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子爵府

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發表於 11-12-1 10:48 |只看該作者
回覆 bb@wonderland 的帖子

bb@wonderland:

We did not go through the 自行, as we already accept one DSS offer in a very early stage. Now I am now choosing between HKUGA and Raimondi.
==> seems like you really scare of the lucky draw system? Or you have special preference in DSS/private school which you believe they offer higher quality education?

I am neutral to both sides - no matter govt/subsidized ones or DSS/private ones; my point is just to raise the concern to those parents that "drawing lots" is NOT that scaring as you may think. And, the most important of all, most of the govt/subsidized schools are not bad, and not inferior than DSS/private schools in terms of their academic results. It is not that difficult to get a seat for your kid which you like - unless you only think that La Salle, St Joseph, Wan Yan would be the only ones you put an eye on.

To keep my answer short and simple, send your boy to HKUGA then. Raimondi for sure will give you more homework which your boy would not like.

In a acitvity-based school, like HKUAG, I am not sure he can get a satisfactory result, as his presentation skill is not that good, and he may not be 主動 enough in participating in the discussion etc.
==> Presentation is something that could be trained via practices. Kids are still under their development stages and for sure peer influence will take him through this process, no worry at all.

It seems a difficult task for me to make a decision. I know many ppls on the wait list are waiting for the offer, and I really do not want to hold too long.
==> As long as you know what you are looking for, decision would not be difficult. It's just we never really understand what we need, and somehow we have to admit - we all want ONE school which provides EVERYTHING that we want to us, right? But we also know the reality that there is no such school (or husband, haha!) in the world! Have a second thought on this, check on your priorities, and then you will know what you want to do - this is the fundamental of planning - if you believe in this.

Any comments on St. Paul's Boy (he is on the first batch waiting list), CKY (having the 2nd interview soon) and Ying Wa (waiting the result).
==> First of all, I would say all these schools you are talking about are almost ALL BK parents would go for, haha, really interesting - I always got a feeling from all the forums here that it seems 唔考呢d 學校好似有d 唔正常咁, well..I said so not becos I dun like them, they are all good schools, but I just know very clearly what I want, e.g. I would not bother to go for Ying Wa, as this schools is not so "attractive" to a stage that could attract me to move to Kowloon side.

FYI, for my boy Cyrus, I only send him to HKUGA and St Paul boys, but unfortunately he is not as smart as other kids so he failed them all. Raimondi, Kau Yan, SPCC, DBS, YW are not the schools I want, so I dun even care to send in a form. I make such decision because I know where I am going to and what I want.

So, again, relax and think of your needs, and your expectations, consider the amount of resources (time, $$ etc) that you are able and willing to put in, then you would be able to make up your mind.

Take care and good luck~


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發表於 11-12-1 11:19 |只看該作者
本帖最後由 bb@wonderland 於 11-12-1 11:20 編輯

彥彥媽咪

So glad to receive your reply. You are right that I am scare of the lucky draw system, as I have “no luck” in any draw before. (haha). Anyway, already withdrawal from the system, so better think forward.

If regardless my boy’s character, you also prefer HKUGA to Raimondi? Can you share your reasoning behind? HKUGA as a new activity-based school, without long history of tracking record, as I remember in your previous threads, it seems not your cup of tea.

Why did you not consider Raimondi? To me, Raimondi is similar to St. Paul’s Boy. Is it becoz Raimondi is not a dragon school?

What if St. Paul’s Boy vs. HKUGA?

If not consider location and school fee, purely judging from the school (both primary and secondary), how would you rank? your preference?
-St. Paul’s boy, HKUGA, Raimondi, Ying Wa and CKY.

Thank you in advance for your advice.


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1103#
發表於 11-12-7 18:12 |只看該作者
本帖最後由 彥彥媽咪 於 11-12-8 00:41 編輯

回覆 bb@wonderland 的帖子

bb@wonderland:

If regardless my boy’s character, you also prefer HKUGA to Raimondi? Can you share your reasoning behind? HKUGA as a new activity-based school, without long history of tracking record, as I remember in your previous threads, it seems not your cup of tea.
==> I am acting according what you said your boy is. Yes, I will normally pick a school with proven track record, which HKUGA is not. However, my first priority of picking a school is NOT proven track record, it is the kid who I care about. So if I were put in such situation, I will go for a school which meets my boy's capability and interest. Yet you need not share my priorities. You should decide on your own.


