1. I stopped him immediately to let him know that behaviour is totally unacceptable. :evil: Then Vincent cried very loudly as if he were the victim.
2. I asked him to calm down.
3. After he has stopped crying, I chose to tell him very firmly and seriously, "no biting/hitting others! It's a bad kid's behavior. But Vincent is a nice kid, so you shouldn't do that anymore. Okay?"
4. He nodded and said yes.
5. I would also ask him to say sorry to the real victim. If the one is father, a hug is also requested as well.
The above procedure has to be repeated and repeated until our kids are competent to express themselves.
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