sfc9, just do the American way and split everything in half. You do laundry and he folds them. You take care the older son and he takes care the younger. You put in 50% of your salary and he has to do the same. If the bottles are still dirty after cleaning, tell him to do it again. Or you are gonna suffer!
睇曬咁多頁，真係好鄧你辛苦，如果係我，一早捱唔落去，帶埋兩個仔返娘家。
恕我直言，你家廢人固然係奶奶養成，但你都係太縱容佢，以至佢可以過到骨：佢話車仔返學會令佢遲到被炒，咁你車就唔會遲到咩？如果係點解你唔會遲而佢會？如果你都會遲，咁問佢如果你都會被炒咁邊個養頭家？佢最憎折衫就唔做，話比佢聽你都好憎，咁係唔係大家都唔做？同仔沖涼叫悶，點解悶嘅嘢就要你做？咁叫佢揀樣唔悶嘅做囉，一頭家幾百樣嘢，你又返工佢又返工，一人承擔一半都好應該，你 list 出來，叫佢自選，唔中意做都要做，做得唔好再做過（奶樽洗唔乾淨再洗過，個仔沖完涼仲臭就再沖過），話佢知家務係 tedious 架啦，冇 motivation 都要做，因為係責任。學識強硬一 d，人都係咁，恰得就恰，避得就避，到知道你恰唔到，佢就唯有死死氣去做。
In the mean time，睇下呢幾個建議會唔會令你負擔輕 d：
－既然彈琴係阿仔興趣，不如放手叫佢自己練，你跟少 d，會輕鬆 d
－廢人同仔沖完涼用毛巾包住阿仔交比你，你檢查一下，唔乾淨就再沖過，合格就喝令佢同仔換埋衫刷埋牙兼執返乾淨沖涼房
－去奶奶度食飯要洗曬咁多人嘅碗碟真係幾甘，情願唔去食，廢人要求你做返曬佢阿媽做嘅嘢，咁即係乜？又或者佢中意嘅，叫佢同兩個仔去奶奶度食，你自己喺屋企食，就話好多家務未做，要留低做，過唔到去食。自己食簡單好多，食完又唔使洗曬全屋人嘅碗，輕鬆好多
－廢人同奶奶若挑剔你家務未儘完善，問返佢地當年奶奶使唔使返工揾錢養家，使唔使跟仔女嘅功課，同廢人講，如果想老婆服侍周到，唔該佢爭氣 d，揾夠錢擔起頭家，比足家用你，你咪留喺屋企全職服侍佢囉
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