Why did you not consider Raimondi? To me, Raimondi is similar to St. Paul’s Boy. Is it becoz Raimondi is not a dragon school?
==> How much research have you done on this school? As far as I know, Raimondi is a private boy's school for long and pretty famous at the HK side like St Paul Boys. It is only until the last few years that it started to admit girls. For years that Raimondi has its secondary school to take all of its primary students, so it is a dragon school! That's why I said "it is similar to St Paul Boys"

Check here: http://www.chsc.hk/psp/sch_detail1.php?lang_id=2&sch_id=409&return_page=psp_sch_list.php%3Flang_id%3D2%26search_mode%3D%26frmMode%3Dpagebreak%26district_id%3D5%26page%3D2


What if St. Paul’s Boy vs. HKUGA?
HKUGA, according to my priorities.

If not consider location and school fee, purely judging from the school (both primary and secondary), how would you rank? your preference?
-St. Paul’s boy, HKUGA, Raimondi, Ying Wa and CKY.
=> I guess you should be the one to rank, not me. Apparently I can see that we have quite different sets of values in picking schools, so I dun think my list would meet your need, and therefore it may not mean anything to you.

Again, you should know your kid and your own preferences much better than I do. And I can see, in fact, between our communication that you should have the list in your heart already, and you have to trust yourself. You need not check with others to tell you your priority list of schools. If you think A school is better, then go for A!

However, I should thank you for taking my opinion and feedback seriously. All parents made decisions with their own reasons and they are all sound reasons. It's just a matter of fact that we are looking for different things.

Go for what you want, and this would be the best decision for your kid.

Rgds


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1104#
發表於 11-12-7 19:13 |只看該作者
彥彥媽咪


During the entire process, searching information, filling application form, doing all these interviews, waiting for the results, making decisions, I sometimes feel lost.

Thanks again for your feedback. I will make the best decision at the end.

Best wishes to you and your kids.










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本帖最後由 彥彥媽咪 於 11-12-8 00:54 編輯

回覆 bb@wonderland 的帖子

bb@wonderland:

During the entire process, searching information, filling application form, doing all these interviews, waiting for the results, making decisions, I sometimes feel lost.

==> you (or other parents) feel lost is NOT because of the overflow of information, it is because you all want to "control" as much as you can, and therefore the more you know, the more you want to control, as that makes you feel secured. But it may make you helpless as well - cos you will find School A is good in certain ways, while School B got its strengths too, yet sad to say, you can't take both!

Please bear in mind there is NOTHING perfect in the world, just as it would never be easy to get a 4C diamond, even though I can't say that's impossible. We are just human, and we can only do what we can do within our limited strengths. Sometimes, be happy with what you have, and try not to allow ourselves to be "greedy" may make both your life and your kid's life easier.

Talking philosophically now :) - but I know you are a clever mother so you should get my point - what 80% of people are now doing may not mean you should do it. That's why I always advise you to be clear about what you want. Being a good listener is admirable, but dun go too far and get lost there.

Take care,


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1106#
發表於 12-1-30 17:28 |只看該作者
Hi, 彥媽,

I just discovered this Part II while I'm still half-way through your Part 1. Amazing! I'm struggling with the question below and would appreciate your view:

My boy is accpeted by SJS Belcher and Rosayhill for the 2012 - 2 year old am class.

1. SJS Belcher is within 5 minutes walking distance from where I live.

2. RHS - I need to take school bus, bording time is 7:45 am which takes around 45 mins to 1 hour

SJS Belcher is very small kindergarten, only 15 kids at 2 yr old am class and only 1 class for each K1, 2 and 3. It's a day care nursery (those provide extended services). Teachers seems caring but I have no idea about curriculum. I guess kids is good at disipline but may not be good at language.

RHS k seems pretty difficult to get in recently and so far i see lot of good comments about this K from the forum. Mainly about curriculam as it is now 2 days Eng, 2 days potunghua, 1 day montessori.

I'm stuggling which one shall I choose. I'm not sure whether RHS is so good that it's worthwhile to spend so much travelling time. Although i have another chance next year for K1 but friends reminded me no one knows how they will behave at the interview next year so I have to prepare to stay in the same K. I'm not considering RHS primary. I only have 15 points for the lucky draw..

May I know your opinion? is it ok for a 2 year old to travel such long time? or i should choose closer one and wait for next year? Thank you.





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1107#
發表於 12-2-6 14:46 |只看該作者
彥媽:
Maryknoll 同 Goodhope, 不考慮學費問題, 你點睇呢?

有家長話Goodhope 深過 Maryknoll 一級, 對小朋友有影響嗎?


