So...Let's us set everything Aside. There's a bunch of kids trespassing a private doorway in a car park. We, parents, apparently noticed it. we filed a complaint to their school. And "seemingly" no punishment has been made to them,as they do the same thing again tdy.
First off, those students may be wrong. But as stated, why must we put all the blame on the students? Why isn't it the responsibility for the guards and management to keep this kind of "trespassing" from happening, your private property from harm? We cannot blame everything on them. At least partially.
Second. You posted this thread around 5 pm yesterday, And today you are ranting that nobody has taken your case seriously since the same thing happened again, and threaten them to call on the police? What on earth? The school, itself, has a lot of paperwork to deal with, especially during DSE. They cant spare extra time on dealing with cases like this. Why did you insists that you have gave those students a chance and they didn't took it? They didn't even know a report was sent from you! As the school itself may have not even have time to warn the students. Because of that you call on the police? Sorry, as a parent like myself, I still find this way to naive and subjective. Why wont you give them more time to deal with it? Instead of calling the the police right one day after the event where they have still not been notified?
Thirdly. Students MAKE mistakes. We, as elders of society, should warned them face to face, with words of righteous, not threats of un-forgiveness. We're once young, naive, and childish. We deserve a lesson to gain experience to survive this cruel society. But what you're doing now is ruining their future. They deserve to be punished, but they shall also been given a chance to prove themselves that they learnt a lesson. For me, filing a report to the school is already way enough to punish them, as school laws can bring suspects to justice. However, by calling upon police, you just ruined the experience of them,transforming them into outcast of society. Is this what we want? Trashing the whole future generation of teens for naive acts?
For these years, we parents has experienced different social events like umbrella movement, etc. For that most of us ranted at teens for their aggressive acts of imposement against government. They're foul, mislead... However, isn't that also a sign of freedom and struggle against their own will? They may made mistakes, make wrong judgement. But from that, they can learn the truth and experience the taste of failure. "What doesn't kill them makes them stronger" . I believe from that, we can breed better generations of HK youth. Instead of Book-eating, blank-brained, overly-spoiled children who doesn't even do chorus in home. I, along side with some parents, are sick of the helicoptering tactics used by present parents. As they would only attack other's children, but protecting their own even they are guilty. I sincerely hope that to whoever read this post,can make the right decision, and understand the message behind it, as words are just printed, but morals are sealed, in our brain.
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