A.Yin,
Since your 99 knows about the website, have you considered deleting all your previous posts with all the sensitive issues (esp. the things touching on "8 mui" and her background), then open a new topic to further discuss with us ?
Since all JM have been following your posts for long time, surely we already know about the details and can continue our discussions in your new post.
Hey, we all know your name ?!