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回覆 AAATT 的帖子

AAATT:

歡迎光臨...唔好意思, 又遲左先發現有人問我野 here:

1. SJS Belcher is within 5 minutes walking distance from where I live.

2. RHS - I need to take school bus, bording time is 7:45 am which takes around 45 mins to 1 hour

SJS Belcher is very small kindergarten, only 15 kids at 2 yr old am class and only 1 class for each K1, 2 and 3. It's a day care nursery (those provide extended services). Teachers seems caring but I have no idea about curriculum. I guess kids is good at disipline but may not be good at language.
==> 點揀學校其實好睇你心中既 priorities 係乜, 我對每一個家長都係咁講, i.e. 若然你認為學多d 語言, 學多d 術既野係有助佢將來考小學, or even 考過另一d 幼稚園既話, 咁當然 - 醒目既小朋友係會較有優勢, RHS seems to be the one you are looking for (if what you said is true (better curriculum)

但問題係, 你想小朋友讀 N1 係為乜先啦, 在我, 我對培育小朋友既理念可能同一般家長唔同 (你有睇我 "精華篇" 時應會知), 我從不需要小朋友去同其他人 "比拚", 我一直俾佢地知既觀念都係 "做好自己就夠" 反正...讀書呢樣野...大吉利是講句, 你一日唔死都仲有得你讀, 所以我從不需要 "贏在起跑線" , 我信生活係馬拉松, 路遙先知馬力既, 我著眼係訓練小朋友面對逆境, 面對困難, 甚至失望, 我要佢地學懂 "開心自己有既野" 多過 "恨自己冇既野", so in this case, 我認為從訓練個人內省, EQ, discipline 等等會係一個好開始 rather than 一早要識好多 academic 既野.

因此, 你要先問你自己你 buy 邊一套先有得揀, 我幫唔到你揀的, 因為我要既野唔一定 = 你要既野

RHS k seems pretty difficult to get in recently and so far i see lot of good comments about this K from the forum. Mainly about curriculam as it is now 2 days Eng, 2 days potunghua, 1 day montessori.
==> 難入只係在於多人申請 only la...但 HK 人一向係 collectivism, 樓越貴越多人買, 依家跌緊就冇人敢買, so 多人揀係唔係就係等於好d 呢...well, I dun really think so. 係 BK 冇人講唔等於間學校唔夠好既, right? 好多屋村幼稚園都辦得好好的. 回應上述所講, 你想學多d academic stuff ge, well, yes, the curriculum of RHS seems a bit better.


I'm stuggling which one shall I choose. I'm not sure whether RHS is so good that it's worthwhile to spend so much travelling time.
==> 值唔值係要 check against your values in your heart. 我都可以問你, 俾 1 萬買個 LV 袋值唔值呢? 街邊一個無牌子既袋 worths only $300 都可以好襟用 ga ma... 點答呢...? so this is "你" 認為, 唔係我, if I were to check against MY values, I would say "唔值" 囉, 原因我上面都講過, 我唔需要小朋友 "贏在起跑線" 的, 因為我知將來仲可以有大把機會去俾呢d 野佢, 何需 start at N1?

Although i have another chance next year for K1 but friends reminded me no one knows how they will behave at the interview next year so I have to prepare to stay in the same K. I'm not considering RHS primary. I only have 15 points for the lucky draw..
==>既然係咁, 你大可以再考下你屋苑近少少又差唔多既 nursery instead of this one?

May I know your opinion? is it ok for a 2 year old to travel such long time?
==>ok or not depends on how parents treat this case, 若然你心係鍾意間學校既, 你想佢去, 你自然會認為 "ok", 相反, 就唔 "ok" 囉.

or i should choose closer one and wait for next year?
==> 真係要我揀 (我強調...係 "我") , 我會揀近既, 明年亦唔一定轉, 讀得好既, 我唔會想轉, 除非你有一間非讀不可既幼稚園比我見到啦, :)


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本帖最後由 彥彥媽咪 於 12-2-7 00:13 編輯

回覆 rowh 的帖子

rowh:

Maryknoll 同 Goodhope, 不考慮學費問題, 你點睇呢?
==> so far 我從有小朋友讀緊既家長口中得知, GH 係傳統得好緊要既修女學校, 因此, 你 + 小朋友喜歡與否就好睇你地自己要求係d 乜, 若又係要我揀 (其實我好怕人地問我點揀, 因為我唔想影響你地既決定, 我講得出黎既 in fact 係 "彥媽 choice" , 但唔一定對你地有用嘛....) 我會揀 Maryknoll, 因為佢成績會比 GH 好少少. 再者, 我冇朋友讀 Maryknoll, 但讀緊 GH 都對我講學校都好多規矩, 若然我係有個囡, 跟得我, 一定唔係坐定定, 唔出聲既人, 呵呵...我睇我阿囡唔會 survive 到 at GH, 肯定比人罰都似....

