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Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part III

Greentree,

Natalie is not crawling yet. She only sticks up her butt and moves her knees...still waiting for her arms to coordinate

When she's on her back, she uses her heels to kick her body upwards, she almost fell off the bed that way. How old is your boy

:exclaim: :exclaim: Natalie is beginning to teeth :mrgreen: :mrgreen:

Clarab,

Maybe becuz I came to US when I was young, my personality is very straight and always speak whats on my mind. It's cute how your daughter throws a fit at the neighbor's kids. Do you think she wants to join them and play

Do you know the daycare next door, maybe they will let her play over there too

Did you figure out your taxes yet?

Nillie_mami,

Just curious, when you were living with your brother-in-law and they gave you all those "shit", how come you did not pick up Amanda and move out

:exclaim: If my parents knew I was in that situation, they would have came to my rescue right away

How did you meet your bear bear husband, he must be very sweet for you to come all the way to NY to be with him :-P :-P :-P

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Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part III

Clarab,
Wow … u plan to breastfeed yr bb til 18m?! I breastfed my bb until 16m (supplement by formula) and most people thought that’s weired (after 12m). Both my mom and 99 said that’s not good to breastfeed for that long as it might be not be nutritious enough. Actually my 99 didn’t like me breastfeed bb after 12m or at all. She thought bb was not full enough since he needed to be nursed pretty often during the first couple months.

Nillie_mami,
i felt sorry for u after having read yr story. sigh ... i think the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is always tough!
if u remember what my 99's job was, u would understsand it's hard to be her daughter-in-law too. but still, i think yr 99 is even worse.
i also feel sorry for those who came to US after their husbands. i met my husband here after i've come to US for quite a while, but i hv a close friend who also came to US after her husband. so, i understand how u feel.
btw, pls check yr pm (private message at bk).

Shiba-Inu,
i ate pretty much everything including seafood (shrimps, fish, etc. but probably no raw sushi) when i was pregnant. lots of ppl said my boy's skin is pretty good by looking at his face only, but actually he has some rashes and dry skin on his hands and feet on and off.
however, nobody told me to eat the chinese "cool" stuffs during the last couple months of pregnancy. my younger sister told me to eat water-melon during the last month of pregnancy, but i didn't believe her much as she's not even married yet. maybe that's why i had an unsuccessful and extremely long induced labor.

muimui313.
how old is yr bb? which part of Hawaii are you in?

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Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part III

[size=x-small]Nillie_Mami.
看完你的遭遇後我不禁鼻子都酸了，好彩你而家雨過天青；有時想下那些單身為了取綠咭而假結婚的遭遇比我們這些自由戀愛嫁過來的慘得多！我們所能做到的就是堅強，不要轉牛再尖，得間來bk呻一呻，黑暗的日子總會過去！努力為BB生存下去！老實說，我亦曾經有結朿生命的念頭, 但bb令我活下去！在此讓我引說
Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful for that gift.
The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past, you can't go on well in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.

努力吧！Think positive
lastly, best wishes for your 3/8 exam, your bright career lies ahead!

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發表於 05-2-26 00:43 |只看該作者

Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part III

SY_MOM,

我餵到18個月, 都係因為每日三餐(早餐, 下午5點同夜晚11點半), 唔多, 跟住都有俾其他野佢食, 早餐會俾多半碗鮮奶開既糊仔, 午餐同晚餐會自己整(有時gerber樽裝), 餐與餐之間會俾餅仔, 生果, yogart, 面包, 芝士, 立立雜雜, 佢想食乜都俾囉, 我諗都夠佢食. (希望) 人奶點都係有益, 就算奶奶唔老黎我都唔理, 我都係一意孤行!! 我阿媽都叫我同佢介, 我話18個月先啦! 我睇書, 聽OBGYN, 聽家庭醫生都話餵人奶OK. 我咪餵囉, 我唔捨得唔餵, 佢越大我同BB親近既機會就越少, 而家就俾我珍惜吓!!!

Natmama,

個人直D有乜所謂喎, 我鐘意呀!
我係到四年, 返工SALES果份真係學到好多野, 好多人都係返工唔做野, 就係行行企企, 我開頭都好唔開心, 都有同其他D員工鬧過交, 不過果個員工成日偷懶最後被公司抄咗, 咁我之後就就學識唔好理人咁多, 準時返工準時放工就算數. 我都好直, 所以先黎鬧交!!

我連老闆都丙架... 有時.... 哈哈!!!

