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Re: 彥媽與你:BB 讀書/學習交流站 (答問區)

Susanna:

好肯講出自己問題, 聽完人地意見, 當然會互補不足, 遇到坊間好學習方式也會介紹比其他家長
==> so I have to say you are lucky here...you got a good group of 家長 here. But what you need to aware 係...上到小學, 人人都在忙, 忙為細路既功課打點, 再仲得唔得閒同你 share is one point, 第二, 一級 240人, 當你將成績由"做唔做到"呢d 變成分數再排位既話, 係唔係人人反應都係一樣就係 another story. 第三, 係唔係人人都會主動呢又係 a critical factor. 好多時係三數家長一 group 係得既

其實我信人心個個都係本性善良, 但當大家都係 fight for the same thing 既時候, 人仲可唔可以變得大方就係 another story.

而小朋友方面又能相處融洽
==> of course, 依家好多 feeling 都係我知, 我見 only, 大彥根本唔會知, 我亦唔想俾佢知, 不過我見得人多, 好似大契話齋 : "係人係鬼我一眼就睇得出啦" :mrgreen: :mrgreen: :mrgreen:

這一切也令我覺得當日選培正係無錯,
==> 當你係 so clear about your decision critieria 既時候, all the decisions 就係"無錯" to you. :lol:

現在只希望升到小學, 也能有這樣家長與我們一班.
==> 小學年年都會大兜亂, 一般只會有 4, 5 個係幼稚園當日同班個d 人 (尤其係小一) , 唔好"望" 有這樣的家長了, 大個左番工我都冇得"望"我d同事係個個好人啦, so 我只係不斷 deal with such situation and train up myself la...somehow 真係有用架...

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彥彥媽咪,

或者競爭唔係PC獨有的，HK既文化同氣氛係咁，比其他地方更大。小朋友咁細個要入戰場，HK教育好失敗呀。100%先進城市竟然有咁落後既教育方向

。家長亦係惡性競爭製造者，細路點會輕鬆面對學業呢？

我亦係呢個教育體制下，一樣感染左緊張情緒，阿女亦唔係學習得咁超卓。成日叫自己想開一點，但又談何容易呢？ :-|

學習得唔超卓本唔係咁致命，因唔係個個係PC 既 superkids。但當身邊家長個個公文式、補習班、私人普通話/english native speaker上門教.... 又點唔會有心理壓力呀！仲有，kinder時代都已有家長唔分享你知佢個kids係邊度學野架啦。我估小學更自我保護啦。彥媽係少見既super mom 呀。

家長怕比人叻過自己小朋友，唔過料囉！

我知有d 2年冇獎攞，又感自己小朋友好叻既家長 (because they put so much efforts to train them), 操練得小朋友幾多的。不過，我見真係醒既kids又唔洗用呢套方法的！唔知係咪咁刻意train up 小朋友，使到d kids 好有壓力，咁冇獎攞d parents 又 train 多d。

看罷小學現實既百態，我心裡感覺唔好的。我囡囡成績唔係好，暫時都有家長支持下我，這點我好感激的！

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我都知呢d情況唔只會在PC出現,其他學校一様有.但我最關心就係學校方面.叻學生學校一定鍾意,至於唔叻or中游的學生學校又會點?
見過個朋友大女同細仔同一學校(band 2頭嗰隻), 個女成績好學校話可以推薦佢升間band1英中之類.個仔(好似好多男仔一様,掛注玩,唔讀書,但佢其實好醒嗰隻)成績差,group了去差班,都唔緊要,但學校竟然可以個細路唔交功課成3個月都唔知.要個家長搵下佢同级唔都班d同學問吓,先知佢個仔冇做某一本習作成3個月.學校又唔理.個朋友後來主動話要見老師,問佢地係唔係放棄咗佢個仔,學校先同佢講話原來佢嗰班轉了幾次班主任所以follow唔到.死未!Of Course, this is a very extreme case. I choose PC for my boy because I believe that it has enough resources to provide good quality teaching environment. I believe PC will tackle problem students with a much appropriate attitude.

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Re: 彥媽與你:BB 讀書/學習交流站 (答問區)

彥媽,

你講得超正!!!