有家長話Goodhope 深過 Maryknoll 一級, 對小朋友有影響嗎?
==> 深淺在於小朋友能否適應既, 好多學校都係教深一級 ga la...咁有d 小朋友係較有天份, 勤力, 鬥心既, 佢地一定可以 survive, 相反, 唔係有呢類特質既小朋友, even 去到 Maryknoll 都會辛苦 , 因為 Maryknoll 都係會谷, 同埋大競爭的, so you should know your kid better in order to make a decision.


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1110#
發表於 12-3-1 14:38 |只看該作者
Dear 彥媽,
時間過得很快, 依兩三年都冇post, 問你嘢; 只是自己會定時定候上來睇下你. 感覺良好, 好像見老朋友般....你的說話至今, 我依然keep in file and highlighted. Thanks.

又想請問下: 小一的31 net or 沙田91 net 會合適呢? 小朋友是男仔,20分(christian). 因見31 net大多是天主教學校多, 因此不能用自己的5分. 而91net又好像多一些chrisitan school,所以有得用這 5分..... 但新界沙田的net又好像冇Kowlon side的31net好...真係好予盾.

31 net只有循道是Christian school, 如果20分入唔到, 就唔知去咗邊..

彥媽, 可否幫幫忙呵!!! Thanks so much!


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發表於 12-3-6 23:42 |只看該作者
回覆 honey4u4m 的帖子

honey4u4m:

時間過得很快, 依兩三年都冇post, 問你嘢; 只是自己會定時定候上來睇下你. 感覺良好, 好像見老朋友般....你的說話至今, 我依然keep in file and highlighted. Thanks.
==> thanks for coming!

又想請問下: 小一的31 net or 沙田91 net 會合適呢? 小朋友是男仔,20分(christian). 因見31 net大多是天主教學校多, 因此不能用自己的5分. 而91net又好像多一些chrisitan school,所以有得用這 5分.....
==> 你依家問個 5 分都係自行 je, 坦白講, 你都真係唔駛太認真 at this round, unless 你真係打算只要係 christian school 就入, otherwise 我冇估錯既話, 你想入既 christian school 都係人人想入個d, 多 5 分都唔係咩特異功能, 人地有埋阿哥家姐 or 自己係校友既你都已唔多夠人鬥了, 所以, 係我眼中, 多 5 分都真係冇乜特別, 再加上 2006 後既 bb 越來越多, 你都係預埋大抽獎好d (唔想潑冷水 , but this is the fact)

Back to your question, 你若以 "成功率" 去決定揀邊間既, 咁 yes, 你都答左你自己了, 去 net 91 啦


但新界沙田的net又好像冇Kowlon side的31net好...真係好予盾.
==>你既矛盾在於你根本都唔知你想要乜, 咁梗係分唔出邊樹好啦, 唉...先問自己幾個問題, (1) 你將來想阿仔係咩學習環境樹生活? (2) 你對阿仔將來既期望係乜? (3) 你有幾多 resources (time, $) 去支援佢 (4) 你有幾願意同能力去長期陪太子讀書? (5) 就交通同接送上對你有冇 concern? (6) 你較 prefer "雞口" 式生活, 因為做人可以較寫意, 定係認為做 "牛後" 先可以激發佢既做人鬥志? (7) 你係選校上有幾多話事權, 老公, 99, 62 會唔會又有決定權先? ...仲有好多, 但 I believe 呢d 都有排你諗了, 你要自己問哂自己 all these questions, then 你先可會知自己想要乜... 諗到之後, 再 match 去d 學校樹, match 到個間係 31 咪 31 , 係 91 咪 91 囉, 明未...why bother 為校網煩? 在我, 校網係死, 人係生, 如我第 (7) 所講, 你有話事權, 又深知自己要乜, 同有能力既, 就算去 net 11 又如何? 大不了就搬啦, right? 但我知唔係人人都可以咁做, 所以我先 list out all the above questions for you to think, 咁先俾到答案你的

你睇我寫野咁耐, 應熟知彥媽, 我從來唔鍾意俾 "行" 貨答案嘛, 我講得出既一定有我既理由的, 但當然 that reason may not = your reason, that's why you got to think what YOU want first, 我先答到你架...

31 net只有循道是Christian school, 如果20分入唔到, 就唔知去咗邊..
==> so in your mind only 循道 in net 31 係值得去 only? 係既, 一個 choice 都要搏 ga la...

