意香港新聞? 香港的樓市瘋狂飄升, 係直線上升(好顛) ...

講起呢件事, 心有餘悸...我和丈夫在舊年09年7月時份填完表格230, 一心諗著賣咗層居屋套現, 到美國後就有錢傍身...

又會咁啱, 就響個時, 有個代理問我們賣樓否? 我丈夫好心急, 於是被代理游說下簽咗份臨時買賣合約, 代理即晚跟著我丈夫回家, 我被丈夫勸說已經收咗買家 6 萬元訂金, 去到美國唔使靠人地...又唔使睇面色...有錢可以進修..., 好啦, 簽咗臨約三日後, 個代理日日打喱問我要我應承10月份交樓, 我反問佢合約明明係寫明12尾成交, 當晚, 我先至會簽名嘅喎?

於是, 我問房署才發現居屋在簽臨約同時, 係要去申請補地價先可以賣出和出租嘅, 12月份成交補地價根本係犯咗法...10月份啱啱好就成交補地價兼唔犯法..., 我如夢初醒, 欲哭無淚, 待痛定思痛後, 我賣晒結婚時所有金飾, 籌得有10萬銀賠償被買家+代理佣金, 現在, 層樓還被買家訂咗挈...

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Dear Nillie,

我層居屋由舊年7月出事到而家都還未搞掂, 好煩... 我係真金白銀10萬元賠償咗被人, 人地都唔樂意要, 係嫌賠得少呀...啲人好惡啊, 人心不足, 唔知係咪要永久訂我地挈? Nillie, 好好彩, 我層樓, 當初如果真係被人炒出去,由10月份交樓到而家, 樓價狂升咗5-60萬呀!!!

人心太貪了...我真係唔想被人利用去炒, 您知嗎? Nillie, 現時連私家樓, 唐樓, 村屋, 居屋, 公屋, 車位...統統都炒得好厲害, 我有個朋友快快走去考代理牌, 佢話趁勢撈油水喎...

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