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1201#
發表於 10-6-21 12:16 |只看該作者
Rose-mag,Nillie_Mami
多謝妳們的生活分享,其實在美國我仍然在摸索期,我很怕作
出一個錯誤的決定,而危害我的小孩一生成長.我老婆很反對過來美國生活, 她認為若女兒本身能讀書,不管在那裡都可以讀到書.而且,她還說每一個人際遇不一樣,可能女兒留在香港,她際遇會好一點, 而且,現在都是人人面向大陸, 因此我壓力都很大. 若美國教育真的4天上學,我真的給我老婆埋怨. 可能我來美的日子尚淺,因此仿未体會在美的好處,希望稍後能領會. 至於在美上班,我看到這裡收工就收工,不似香港下班仍然留下來扮加班,香港現在有一個我認為不好的風氣,就是準時收工是錯誤,唉....... 而且,香港年齡歧視很嚴重


原帖由 Nillie_Mami 於 10-6-20 18:33 發表
dominicchan, rose-mag, shan,
finally, 家人新寄嚟嘅手寫板到咗喇!
我....一個例外得嚟又好典型嘅case.
如果我留係HK.. 係好自私...老公, 仔女喺美國大, 返hk=送死!
自己係hk大, 作為70後, 點都係喺個競爭大嘅環境 ...


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1202#
發表於 10-6-22 14:57 |只看該作者
原帖由 dominicchan 於 10-6-21 12:16 發表
Rose-mag,Nillie_Mami
多謝妳們的生活分享,其實在美國我仍然在摸索期,我很怕作
出一個錯誤的決定,而危害我的小孩一生成長.我老婆很反對過來美國生活, 她認為若女兒本身能讀書,不管在那裡都可以讀到書.而且,她還說每 ...


dominicchan,
你來美冇同太太有共識?我都識人不喜歡美國,因為比起香港,美國又慢又落後,好似我住的地方都是最近先有類似八達通的儲值咭,而且不是所有交通工具都通行;去銀行排隊閒閒地幾個人都等你15分鐘...要比實在太多啦~太多香港好過美國的例子~

我同意你太太說,如果可以讀書,不管在那裡都可以讀到,但如果有選擇,當然希望佢讀得開心,唔好為考試而讀,而事實上美國高等教育的機會較香港多選擇~當然而家州政府同聯邦政府冇錢,教育受好大影響,不過我冇聽過話cut到返4日學喎,其實都唔一定太差,少咗果日只要安排囡囡去吓興趣班或課外活動,多d親子時間係一件好事,一世人流流長,想下囡囡將來有最少十幾年書要讀,如果佢鍾意讀書,讀到三四十歲都可以讀,何必要逼得太緊?可能我們都受香港教育太深,一想到這裏4歲都未學寫字就好擔心,香港6歲就會加減數,不過這裏注重獨立思想,我敢講創意方面仔仔一定比同年紀香港小朋友好,因為這裏的教育不會要求月亮一定是黃色,天空一定要藍色有白雲...

要調節心情去適應新環境,年紀越大越難,你有冇發現你囡囡可能比你enjoy而家生活,因為小朋友冇咁複雜的感情,I would say take your time and slow down. You may not need to love US but try to find the good things and enjoy. This is the best way to get used to your new living.


男爵府

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1203#
發表於 10-6-23 22:20 |只看該作者
THX你地呀~^3^

我同我男友冇傾過佢想唔想同我移民過去...
因為其實我自己都係會拎到id就返hk....
耐唔耐先返下美國行下玩下休息下!!!
應該會係咁....*
佢英文又唔好過到去又唔知做咩...
我同佢d fd全都o係hk,,佢美國又冇人冇物..


e+第一個問題只係我要過去3年/5年內長期見唔到..
係大家唔想分開...而且佢o係hk有佢既工作
又冇美國簽證..1怕簽唔到2怕公司冇咁長期3機票都貴啦....
我地都係廿幾歲人工唔過萬好難真係做到成日飛黎飛去....!!


子爵府

積分: 12196


1204#
發表於 10-6-24 01:11 |只看該作者
原帖由 Nillie_Mami 於 10-6-19 07:30 發表
I have a gifted(very high IQ) daughter with ADHD (too active) and a speech delay son (you couldn't understand what he said).. if I live in HK with them.. I am going to shoot my head off. but here in NYC, government takes care of both of them, so I can go to work without worries.
That is what HK government can't provide to me.
Therefore, I chose to stay in US.