再者, 你問題有d 怪, why "20分入唔到, 就唔知去咗邊"? 你有冇溫書架 (真係要哦), 20 分係 for first round, 一係入到, 一係入唔到 only, 點會唔知去左邊? 1st round 入唔到既全部會去抽獎, 到時就另一回事, 若人地講 "唔知去左邊" 多係指抽獎, 即指第一, 二志願入唔到, 就有機會唔知派去第幾志願, something like that, 咁抽獎既話, 就冇人會理你幾多分, 純係校網入面大家一齊抽架啦, 你寫既野好怪 bor, 定係你根本仲未搞清楚 first round and second round ga??????

你仲話將我d 野 "keep in file and highlighted"?? 抵打 bor, 呵呵~




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1112#
發表於 12-3-8 17:16 |只看該作者
彥媽,
你又令我"清醒"好多. 每次比你提點/話完, 我都好感激你. 你今次list out many points, it's very useful. 還記得小兒上幼稚園的時候, 你同樣比很多問題我去思索..........
又要認真去溫書了.....彥媽, 多謝你. Thanks so much.
(消化完你寫的說話, 再來問過.....he)


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1113#
發表於 12-3-9 16:21 |只看該作者
回覆 彥彥媽咪 的帖子

彥媽,

Just want to update with you that we have chosen YW finally. Indeed, it is my boy's choice. He has very strong determination to go to YW.

I have already warned him the heavy workload of YW. Hope he could be more cooperative at that time.

Thanks again for sharing your view with me.

Best Wishes


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1114#
發表於 12-4-27 13:53 |只看該作者
彥媽:
想問吓你對坊間的數學班有無咩研究.
我仔而家讀緊Enopi, 佢响傳統小學度讀書, Enopi係幫到佢計數, 不過對文字題就唔係幾幫到手. 我想同佢轉學其他, 如果我目標係幫到佢理解文字題, 公文, 學林定奧數會啱佢多D呢?


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發表於 12-5-8 17:40 |只看該作者
本帖最後由 彥彥媽咪 於 12-5-8 17:41 編輯

回覆 Isaac_Ma 的帖子

Issac-ma:

想問吓你對坊間的數學班有無咩研究.
==> 少少咁啦

我仔而家讀緊Enopi, 佢响傳統小學度讀書, Enopi係幫到佢計數, 不過對文字題就唔係幾幫到手. 我想同佢轉學其他, 如果我目標係幫到佢理解文字題, 公文, 學林定奧數會啱佢多D呢?
==> Depends on what you need, 就配合現行教育上我會較 prefer Selin (學林), 事實上依家我兩個仔都番緊, 都好幾年, 學林既 design 係跟 HK 學校既 maths syllabus 走既, 所以會有 both 計數 + problem solving question, 較易配合到考試既需要

奧數唔係為考試而出現的, 同埋多係 P3 以上先學會較佳, 即係 aim at 有數學根底既學生, 同埋對數學有天份, 喜歡數學既學生去上岩d

Enopi 在我眼中近似公文 (唔通真係日, 韓都係個類諗法? :p) 傾向速算, 同操練多, 我個人較著重解難方面既野, 所以仍 stay with Selin.

你有興趣既話, 其實學林係可以自學的, 你去書局都會有佢既教材賣, 依家出面既 selin centre 都係 franchise, somehow 都好睇搞個間 centre 既負責人同老師質素的 (都係d U students 為主啦), 因此, 出去學都有好有唔好的, 你有時間可以自己教小朋友都得.

你可以先去書局揾佢d 教材睇下, 岩先再考慮轉唔轉丫...by the way, 你想係 selin centre 學的話, 我可以 refer 你, referral 大家都好似可以平 $50 學費, 同有小禮物的, 我要 highlight 呀, 絕非想 hardsell here, 你真係岩先好去, 又或, if 你自己已另有熟朋友番緊, 都可以叫佢介紹的, 咁你地兩個都會有d jetso only.

Hope this helps.


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彥媽你好:
本人重視英文, 品德, 和一條龍 (排名不分先後). 女兒在朗思讀N班, 來年正煩惱讀朗思K班或九龍禮賢K班. 有何意見?

另如果明年做大仔, 下面10間你會點排? 地點和學費也不是問題, 最重要合我以上要求.

1/ 培正
2/ 德望
3/ 救恩
4/ 民生
5/ 培道
6/ 嘉諾撒聖心
7/ 聖嘉勒
8/ 聖保祿
9/ 大坑真光
10/ 崇真


但如果明年做大仔, 你會否傾向今年一動不如一淨(讀朗思K班), 或冇關係? 因不知小朋友年年轉校對心靈有冇影響.