Lulu

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Emanuel

叻學生學校一定鍾意,至於唔叻or中游的學生學校又會點?
==> hehe...呢個 point....er er...咁丫.....你幾時加入我地 HMT 大軍呀, 你黎探我, tea tea , 我教你搭車買送之餘先講你聽啦,

Lulu0820:

You 幾時又得閒呀, 我地幾個一齊 tea 一 tea 啦...

我掛住你, 想見下你喎~~

你大女今年玩乜 summer activities ar...

Ellensu:

Agree (競爭唔係培正獨有)
==>以前 PC 冇乜人吼冇乜人爭個時係架, 因為個個都唔多 likey 佢係中中, 但自從出左一個 10A , 一個崔琦甚麼的 (真係百幾年先出一個咋喎) 外界人士對 PC 既 rating 即刻高左十倍, 再加上個個家長都怕左個派位抽獎制, so 本來唔吼 PC 個d 都因為有一條龍就話要黎讀, so 個個都對 PC 有所期望, 因此連學校自己都要 motivate 自己提昇, 所以壓力多左係自不然既事, 不過佢係私立, 又係一條龍, 可以自給自足, so already 好過好多出面個d 要搏派位好先可以企得住腳既小學架喇...

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七月呀!七月呀!
"以前 PC 冇乜人吼冇乜人爭個時係架...."
==>係呀,我讀書嗰時,佢真係冇嘜人吼㗎,唔係差但又唔係好lor

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Emanuel:

七月呀!七月呀!
==> okok....到時你 free 就 call me la....Check PM...有d野都係唔好咁張揚, hehe...我怕俾人滅口呀...

:mrgreen: :mrgreen:

係呀,我讀書嗰時,佢真係冇嘜人吼㗎,唔係差但又唔係好lor
==> 咪就係話你知時代會變 lor, 家長同老師既諗法都係, 所以唔係你想唔想既問題 only, 係要睇埋人地的, 好似同枱打麻雀咁架咋 (我唔係賭鬼呀, 唔好誤會

) , 你用正路去打, 人地就好 "strategic" 咁去打, then provided 最後係只可以有一個贏 (or max 2) , then 你估人地會點打呢呵??~~ 打排球呀, 進攻都有"虛擊球" 喇...係某d家長眼中, 個d 行為係叫"戰術", 所以 they dun feel there's a problem ga...

Somehow 我都好欣賞佢地可以花 so much effort to do so ga...畢竟都要心機的~~ (真心的) 係我蠢, 唔識做, 乜都講哂俾人聽咋~~

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testing...

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Re: 彥媽與你:BB 讀書/學習交流站 (答問區)

彥彥媽咪寫道:

Lulu0820:

You 幾時又得閒呀, 我地幾個一齊 tea 一 tea 啦... 我掛住你, 想見下你喎~~

你大女今年玩乜 summer activities ar...

彥媽,

你幾時得閒call我啦!最好放暑假前,我兩位小姐放假我就一定行唔開!

唔好提今年暑假活動 :-( :-( ...我今年原本諗住比呀囡集中d學好d而家學緊既野(溜冰,游水同學琴),諗住搵左個私人教練教游水,就集中火力一星期學三日,一個暑假學識,點知d個月個教練好似食錯藥錦,約幾次都約唔到,今朝約左,我去到泳池等佢40mins,佢no show, call 佢唔覆!!!

後尾佢話剛剛病好,所以唔記得左!

佢arm arm send 左個好sincere既sms黎say sorry,原本煩緊想換人...今次都係比多次機會佢!下次係錦一定唔理佢!

Lulu

PS:唔好意思...今朝實在太

,借左你個位黎呻吓! :mrgreen:

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坦白講, 見到人地學咩自己又想個女學 (怕蝕底心態), 但邊黎咁多錢? 就算有錢, 都要睇個女鍾吾鍾意, 如果佢吾鍾意只係浪費時間同公錢. 有時做家長都頭痕.

我都知上到小學會面對好多問題, 我都只有同個女講做好自己先, 吾好理人地咁多, 但如果朋友有困難就要幫下手 (依家幼稚園都有同學打黎問功課), 但我地真係吾好比太大壓力自已同小朋友, 吾好嚇怕佢返學心理.

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彥媽,
乜都講哂俾人聽,做人堂堂正正=/=蠢呀,相信好多妳嘅bk fans都係因為妳咁所以錫哂妳㗎...