Hi Nillie_Mami,

My son is a first grader. Last year, his teacher summoned me to school and told me that my son's reading and Math skills are at 3rd or 4th-grade level. However, she also told me that the school WAS NOT going to do anything about it. Because the state I am in doesn't provide any gifted program until third grade. (FYI, I haven't had my son tested if he was truly gifted.) I feel like this year it is a waste at school for my son.

I always have the impression that you love the US, especially the governmental resources, could you please advise what I should and could do? Should I move to another state? Thank you very much!


大宅

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1205#
發表於 10-6-24 02:30 |只看該作者

hihihihi...好耐無黎呢度啦~

各位朋友,

等我報下喜先~
我CR1既申請, 響NVC已經進入最尾既STEP啦~
最後果張FORM(DS230) NVC已經收到啦...
希望可以8月有得interview~

你地各位好嗎?


大宅

積分: 1086


1206#
發表於 10-6-25 02:55 |只看該作者
socloudy,

thank you so much. i went to school district already, they ask me to contact the psychologist. so i called her, she said she will mail some infomation to me. still waiting...

i wanna find a pedi for him too. but i dono how...
and i dont hv car yet, i hv to wait until my sister is free.

just wait and wait and wait...

原帖由 socloudy 於 10-6-14 21:53 發表
Korg,
I agree with rose-mag to check with local school district for evaluation. However, you may want to find a good pedi and check with him / her as well. Since the pedi interacts with so many kids ...
  [url=HEIB'S ALBUM]http://www.babyhome.com.tw/luyinhei[/url]


大宅

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1207#
發表於 10-6-25 04:32 |只看該作者
hi all,

我嚟咗1個月多d, 非常掛住hk, 但我的家人都係呢度, 所以都ok. 我係同老公囝囝嚟的, 其實4年前已取到綠咭, 但當時係hk各樣都好好, 一直拖到而家. 我2年冇返嚟, 所以入境時扣留咗4個小時. 不過入境職員都好nice, 叫我等排期上庭間, 當自己係居民去生活就是了. 舊綠咭他們keep起了, 另發給我們臨時綠咭(1年期). 又剛剛收到信, 出年2月上court. 所以老公希望呢幾個月能找到工作.

我8月頭生第二胎, 而家要照顧大仔, 所以都有d吃力. 以前係hk有工人, 有奶奶幫手, 生活好方便. 而家就靠老公幫手, 佢呢世人都未做過咁多家務. haha...

我地放棄hk的生活, 都係有好多原因. 最大原因都係為小朋友. 仔仔有自閉症, 係hk的資源真係好唔夠, 雖然我未知呢度有幾好, 但好多人都話係全世界最好. 係hk, 我仔仔沒有什麼課外活動或興趣班. 而係上言語治療, 音樂治療, 感統訓導, 試這試那... 費用真係好貴!
係hk, 仔仔讀國際學校(special need), 間學校好好, 可以話係全港最好, 學費唔算貴 6千幾, 全日際. 師生1對3. 但5歲半後上小學的選擇就好有限了. 英基的waiting list好長, 其他私校學費超貴, 萬幾2萬1個月. 再加其他治療費. 如果讀local school, 學費係平好多, 但要應付咁多功課同2文3語, 真係好辛苦. 加上被label, 真係唔好受!!

雖然我仍未係us識到新朋友, 但係呢度見到你地, 真係好開心.

各位多多指教了!!

korg
  [url=HEIB'S ALBUM]http://www.babyhome.com.tw/luyinhei[/url]


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1208#
發表於 10-6-25 09:36 |只看該作者
有跟老婆討論,但她很反對,但由於我家人在這裡,加上
那時候我在香港的工作不是太好,因此希望來美國,
看一看生活會否有所改善.
你說很對,未過來美國之前,感覺這國家很先進,但過來之後發現不是想像的. 正如妳說,既來之,則安之, 現在只好努
力工作解決生活基本需要.
我大女兒上學仍習慣,因我當初很怕她不適應,暫時少擔心一件事情.但未來還有很多事情要努力

原帖由 rose-mag 於 10-6-22 14:57 發表


dominicchan,
你來美冇同太太有共識?我都識人不喜歡美國,因為比起香港,美國又慢又落後,好似我住的地方都是最近先有類似八達通的儲值咭,而且不是所有交通工具都通行;去銀行排隊閒閒地幾個人都等你15分鐘...要比實在 ...


大宅

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1209#
發表於 10-6-25 12:37 |只看該作者
Hi Korg,
你仔仔係邊類型自閉症?ADHD, PDD or other? High functioning or what?未夠5/6歲都好大機会outgrown架. 你試下每一曰都ask him to express his feeling,佢唔識嘅你要guide佢,好多人話半年就見到明顯進步.你有冇US医療保險? If so, 試下揾個local pedi先.然後find out你仔仔需要边類型specialist去provide full evaluation.有d state 係offer e d program for free...