昐覆, 謝謝!










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補充:
1/ 我知道禮賢是半龍(只有60-70%上其小學), 所以先諗repeat K1, 因為怕禮賢K3入唔番其小學, 出去英數唔強唔夠人競爭入其它好小學
2/ 如果上面10間, 有D 你認為差過禮賢, 插入K2都唔值的話, 請不用排名.

註: 救恩, 培道和崇真係諗住插入K2的. 其他7間諗住repeat K1.

謝謝!


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本帖最後由 彥彥媽咪 於 12-5-24 10:24 編輯

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Udonchau


先多謝你路過, 見到你既問題都好幾日, 唔答住除左忙之外, 係真係唔知點答好, 因為彥媽一向係唔多鍾意個類 AA vs BB 問題, 你依家仲要我同你排 11 間...對我而言係大懲罰多d...因為我認為揀學校係自己揀, 唔係人地幫你揀, 所以我唔打算幫你排, 我只寫出我知既, 你自己排啦, 好嗎....?


睇到你問既呢堆學校, 其實若你有留意我以前寫開既野, 基本上我已全部答過哂, 以我性格, 一見重覆性既問題多會扮睇唔到, 唔想日日打埋同一堆字, 但我都明唔係話可以版版睇哂, 咁我只係盡量簡而清咁答 only, 建議你有時間可睇下我之前答人地, 同寫既野, 一定會所知更多. Thank you.



本人重視英文, 品德, 和一條龍 (排名不分先後). 女兒在朗思讀N班, 來年正煩惱讀朗思K班或九龍禮賢K班. 有何意見?

另如果明年做大仔, 下面10間你會點排? 地點和學費也不是問題, 最重要合我以上要求
.

1/ 培正 -
一條龍, 全數可以由 KG 上小學, 中文學校, 英語訓練一般, 數理先係培正多年賣點, 傳統型教育, 即係老師 prefer 學生坐定定個d, 尤其上堂時, 合作型小朋友會有優勢, 佢有埋中文中學龍頭培中 back up , 自然慕名者眾, 但 so far 依家中學仲未轉直資, 即係小學都係以 "直屬中學" 咁去考, max 收 85% 小學學生.



2/ 德望 - 典型修女學校, 據有讀過既朋友描述, 修女都係會惡個d, 唔聽話會被話, 有人會形用 "嚴厲" 二字形容, 但個個人標準不一, 總有人覺得冇問題, 感受係自己既, 好難一概而論, 英語訓練都多, 中學都係直上既


3/ 救恩 - 我冇識人讀過, 但家長描述佢係幾活動 (不過 HK 地學校, 除左 IS 之外, 我都幾難睇到d 學生可以活動, 至多係俾你由你個位行去人地個位咁多), 其他所知不詳, 佢冇中學 back up


4/ 民生 - 一條龍, 但佢 KG 學生人數比小學多, 所以唔一定可以全部直升, K3 時老師會告知家長可以直升與否的了, 另佢小學係可以直上中學, 中學佢地以 "英文中學" 去介紹自己的, 但其實都唔可以話好多 e.g
你可以話佢比培正多, 但同時地, 佢比起 DBS , DGS ar 個d 又唔同啦, right?


5/ 培道- 唔多留意呢間, 因為佢係就係一條龍, 但中學係女校, 我三個都係仔, 所以唔岩我, 佢比我既印象係普通學校一間, 不過不失咁


6/ 嘉諾撒聖心 - 老牌 22 間傳統名校之一, 佢 AM 小學係私小, 下午係津小, 英語訓練多, 家長好多都慕名而去, 早日我先有個舊鄰居, 老遠都要將阿女由西九龍日日送去呢樹吊腳既地方返學, 為既係希望將來可以直升佢小學), 家長相信, 做得老牌學校, 點都會多 3 分釘, 因此, 考既人好多, 住天水圍既都會去考


7/ 聖嘉勒 - 私校, 有直升小學, 有英語, 亦係老牌 22 間傳統名校之一, 名氣上比聖心又好似低一級, 因為係英語教學, 有修女, 家長認為對囡囡會有保証d , 乖d , 所以都多人考, 但好多人又會拎佢做後備, 有"更好" 既名校收, 又唔一定揀佢了



