hello Polly
can u pm me the agent...! i have the same problem with u. my ex-bun mui also spread to my neighbour i m not enough food for her... really !!! then when my new maid arrive , my neighbour's maid told her my ex-maid resign reason is no food wor!!!! really make me crazy!
No need to go insane about the other maids. I encountered the same problem too, that other Yans in the district keep staring at me with intimidating manner, and then theygossip with eah other and stare at me again...This happens all the time. I know I have a name "terminator" among the Yans' society in my district.
But I would treat it nothing at all, they are just nobody!!!
As for the maid in my house, I would brief her to judge the way I am treating her to see whether I am so bad, and to ignore waht other maids say. Of course, I would try my best to create a better relationship with my maid in order for her not to get affected by rumours of other maids. If she really believes in what other maids say, I think she will just cause trouble for herself to end up in the same result as the ex-maid.