我唔會俾佢去對面day care 到玩, 因為個間屋樓上係住既, 樓下係day care, 好雜, 成日好多人行出行入咁, 雖然佢地係對面街, 好近, 又冇乜事發生過, 但係我都唔過去識佢地, 我有D驚架...講真... 唔知有乜行雜人等....

Greentree,

我諗佢係想得到其他小朋友注意掛, 老實講, 我覺得女女有D係似管家婆!! 哈哈!! 佢可能想同人地玩啦, 不過我D cousin 黎到佢又好少咁大叫, 佢會辦shy... 俾佢笑C.

各位, 我終於拿到十年綠卡LU... 張相係醜D, 不過都好過拿住張紙丫!! HEHE

911,
agree with you!

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發表於 05-2-26 00:43 |只看該作者

Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part III

Hello all beautiful moms:

No time no chat, how is everyone? Wishing all of you the best in the year of rooster!! :-P Haven't come online because my home PC has the problem and we have just upgrade our PC system at work and have a problem going online lately :evil:, anyway, I will catch up with the messages sometime(there is so much! ), I see a lot of new faces in this forum too, welcome and nice meeting all of you!

keep you guys updated, I am at my 24 weeks now, yeah! I did the sonogram at the hospital already and is pretty sure it is a girl :mrgreen: :mrgreen:
of course the most happiest person is my hubby

Shiba-Inu:
Of course is okay la and thank you for creating the part III for us :lol:

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發表於 05-2-26 01:54 |只看該作者

Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part III

SY-mom,

"i think the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is always tough!"

Well, I think I am the very small % of lucky one: my in-law family is big and my hubby has 4 elder sisters. All of them and their families and my parents-in-law treat us very well. One thing maybe I never really live under the same roof with them.

But I am lucky on one side, very unfortunate on the other. My problem roots from my own family - which is an even simpler and smaller family, only my parents, 1 elder brother and 1 younger sis. My parents and my sis love me, but my elder brother and his wife are the ones who did not even say "fairwell" to me and my hubby when we moved to US. My very beloved doggy (I call her my elder daughter now, as I have a younger bb in my tummy!) who stays in my parents' home now was nearly thrown away by them. They rarely visit my parents in their house, what for to throw way my beloved even if they don't like her - at a time when I am far far away???

So I am also very jealous of 小肥佬 who has a brother who is so good to her... 小肥佬 - I envy u!!!

I believe in old Chinese wisdom: "different families have different problems"

And very agree with 911: "Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful for that gift."

;-) How is your baby's hearing? Ask an audiologist! ;-)

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發表於 05-2-26 02:20 |只看該作者

Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part III

Hi Clara,

你阿女咁盞鬼嘅, 識得鬧人唔好嘈...

我呢咗唔係好耐, 4個幾月到啦... 住喺

oughkeepsie (upstate NY) 換句話說, 即係山卡啦地方, 去 NYC 都要搭成兩個幾鐘頭火車

... 呢到附近只得一個mall 咁大把... 十分荒蕪... Maryland... 我都有去過呀! 不過係上次同老公去D.C.時揸車經過.... Hehe 你嗰邊住成點呀?

係呀... 我以前識得一個護士媽咪, 佢餵人奶俾佢阿仔餵到成2歲, 佢話阿仔好健康, 好少病痛, 不過就overweight, 2歲人仔要着成3歲嘅衫

... 如果你同BB都開心, 咪繼續囉!

Whalebb,

係男仔呢嘅, 阿仔成日都喺我個肚裏面反轉反轉再反轉, 無時停… 你有幾多個小朋友呀?

Greentree,

Thank you for your information. 我都有喺babies r us 到registry…add埋個tub落個list到先… 你住喺NYC邊到呀? 仲有呀, 我好鍾意你阿仔嗰兩舊節瓜,好得意呀!!

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發表於 05-2-26 02:38 |只看該作者

Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part III

Clarab,

When I used to work at my old job (american co.), about 50% of the people are very lazy. They just go to work to gossip, eat, and wait for their paycheck. The worst part is they get very jealous when someone else gets promoted. Us chinese people are very different becuz we work hard no matter what, the "ghost" have a lay back mentality.

That's why they always wonder why asian makes so much more money than them ?-( ?-( ?-(

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發表於 05-2-26 03:55 |只看該作者

Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part III

各位,

新相係walmart 個度影架...出嚟既效果唔錯呀..係唔係呀?

Natmama

我昨日開始同亞仔轉用number 4. 暫時亞仔就無漏既情況出現( touch wood囉.) 同埋thigh 位都ok...
我又係唔識煮嘢,但係我諗到如果我製d 新鮮嘢比亞仔食可能會有益d,所以我都諗住識吓. 加上有時係屋企好悶,只係對住亞仔,真係想揾d嘢嚟做吓..