8/ 聖保祿 - 我估你係講 causeway bay 個間? 因為跑馬地都有間聖保祿 ga wor...anyway, if you are talking about the one at CWB, 呢間超多人爭, 由 nursery 開始己有人爭, nursery 係可以直入到小學, KG 就唔一定, 但有位都多係比佢地升, 因為佢小學唔會公開招生的, 收自己 KG 既都收爆了, 邊有直間收外來生? 又係 22 間傳統名校之一, 英語教學多, 佢比我印象係訓練 "my fair lady" 式既學生個d 學


9/ 大坑真光 - 有直升小學, 但又係因為直升係女校, 我冇乜理, 在我眼中都係普通學校一間


10/ 崇真 - 有直升小學, 仲可以比你揀 local 部定 international 部添, 仲有中英班 (即係廣東話+英文) and 普英班過你揀, 呢幾年積極拓展, 家長亦願意花錢, 所以比起其他小學, 佢真係可以用 "百花齊放" 去形容, 即係總有d "product" 你會有興趣, 佢都有中學, 但唔算得上 top.


但如果明年做大仔, 你會否傾向今年一動不如一淨(讀朗思K班), 或冇關係? 因不知小朋友年年轉校對心靈有冇影響.



從你問問題既方向, 似乎你都係傾向考私校直資為主, 既然係咁既諗法, 就會建議先去考下先啦, 小朋友初期階段既可塑性係最高既, 即係你俾乜佢, 佢都會好易接受既, 反正你可以先考左先, 考得到既咪即轉, 考唔到既可以再等多一年再考, 就當俾多次機會自己啦, 但建議你考一間你打算比佢讀到畢業既, 咁佢都可以係入面 build 到 peer network 嘛, 唔係的話, 年年轉一次, 真係朋友仔都唔多個的


彥媽


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彥媽, 謝謝回覆, 其實這11間學校的好壞我已知(我有溫書), 但我在想今年9月轉去讀禮賢K1後, 明年再考這10間學校, 考到就讀, 考唔到明年就繼續讀禮賢上K2, 或是今年9月留在朗思上K1...

從你以上對這10間學校的意見, 是否"救恩, 民生, 培道, 大坑真光", 考到都唔值得repeat K1呢? 那我就只報其他6間好了...

謝謝!


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本帖最後由 彥彥媽咪 於 12-5-28 14:17 編輯

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udonchau:

彥媽, 謝謝回覆, 其實這11間學校的好壞我已知(我有溫書),
==> 你早講我就唔駛又打足幾日啦, 嗚嗚......... (講笑)

但我在想今年9月轉去讀禮賢K1後, 明年再考這10間學校, 考到就讀, 考唔到明年就繼續讀禮賢上K2, 或是今年9月留在朗思上K1...
==> 如果係因為呢樣野, 咁今次討論焦點就唔係點去排 11 間學校, 問題窄好多, 我都易答好多....

首先...你自己滿意禮賢與否, 係唔係佢唔係 100% 一條龍就唔係首選? I mean - you have to be clear not only your decision criteria - but also their PRIORITIES. 係你心目中, 乜野係最緊要既先, 因為係呢堆學校裡面 (or even every school) 你都知唔會 100% meet your requirements, you have to give and take. 即使你已唔計較學費, 地點, 咁你都見...禮賢校風 ok, 英語一般, 大半條龍, 而小學亦都見得人, 但比係唔係就係你想要既野先? cos if you want "安全感" (即係要龍校) 既話, 基本上你都唔駛理禮賢, 掉轉頭諗番大坑真光, 培正, 個d 好過了, 但若然係心裡 priority 係想去一間易d 接上 HK local 小學而係你要自己問自己 - 禮賢入唔入得過而已, 個人意見, 若然你個心都係唔甘心, 認為禮賢比你既野都真係唔足夠既話, 根本就唔駛轉, 而唔係"騎牛揾馬", 因為, 雖然我上面講過小朋友係可以適應到唔同既環境, 但我亦唔認為, 純為一個未可知既因素 (升小學, 除非你揾間百分百一條龍) 就又某某然又再轉, 我眼中認為此動作係畫蛇添足既舉動而已

因此, 若你真係想去個間, 唔係禮賢, 而係另外個d , 咁你真係倒不如唔好轉, 等明年去考 K1 again 好過, 只係, 我個人認為禮賢係你問個堆學校之中唔見得差, 佢小學亦 OK, 之前有朋友讀過, 依家幾個細路係津校都讀得好好, 大女係 band 1, 今年派中一了, 應入 band 1A 中學, 雖則大家都明白小朋友最後係咩 banding 都好睇後天, 但 somehow 家長都喜歡以此作為參考既話, 你都可以話禮賢係 OK ga wor...

