tinama
re : your 99
sometimes it's not easy to handle.. I understand your situation.. but to your hubby.. she is his mom. For me.. I'll try to sit & talk to 99 very gentle... just like watching TV & talking to her how to do.. do you think is it OK?
you & 99 not in the same family... of course so many difference on everythings... if no choice (have to live together), then must talk to 99 & find a way to solve the problems.