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Emanuel:

多謝你, 難得 parents 們唔嫌我又老又 tsum 氣就得喇...hehe...得閒多d幫襯 here, 我要寫多d字先做到"長老"架 (this is my target)

不過有排都未得~

Later you go to join 我地 "HMT mama club" la...我地成日交換情報邊樹有好野學 (又平又抵個d), hehe

Lulu0820:

icic...喂...if 第日你決定飛你個 swimming coach, 我介紹我阿仔個比你丫...依家我大中彥跟佢 (same time) 1 對 2, 都唔錯架.....我再試真多幾堂再上黎報告~~

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彥彥媽咪,

你咁敢言& helpful，相信我地呢班fans個個錫晒你架！

我都想知多d，PC老師對中游學生點架？唔知方便過料比我冇呀

因小女係呢個組群，同埋都係發白日夢一族 (same as her mom at work!)

Ellen

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Hi all, I'm from 0603 but I'm the fans of this forum and would like to share with you my comments on Private Schools / Good Hope School 德望 as I completed my secondary level there.

- English is good. Both Athletics and Choir are wth reputation.

HOWEVER, I will not let my children to study here (not just Good Hope School but all the traditional famous schools such as DBS, DGS, MARYKNOLL........).

1) I don't like traditional boys or girls school. I can tell you that there were lots of lesbians when I studied there 20 years ago

. I still think unisex school is the best (the most natural) atmosphere to bring up the kids

2) Nowadays, many families have the ability to let the children to get into the private schools. But the problem is if you have the ability to give your kids more for the competition (not just compete in school results but also which brand of school bag you bring in and how much your family can donate in different kinds of school functions).

My husband studied in St Stephen's (Stanley) and he feels the same for the 2nd pt (his school is unisexual).
I'm not saying each student studied in private school would be the same but many of them are like this. This is the situation I knew 20 years ago and I'm sure it won't get better in these days.

The last thing I want to say.......many parents let their children get into these traditional famous schools may be due to their own wishes to complete the desire that was not done in their teenage. Also, get proud of it among the other parents. I do think this is a selfish behaviour. Have you even thought it deeply? Does it really suitable for your beloved kids?

I apologize here if I offend any one of you

. I'm not saying traditional private school is bad. Of course, it can be a good option but, as we are the only one our children can rely on, we have the responsiblity to make sure these schools do really fit our kids.

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Re: 彥媽與你 BB 讀書/學習交流站

我BB剛13個月大，一路都冇乜系統咁教佢野，我覺得唔係幾好。
想問吓你地有冇响屋企用緊D有系統的教材教BB呀？我好心急呀！因為BB一日一日咁大，如果再唔比D好野佢學，將來有排都追唔返呀！ :-|

[size=large]請進入朗朗的網頁吧！
[size=large]很開心可以著返生bb前的衫！你也可以的！請來分享我的喜悅！

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chan2006:

先 welcome you to join us here~~

因為BB一日一日咁大，如果再唔比D好野佢學，將來有排都追唔返呀！
==> 不過....睇你問得呢個問題 (要俾野佢學, 唔係有排都學唔返) 我就知你一定係冇睇過彥媽之前寫既野, otherwise 你一定唔會咁問的.

不如咁丫.....可否先請你睇下我精華篇d野, 你就會知彥媽對"要唔要咁早學野" 同 "要學d乜" 有d乜分享的了, 若到時你都覺得 somehow 對你都有d insights 既時候, 你先再黎問丫...包會更有用.

但若你真係好想要 bb "學野"既, 你出去主版 post a thread 應該都有好多媽咪有回應的.

Thanks~~

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BB成長期:

我是否由你第一篇文章開始看
==> 我呢個 topic 主要係討論同讀書, 性格培養之類有關的學習為主, 同你想知既 "因bb連奶樽都不願提起, 他只會提起奶樽飲水, 又未懂得去"大大", 有時得有時" 唔完全一樣, 呢類 topic 好多 other parents 已另有 topic 在講, 你可以 join, 佢地應會幫到你的. 但我信若你有時間先睇"精華篇", 再睇"交流站" 一定都會有用.

想他學0野, 但沒辦法入手
==> 教 BB learn 你講既野一d都唔難, 一個字 : 係"恆心"而己, 同"規律" + "耐性", 要記住, 早期階段既 BB 學野全係靠 "role modelling" (你做佢就會跟住做), 同 "reinforcement" (強化, 即不斷定期重覆同樣行為), then BB 就會 learn 到的了.