從你以上對這10間學校的意見, 是否"救恩, 民生, 培道, 大坑真光", 考到都唔值得repeat K1呢? 那我就只報其他6間好了...
==> 要答你呢條問題, 若真係問我意見, 我根本唔讚成家長去 (1) 玩 "大包圍" , (2) 亦唔係只係呢d 所謂人人都考既幼稚園先叫好 , 因為在我而言, 根本唔認為私立/直資/一條龍係小學既唯一選擇, 當然為左 "冇安全感" , "驚唔夠人好命去抽獎" 呢d 理由, 係純個人觀感, 似有人睇股市升 or 跌咁, 又冇得迫既, 只係我睇到既係, 我真係見好多津小唔係差, 校風亦見得人, 只係唔多人講 (尤其唔上 BK 講) 就做成家長們覺得個d 學校唔得, 又或 "只有直資/私校" 先有保証既感覺, 我都對此深表遺憾, 但我會尊重每個人既選擇, 就正如例子 :

我成日叫我d 學生放學時何必要 take taxi 呢...夜晚巴士唔會塞車, 人少上落時間又會快左, 又有位坐, 最重要當然係平d 啦, 咁 ended up taxi 貴幾倍, 可能只係快左 5 mins, so ...值得咩...?? 你難道要趕住番屋企睇"心戰"? haha....佢地當中有人會因我講而細味我說話既意思, 而改變自己既 decision, 但當然亦有人堅持 "贏要贏在起跑線, 贏 5 mins 都係快"...個種諗法既時候, 我會好好叫佢諗諗自己 ultimate objectives 係乜先, 係想睇"心戰", 好重要, well, OK, 搭的士無可厚非, 你有足夠資源就好了 (仲係 long term resources), 但你只係想係合理時間內達到你 objective 既話, 巴士係一個唔錯既選擇, 咪成日以為巴士一定會遲到, 依家巴士 improve 左 a lot 你又知幾多呢?

仲有, taxi 佬可以令你幾有壓力你又知唔知呢...人人要做既野 (俾貼士 or 搭短途) 你唔俾, 佢會俾說話你聽, 搏你知難而退, 佢可以載過另一個客, 你唔走咪黑你面, 大牌d 仲會勁 chok 架車, 令你難受, 肯 "配合佢" 既就笑哂口, 因為d 客肯比錢時又聽話, 又唔會行邊條路都多多意見, 相反巴士佬, 係唔會特別理你, 但同時, 佢唔理你你反而可以 relax a bit, 你上去, 冇人既話, 一個人坐 3 個位都得, 佢係所有路線已定, 冇乜彎轉, 但同時 everything is open, 你知道哂佢每一個站去邊, 停係邊, 行車時間, 等等, 乘客之間亦唔會比較, kinda more relaxing environment during travel......

Well, 好似 char 遠左, 不過聰明既你, 同各位看官, 你地應會明白我上面既例子想講乜....我亦無意思叫大家只搭巴士, 只係要小心咪人地搭 taxi 你又搭 taxi , 同埋, 我想再次指出, 巴士經過左咁多年既演變, 好多配套唔會差得過 taxi ga la...真係認為佢唔得既, 好可能唔係在於架巴士, 而係運輸署, 佢既 policy 令到巴士無所適從而已, 咁就係全港性既問題, 唔係 only for 巴士, 你估 taxi 可以好自在咩, 仲要行家同行家爭添呀.....行家一爭, 受罪都係坐 taxi 個個....

哈哈~~~我依家諗緊我講得呢個例子係咪太深呢....


Anyway, 落番地面講 (頭先上左星球 , hahaha) 我想講既係, 你問下自己最後想見到乜, then you will know 你一切依家想做既野是否會達到該 objective and 是否值得,and what is more important to you - result or the kid? 所以, 你 conclusion 都係覺值既就去, 報 11間咪 11 間囉, 唔值得既, 在我, 我話一間都唔駛報, stay at 禮賢 is fine, 咁夠白未 - 其實我唔想咁白, 成日想朋友仔自己去諗, 唔好受我左右, 但今次都係忍唔住啦, 報 11 間, 我見到都暈....未計要 "陪你" 去 interview 個個細路...唉~

Finally, if my message here offends you in anyway or make you feel uncomfortable, please ignore me and accept my apologies. Afterall, those are the words from a mom, a mom with a sincere heart to help. 我個 blog 既主題叫 "孩子的天空" 就係希望家長們多從孩子角度出發, 唔係家長眼中看出既孩子既角度, 我相信你睇到既野未必會一樣

Thanks for listening.




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