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男爵府

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發表於 03-10-22 15:24 |只看該作者

Re: 2002年2月BB會(Part II)

Addy,

我都係 - (我老公果邊係福建人)
我就係廣東人, 奶奶同(奶奶個家姐)都成日同bb講福建話, 不過bb 比另一親戚 take care (都係福建人), 所以我一有時間時時同bb講廣東話和 English, 唱歌. 我都怕囝囝講野有鄉音或唔正.(不過老公都無,唔怕卦)

winoma


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1102#
發表於 03-10-24 00:51 |只看該作者

Re: 2002年2月BB會(Part II)

addy,
BB多數受軟唔受硬。我讚成winoma的講法。BB有時發音唔正,但佢知道呢個音係代表咩,當你讚佢,佢知道自己能表達得到就會多嘗試。有時我會乘機教佢-- 即發現佢會發某一個音時,就教佢相關的詞語。上次囡囡聽見我講"等媽媽去擺把梳先",佢就發個"把"音,但佢應該未知道係咩意思。我見"把"同"拜"差不多,便問佢同邊個拜拜,加埋拜拜手勢,仲要讚佢叻。自此,佢知呢個音係拜拜咁解。你試



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1103#
發表於 03-10-24 11:27 |只看該作者

Re: 2002年2月BB會(Part II)

我囝囝講野都ok,可以表达到他的要求.例如媽媽抱抱,
婆婆揹揹,要飲奶奶等等.有次我問邊個meet牆紙,
佢即刻答:我.不過我估只係咁啱.佢應該末分得到
我、你、他.

但係佢講野都有D問題﹕英文(菲律賓英文)、
廣東話(夾雜鄉音)都唔多正la•:-(

其實bb多唔多講野,好睇佢得到幾多語言刺激.
囝囝係屋企就有勁多刺激.我個工人好多野講,
婆婆更加係口不停,媽媽放工回家又不斷刺激佢.
放假時同佢去街又講個不停.
(諗諗下,囝囝都幾慘,冇時可以安寧):-P

另一樣就係少開電視(不過囝囝就好鐘意睇電視),
我怕會令到佢被動學習.


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1104#
發表於 03-10-24 21:22 |只看該作者

Re: 2002年2月BB會(Part II)

Jenny,
點解要少開電視?咩叫被動學習?請指教。
因我囡囡好鐘意睇Twins的VCD,成日要我地播。我見佢又學到唱la la la,都幾好丫,所以都有播比佢睇。




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1105#
發表於 03-10-26 02:33 |只看該作者

Re: 2002年2月BB會(Part II)

Tiffany媽咪 寫道:


由於BK媽咪不是太多, 所以今次我叫多三四個朋友,啲BB都是三兩YR的,因此今次由我請客, 大家不用付款了, 食物方便我會預備簡單啲, 如上, 到時玩得開心啲啦!


宜家先睇到呢段!唔收錢唔係咁好,不如我幫手買野,pls call me!


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1106#
發表於 03-10-26 02:38 |只看該作者

Re: 2002年2月BB會(Part II)

Jenny,
我都想知咩叫被動學習?

穎穎宜家好難搞!咩都話係佢既,唔肯同人分享;又乜都要管,連我著咩鞋都管! :-(


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1107#
發表於 03-10-26 23:44 |只看該作者

Re: 2002年2月BB會(Part II)

Tiffany媽咪
今日玩得好開心,有得玩之餘,仲又食又拎又有禮物,真係唔好意思!總之,多謝晒! :-P

穎穎回程時仲好開心! 問佢仲去唔去姨姨度玩,佢仲好大聲答:去! 但係現場又怕羞到死!乜都話唔好!比佢激死!


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1108#
發表於 03-10-27 00:19 |只看該作者

Re: 2002年2月BB會(Part II)

Tiffany媽咪,
今日真係十分熱鬧, 氣氛好好, 玩得好開心, 萬二分多謝!!


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1109#
發表於 03-10-27 08:38 |只看該作者

Re: 2002年2月BB會(Part II)

Tiffany媽咪,
個party好好玩,Hector係咁不行來行去,
又係氣氛.只係Hector唔肯乖乖企係度影相.
我係第一次咁樣俾粟米Hector食,估唔到佢知道點
:-) :-) :-)


複式洋房

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1110#
發表於 03-10-27 10:49 |只看該作者

Re: 2002年2月BB會(Part II)

Tiffany媽咪>

[size=large]It is a Great Party, Thank you once again.
你好勁噃, d 瑪仔好好味, Yoyo一大件攞住慢慢食. Tiffany, 咁叻可以自己用spoon食野. 唔知Yoyo & Tiffany 有冇機會做同學呢....