[ 本帖最後由 socloudy 於 10-6-25 12:38 編輯 ]


複式洋房

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1210#
發表於 10-6-25 13:32 |只看該作者

回覆 5# ellie79 的文章

HI.你好,我有些問題想問問你,你幾時申請,我用親屬身份,我奶奶申請,5月已寄ds - 230 去美國,但今個月17號收到e-mail話護照過期要再寄過copy to nvc ,同時佢寫明要interview 前6星期做好良民証,我已經做左,但問過人8月有無得interview,多數人話要等3-6個月,因為我小朋友升中,我唔想同佢地買書因為都要走怕用唔著,
PS:你點查NVC已進度教下我,謝


大宅

積分: 2243


1211#
發表於 10-6-25 20:02 |只看該作者
原帖由 618844poon 於 10-6-25 13:32 發表
HI.你好,我有些問題想問問你,你幾時申請,我用親屬身份,我奶奶申請,5月已寄ds - 230 去美國,但今個月17號收到e-mail話護照過期要再寄過copy to nvc ,同時佢寫明要interview 前6星期做好良民証,我已經做左,但問過人8月 ...


HI,
你可以打去(603) 334-0700,
你跟佢個指示入你既CASE NUMBER,
你個NUMBER頭三個字應該係英文字母,
如果係HNK就要按"465"到佢問係唔係HNK就按"1",
之後再入埋其他10個NUMBER再按"#"...
佢就會有你個STATUS去到邊個STEP...
可唔可以8月INTERVIEW係睇領事館忙唔忙...
就算同OPERATOR對話,
佢都答唔到你幾時有得INTERVIEW,
等佢收齊晒你D文件, 就會通知你INTERVIEW既日子架啦~


男爵府

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1212#
發表於 10-6-26 03:19 |只看該作者
IaMMoYY
Before I have my second child and before I found out that Amanda is a gifted. I couldn't find a word for me to stay beside... I stay here for my husband.
But since Amanda was examined when she was 4 years old by the dept of edu in NYC, and they found the right school for our little monster (she is so lovely). And after my pedi diagnosed my son as a speech delay, and they sent speech therapist right into my son's day care. After 4 weeks sections of therapies, my son call me "mami" very clear at the first time. I believed that I stayed at the right place, right country.
That is what I paid for.. no matter how high the tax I am paying.. no matter how old fashion of the technology here.. My children are under the best care of all.
It is true.. I am just a child care worker from 1993.. be honest.. the time I learnt from school.. we don't have the term of "gifted and talented". So, I don't know how to teach her.
Now, school teaches her academic, music, art and sports.. Which the educational system in HK would not able to help.. 100% no doubt!
A gifted daughter with ADHD, and a speech delay son with extensive speech therapy.. I can only thanks US government.

At the moment, don't waste the time, you can search from internet, type in gifted child/gifted and talent and your state, and check about the resource you need.

That was the way I did, after I found out she is a gifted. First I did, was going to her zone school.. where we got turn down.. Zone school said that they won't care and they don't welcome my daughter. They said that my daughter must go to special school.
Glad that I did not force her to stay at zone school.
I let Amanda to learn piano, music theory, swimming, ice skating and more.. all those are her hobbies and she did well on everything.
Also, I bring her to book store, Barnes and nobles, Amanda spends a lot of time on reading. she loves books.
she loves exercises books,so we bought a lot of Maths, and English games and exercise for her to do everyday.. she love brain quest.. so she got many of them..
Also, we let her to do the online workshop recommended by her school. Also, we got some textbooks (jumped grade) for Amanda to do..
She doesn't really like to watch TV, so she will just go and pick up the exercise books and hide herself in computer room at evening time everyday.
For her study.. I had no worries, she does good, we don't need to stay next to her .. only we have problem to keep her practice piano.. haha


Let your son to explore.. to museum, library, zoo, and book store, also, let he tell you what he is interested in.. so you can follow the way to help him.
study is joy! not because of the score.. so, study should not force..
I could see.. Amanda is studying happily. She has a real Happy childhood here. not like me.. when I was 6 years old, I had 18 homeworks, which I won't able to complete until 11:30pm every night.

You can bring your son to the pedi and ask them if there is any testing to be done. Although, the level of help will be different from state to state, but I still suggest you to go and ask. the other place to ask, will be department of education.

