印. She said when she was wiping dust from tintin's photos, she thought of her son.... my mother told her, babies/children grow up quickly, no need to worry. But I think that might make her miss him more because they grow up so fast and she won't be with him during this time...
But my mother also warned me that there is a chance she might want to "take" some clothes for her son..
Yes 好可憐. So now I usually say, ok, mama hold for a while, then jeh jeh will hold you when we get to the MTR ok?
And sometimes when I am playing with Tintin, then I see jeh jeh finish her work, then I let jeh jeh to play with him instead.
i think $4000 is reasonable. If they find a new employer, they will get $3740. So your pay rise has to be more than $3740 for your helper to stay. otherwise, very likely to look for an easier job after finish contract with you.
I am also thinking of increase the salary of my helper to $3740 in case she wants to look for a new job just for a $160 pay rise.