Yoyo 起初好驚 Heman 哥哥同 阿老虎哥哥, 但係後尾就開始跟Hector去攞野食, 自己攞完仲大大聲叫工人攞.

維他>
Hector 好叻, 完全可以自己去玩, 要食野, 又會自己攞. 可能返playgroup真係比較容易適應陌生環境.

濤兒>
穎穎好高, 又叻咗, 唔怕人, 又可以自己玩, 最攪笑, 佢俾Hector坐咗張櫈仔, 佢又唔知想坐落去, 又唔明點解冇咗個位,於是彎低身莊下張櫈仔, 好Cute.

Cheukwing媽咪>
第一次見, 小白兔Cheukwing 面仔圓圓好得意.

大家快d 又攪function再玩過啦..

Machoma





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發表於 03-10-27 19:32 |只看該作者

Re: 2002年2月BB會(Part II)

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發表於 03-10-27 23:08 |只看該作者

Re: 2002年2月BB會(Part II)

Machoma, 維他, Cheukwing媽咪, 濤兒:

不要那麼客氣, 多謝您們捧場就真, 見到大家都咁開心, 我覺得好高興, 可惜當日沒有太多時間同您們傾多啲, 交換吓啲bb發育情況, 或者遲啲約埋飲吓茶, 可以歎吓同談吓心, 嘻嘻! 你哋影得多唔多相?如果係數碼相, 可以考慮集合埋放入光碟度一人一隻halloween party 大全, 我成日想等bb大咗可以睇番會好開心

有冇想過幫bb攪生日會, 我打算幫Tiffany在小熊國開生日會, 我锺意嗰度個環境好cute。


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1113#
發表於 03-10-28 11:31 |只看該作者

Re: 2002年2月BB會(Part II)

Jenny 寫道:
另一樣就係少開電視(不過囝囝就好鐘意睇電視),
我怕會令到佢被動學習.

我反而教我囡囡學開電視!!! :-P :-P
o係屋企除左危險o野吾比佢掂外,其他由得佢去學。


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1114#
發表於 03-10-28 12:56 |只看該作者

Re: 2002年2月BB會(Part II)

Actually 被動學習 is directly translated from "assive learning". Hope I am not making it wrong.

According to some ariticles, long time TV watching may cause passive learning on children. The reason behind is TV media is 單向知識傳播, children knows new things without exploring / touching, and may consequently leading to think less (slow down mental development).

If you want more information on this, I suggest you got to 教育小組 and look for some old discussions.

Like
不如組織一個 BK 港版DWE User Fans Club! (教材使用意見/Everyday with Zippy))

I quoted some discussions for your references, highly recommend you read through cyfung's message, and the articles recommended by her.

My last word is children is yours, it is your responsibility to judge, not just listen / follow what others said (including me).

cyfung 寫道:
Hello every mom

I hesitate a lot over whether I should write this article but eventually I think I must tell others, especially those concerned parents like you, what I have found so far, so can I share with you all the potential harmful effect of letting your children view too much TV/video, educational or otherwise?

Please study the following very carefully first:-

1) http://home.datacomm.ch/rezamusic/tv_johnson.html

2) http://www.trelease-on-reading.com/rah_chpt8_p1.html

3) http://www.limitv.org/preschool.htm

Don't be put off by the technical terms used in the first article (1). This is a very good article, neutral and resourceful and has changed/adjusted my view on TV/video educational materials, be they DWE, English Time, Sesame Street or whatever.

In the second material (2), it gives you some statistics in the USA on the relationship between watching TV and the educational performance of young childs.

Information 3) provides you more on the effect of tv on pre-schoolers.

There are lots of articles and resources on the internet about this topic. you can search by typing "limit TV' etc in any internet search engine.

I tell you my experience.

I recently bought the English Time from the Smart-Kids Club when my daughter was around 11-month old. (I am not suggesting to any parents that English Time is better than DWE, or vice versa. I am not making a comparison here with any material too, so don't get me wrong. In fact I think both DWE and English Time are far too expensive than they are worth. If you have sufficient time I am sure you will find some cheaper and value for money products from various sources and suppliers just to get the similar results claimed to be able to offer by DWE and English Time).