係喎, natalie 咁快出teeth 啦...佢又好嘢喎,無乜話bother her 喎.. 仲好似平時一樣..抵錫

Zic

咁你有無照4D 玩吓呀? 我係亞仔29週時去照咗,出咗嚟,某D角度都幾似架...
我亞仔係我肚入面時,唔係成日反轉再反轉,點知依家真係比佢玩到我反肚..

Shiba-Inu

千祈唔好羡慕我呀..真係"家家有本難言的經"架..
我家姐都係住係LA,但係大家個關係就唔係咁好..佢大我成16年,所以大家思想上,好唔同...佢自尊心好強,郤遭遇沒有我那樣好(暫時), 所以佢成日都好唔開心.以為我睇唔起佢,但清楚我既人,知我絶對唔係呢D咁既人,妨且,我成日講,我都唔係有錢呀, 只不過,有得住,有得食咁解之嘛...由我結咗婚咁耐(都就嚟兩年囉), 大家都未見過面..但係佢又好掛心我, 但係佢由始至終都無諗住同我見面,有時諗起,都好無奈,唔開心. :cry: 有時會諗,一家人,又為乜呀..
我二佬之大我二年, 所以大家感覺朋友多過兄妹架.

Clarab

我老公成日都話"唔明點解D ASIAN 咁有米架." 我話"如果個個好似你咁,要玩享受,真係屎都有得食呀. :mrgreen: "
係喎,個次你話interview, 點呀? 考咗citizen 未呀?

911

完全同意你的說話啦...我成日同人講,如果要我為咗張綠卡, 一世都唔開心,我寧願唔要,唔嫁(可能我個性格,係要愛自己先, 才有資格去愛別人既心理)...世界咁大,唔係只係得一個美國可以生活..所以我間唔中都同我老公講, 唔好以為你d 美國人好巴閉呀...我想走,我隨時都會走,千祈唔好蝦我呀.(不過,有個小肥佬,等吓先啦..哈哈哈.. :lol: )

SY_MOM

我個時臨生時,都有食涼嘢...點知咪又係就咁生唔出mini-matt ,都要開刀..唉..仲等我生足兩個鐘,都唔得tim...

Nillie_Mami,
仲乜以前嬲Amanda.乜佢個樣真係好似佢嫲嫲嗎? 不過, 見到你依家咁堅強,都戥你開心...
大家努力啦..

greentree

mini-matt 依家又係好鍾意勁叫..係街又係,係屋企又係,所以有時佢daddy 都要抱起佢,等佢收聲.有次我個女人見到佢係度叫, 跟住同佢講" yes ,yes , i heard you." .我就永遠老點我老公係public 抱仔呀, "乙水" 仔咁.我就一於就飯照食.

muimui313

你老公都好叻呀.我睇完你話你老公識講d乜中文,咁我咪又叫我老公學講"我愛你"囉..點知, 佢學學吓, 可能頂唔順,就用佢講得好正既中文"收聲"..咁就完咗個學習啦..

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發表於 05-2-26 04:23 |只看該作者

Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part III

Dear SY_mom,

Nice meeting you. 香港喺3 / 4 月時係轉天氣時份, 一時好暖, 一時好涼, 而且仲好潮濕, 又大霧, 又會落毛毛雨, 好幾日都唔會停, 出街都唔想出, 阿媽成日都投訴話啲衫好難乾… 有冇太陽曬咁話! 如果你哋一家人可以嘅話, 最好就等到4月中啦… 不過有定心理準備, 都係好熱o架!

仲有… 香港呢幾年一年到黑都有傳染病, 春天先係Bird Flu (禽流感), 記得有一年過新年, 仲拜神唔見雞添, 因為啲雞冇得入口&香港嗰啲都俾政府 “湯”鬼晒… 第二年係SARS (沙士)爆發, 非常恐怖… 個個都帶晒口罩出街, 有人喺街到打個 “乞次”, 企响附近啲人就即刻彈開十尺… 夏天又有Dengue Fever (登革熱), 秋天又有甚麼流行性感冒… 十分麻煩… 所以記住要成日洗手&飲多啲水!!! BB可以就唔好出咁多街lu!

Natmama,

我老公話Natalie好得意, 佢有幾大呀?