原帖由 IaMMoYY 於 10-6-23 12:11 PM 發表


Hi Nillie_Mami,

My son is a first grader. Last year, his teacher summoned me to school and told me that my son's reading and Math skills are at 3rd or 4th-grade level. However, she also told me ...


男爵府

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1213#
發表於 10-6-26 03:26 |只看該作者
ellie,
that is good.. hee hee.. you promise that you will stay here with us!! ^o^
Gald to know that everything goes well...
原帖由 ellie79 於 10-6-23 01:30 PM 發表
各位朋友,

等我報下喜先~
我CR1既申請, 響NVC已經進入最尾既STEP啦~
最後果張FORM(DS230) NVC已經收到啦...
希望可以8月有得interview~

你地各位好嗎?


複式洋房

積分: 199


1214#
發表於 10-6-26 10:19 |只看該作者

回覆 3# ellie79 的文章

多謝你,我以為上網可以睇到但搵來搵去都搵唔到,原來是打電話,萬分感謝.


大宅

積分: 2243


1215#
發表於 10-6-26 10:53 |只看該作者
原帖由 Nillie_Mami 於 10-6-26 03:26 發表
ellie,
that is good.. hee hee.. you promise that you will stay here with us!! ^o^
Gald to know that everything goes well...


YEAH!!! hehe...
其實我間唔中都有入黎睇架...
只不過係有好多話題我唔識...所以加唔到咀
識既咪講出黎分享下囉~
因為果種心情我完全感受到...

我都好希望我個CASE順順利利...


大宅

積分: 2243


1216#
發表於 10-6-26 11:02 |只看該作者
原帖由 618844poon 於 10-6-26 10:19 發表
多謝你,我以為上網可以睇到但搵來搵去都搵唔到,原來是打電話,萬分感謝.


其實上網只可以睇到你交左錢未...
你應該有case number & invoice number...
咁你可以去------------->
https://ceac.state.gov/CTRAC/Invoice/signon.aspx
用上面兩個number login...
你可以間唔中check下...如果有一日login failed...
即係個case completed...
就係差唔多時間會將你個case送去香港既美國領事館...

其實個個case既進度都唔同...
我識得有個朋友...佢6月頭login failed之後一兩日就收到e-mail通知...7月中有得interview...
而我同佢係婚姻VISA...
咁你係奶奶申請你...時間會唔會唔同就唔係太清楚...

[ 本帖最後由 ellie79 於 10-6-26 13:54 編輯 ]


複式洋房

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1217#
發表於 10-6-26 22:26 |只看該作者

回覆 1# ellie79 的文章

咁是否登入以下網址https://ceac.state.gov/CTRAC/Invoice/Signon.aspx?node=Signin
後選,1.principal applicant,
2.就是HNK NO.
現在是 :Sign In Failed

謝 謝!


大宅

積分: 2243


1218#
發表於 10-6-27 00:49 |只看該作者
原帖由 618844poon 於 10-6-26 22:26 發表
咁是否登入以下網址https://ceac.state.gov/CTRAC/Invoice/Signon.aspx?node=Signin
後選,1.principal applicant,
2.就是HNK NO.
現在是 :Sign In Failed

謝 謝!


咁你有無比過你地既e-mail NVC?
係唔係經律師幫你地申請?
所有NVC既bills都係做online payment?
如果一直都係自己攪的話...
你最好打去同operator講你地既e-mail...
因為佢地會用e-mail聯絡你地個interview date...
如果一直只係用郵寄...咁NVC都只會郵寄比申請人&你...


複式洋房

積分: 199


1219#
發表於 10-6-27 11:59 |只看該作者
哦原來係咁,我寄左ds-230比nvc,已加左e-mail.
唔知佢地會唔會e-mail聯絡我地個interview date,上個星期nvc-,e-mail叫我地補文件,我都知要補,因為護照過左期我照寄去,哈,
原帖由 ellie79 於 10-6-27 00:49 發表


咁你有無比過你地既e-mail NVC?
係唔係經律師幫你地申請?
所有NVC既bills都係做online payment?
如果一直都係自己攪的話...
你最好打去同operator講你地既e-mail...
因為佢地會用e-mail聯絡你地個interview date.. ...


大宅

積分: 2243


1220#
發表於 10-6-27 13:04 |只看該作者
原帖由 618844poon 於 10-6-27 11:59 發表
哦原來係咁,我寄左ds-230比nvc,已加左e-mail.
唔知佢地會唔會e-mail聯絡我地個interview date,上個星期nvc-,e-mail叫我地補文件,我都知要補,因為護照過左期我照寄去,哈,
...


咁如果NVC都係用e-mail叫你補文件,
咁應該都會同e-mail聯絡你interview date:)

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