Initially, knowing that TV viewing for a baby or toddler should be limited, I only let my baby watch 1 hour per day with the help of my domestic helper. I warned my maid of the potential harmful effect of TV/video viewing on the baby so that I asked her to play along and try to focus the baby's attention more on the spoken language, and less on the image viewing, by have my baby take part in the interactive actions provided by my maid in conjunction with her viewing the video.

After one week of viewing at 1 hour per day, she started to have bad sleep at night. I cannot tell whether it was due to the video viewing or not. As she is too young I cannot also tell if she has had any physical or emotional problem since viewing. But one thing I am sure - every time when she watched the video playing or TV, she stared at it steadfastly without moving her eyes or head. She just stared firmly at the TV almost throughout each viewing time. My maid tried to "interrupt" and provide some conversational or interactive scene such that my baby would not just stare at the TV but do it interactively, however the effort was in vain.

I've got a nephew, a son of my brother-in-law, who is 10-11 years old now. He watches TV or plays TV/computer games at least 4-5 hours a day after school. His literacy skills in Chinese, not to mention English, are poor and, I can say, horrible. I once asked him why he didn't like reading (Chinese) books. He told me that there had been too many words and he found it difficult to read. This is a common problem in both HK, USA and perhaps some other places in the world as well - too much tv.

What I do now with the English Time? I limit the viewing time to 16 minutes per day (8 in the morning and 8 in the afternoon) [the reason is that research has suggested that for child under age 2 there should be no tv at all so I try to limit TV for my baby to less than 1 hour per week] and each time before viewing, my maid will read to her the relevant books first. Sometimes she just played the sound without the image and did the actions herself to mimic those of the English Time with a view to enhance the active involvement of my baby. I try not to over-stimulate my baby and I am still carefully monitoring her daily routine and behaviour.

What I want to say is that your child will not learn good english just by passively viewing the video. The video itself cannot produce a truely interative english learning environment. Even though she plays the sound flash cards, this is not interactive learning too.

You may argue that your toddler is just doing fine and you have not seen any apparent adverse effect on him/her yet after watching DWE or English Time or Sesame Street, etc. But I still do invite you to read the above articles and make an informed and smart decision on your child's future.

Please also try to follow the suggestions made at the end of the first article (1) given above. Of course I am sure that every one of you already knows what is good for your baby.

Happy reading!!

CY

kittylock 寫道:
Hi cyfung,

Thanks for the sharing.

I have just read article (1) you recommended and it is really inspiring.

To my suprise, TV really does more harm than good, and even danger, towards infant/child development.

Simiar to the author of the article, my 2-year old boy loves watching TV so much. Every time I wanna turn it off, he cried and screamed for the TV to be turned on.

It seems ridiculous that most educational materials in the form of visual DVD/VCD claimed that they are able to develop a child to a genius, but in fact they ruin a child's senses, learning and language ability.

I am now most regret that I have allowed my kid to watch TV that much. From now on, think I need to stay him away from the TV set as far as possible.


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發表於 03-10-28 23:21 |只看該作者

Re: 2002年2月BB會(Part II)

Tiffany媽咪,維他,濤兒,Machoma,

Yoyo,Tiffany,Hector&穎穎個個食野都好叻!但cheukwing連旦糕都唔食! :-( 淨係咁要食紫菜! :-(


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發表於 03-10-30 09:04 |只看該作者

Re: 2002年2月BB會(Part II)

各位,我想問下會唔會攪2月BB兩歲生日會呀?
:-) :-) :-)


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發表於 03-11-2 16:09 |只看該作者

Re: 2002年2月BB會(Part II)

nicki
Cheukwing唔鍾意飲多多...,基本上佢好似有厭食症咁!好多小朋友鍾意食既野,佢都唔鍾意食!

前幾日又發高燒成40度,又冇傷風,d尿又種唔到有菌!不過d牙肉腫晒!可能因出大牙,so更加冇胃口! :-(

維他
我贊成搞2歲生日會!


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發表於 03-11-3 17:32 |只看該作者

Re: 2002年2月BB會(Part II)

講到厭食, 我諗無人好似陶陶咁, 每餐只食5啖飯呱, 一係就係淨食送 :-x


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