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發表於 05-2-26 05:20 |只看該作者

Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part III

Hello Shiba,

Thank you for your prenatal vitamin info. 你宜家咪開始啲褲仔着得唔舒服呢?特別係牛仔褲…好慘呀, 我最鍾意嘅牛仔褲要拋棄咁耐, 嗰啲大肚牛仔褲就

….

如果你想食蝦蟹, 咪食囉, 不過就要好似其他媽咪所講, 適可宜止…我都明, 有時真係好難忍口嘅… 加上我又好貪食… 不過自從有咗BB就同你一樣, 啲胃口都係全部轉晒... 以前我日日都食煎炸嘢, 宜家連聞到都要即刻調頭走, 都好…戒埋... 真係無益呀嘛!

我個朋友識得個中醫, 佢3個女嘅skin真係好靚, 白裏透紅, 啲人咪問佢你老婆大肚食啲咩? 佢話好簡單, 戒絕所有煎炸油膩食物, 連胡椒粉, 黑椒都要少吃, 清清淡淡就最好, 仲有唔好去茶樓咁多, 因為啲點心全部都好肥膩 & 好多味精... 燒賣, 牛肉, 叉燒飽... 而我另外一個朋友仔, 佢啲skin好滑溜o架, 冬天都唔駛搽cream嘅, 佢話阿媽大肚飲咗好多奶奶喎… 醫生&營養師叫我1日飲2-4杯奶 & 6-8杯水… 係呀! Pizza 係有益, 有Tomato Sauce& Cheese, 不過記住唔好食pepperoni 喎... 加工過...

Dear Meemee,

我睇咗你個album, 你對仔女好似好聽教喎?!

Hello Cuttie_Mami

Nice to meet you too! 你24 week la, 我就30 weeks lu, 你瞓得好唔好呀?

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發表於 05-2-26 05:42 |只看該作者

Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part III

Natmama & Sy_Mom,
我住係Oahu 島,

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發表於 05-2-26 06:05 |只看該作者

Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part III

Nillie-M
I so worry about you!! Do not attemp to give up your life again!!!
買下靚衫扮靚靚
做下faciel租下錄影tape
令心情relax
生命好珍貴
Are you Christian??
若果妳需要我可介紹paster
you can chat with him by email. He is in HK now.
我有任何時也會tell "GOD"!!!

Cuttie M
Boy or Girl???

Zic
I have two daughters ar
They are 2 1/2 and 9 mothes
我想生多個女如果第日經濟許可
妳呢!!

Mui323
正呀! 我最愛陽光和海灘 ka la!!!!

學懂凡事感恩和感謝,孩子終身受用不盡

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發表於 05-2-26 06:09 |只看該作者

Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part III

Zic:
Nice meeting you! I am living in NYC, upstate NY is more quiet, not many chinese around right?
I am sleeping so much better now compared to the first 3 mos, I was sick (catching the cold all the time) :-( barely got any sleep at all but now so much better, no more nausea too.

how about you? Do you sleep good?
When is your due date? Did you gain a lot of weight? Is this your first one?
I didn't drink much milk this time, compared to my son, I drank like 3 cups a day but this one, I only drink maybe 1 cup the most per day, I have been eating bird nest since I was 3 mos pregnant, people said the baby will have more hair and better skin wor?! I didn't eat any bird nest when I was carring my son and he has very light skin tone and pretty smooth too but since we know this one is a girl we definetly wants her to have a better skin la. hehehe

shiba:
According to Zic, you are pregnant?! Congratulations!! When is your due date? Feel so happy for you !

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發表於 05-2-26 06:14 |只看該作者

Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part III

whalebb:
Is a GIRL! :mrgreen:, I can be retired after this one la, a boy and a girl la, heheheehe (seriously, I think 2 kids is enough) How are your daughters, did fat bean start the schooling yet?

little fat man:
Mini-matt is so handsome!! I am seriously, he can be the baby model and I am sure he will win if there is any beauty contest :-P

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發表於 05-2-26 06:18 |只看該作者

Re: Any mom living in USA now - Part III

Little Fat Man,

Mini-matt's now photos turned out very cute :lol: :lol: He is very photogenic. I'm brining Natalie to get some pictures done on Sunday, hopefully I can find a way to post and share with you girls

Zic,

Thank your husband for complimenting my daughter. If he meets her in person and sees her naughty side, maybe he will change his mind :mrgreen: :mrgreen: Your husband must be very excited about the baby :exclaim: :exclaim: Are you ready yet

MuiMui313,

It's good you and your husband can take care of bb while maintaining your job.

Clarab,

Forgot to congratulate you on getting your greencard. Now you can go back to HK for vacation with daughter

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