if u hv 24-hr 陪月, hopefully yr baby will get over night feeding before she leaves. then, u will be fine. if u wanna to put baby with the maid, buy the baby monitor so that u can hear baby cry/ noice in your masterbedroom.
I fired my 陪月 after she onboarded for 2 days. she always talked in chinese to seek people to get her this and that. but in my house, i am the only person can understand chinese (both my maid n hubby speak english only). i simply don't hv the energy to entertain her. also i found she set the water heater at 42C when she bathed baby. It was dangerous! i fired her on the same day when she did that as i don't want her to set a bad sample to my maid! now i use my maid n my mother's maid together n i am getting on fine.
原帖由 alsan 於 09-8-24 12:55 發表
Hi emilybo
actually my baby is sleeping w/ my 陪月 now as i employ her at 24 hrs, she's professional and i can believe her but after work, i am just thinking to put baby alone in the baby room or sl ...
if u hv 24-hr 陪月, hopefully yr baby will get over night feeding before she leaves. then, u will be fine. if u wanna to put baby with the maid, buy the baby monitor so that u can hear baby ...
I just bought Avent Nipple shield yesterday for feeding my baby girl, now she is willing to suck for 30min (without the shield, she cried and refused to suck becos my nipple is too short), however, I don't know if she is sucking at the right way becos today I feel my nipple is very painful when she sucks, any sisters have such experience?
Moreover, my baby is already 16 days old but she is only willing to drink milk 60-80 ml each time (I feed her pumped milk and formula), average 6 times per day (sometimes she can sleep for 4-5 hours at daytime and 6-7 hours at night), she vomit easily if I give her more. Is she having enough to drink? I am very worried as I see most of your babies already drink up to 100-120 ml per meal, should I wake her up and feed her regularly?
Another problem from me is my baby does not popo everyday, she popo just now but her last popo is already 3 days ago. Her popo is soft so I don't think it's constipation. Does it mean she eat too little such that she doesn't need to popo everyday?
Sorry for so many questions, could somebody help me?
life is much better n more peaceful without the 陪月. my 陪月 always did something nonsense to annoy me .... say when i bf baby, she asked me to drink hot soup when i hv baby in my arm. bathed my gal with 42C water. pour boiling hot water first into the chu chu glass bottle. ask me the chicco "cream" if this is "shampoo" ... i am more busy to hv her around.
funny enough, when i e-mail the nanny photo with my baby to my work colleague, she hired her 6 months ago and also found her no good. such a small world!