CeCe,
WF's behaviour is even worse. Not only slow, but very picky. Like just pick the meat to eat first by himself, then starting eat very slow...waiting me to feed him the remaining rice and vegi...sigh...When I am insisted and being strong, he will cry and say "媽媽, 唔好錦啦！“..look very innocent and pity !
When he wants me to teach him somethings, he never wait me to show him...and start to do by himself....
When we are going out, he always takes long time to wear shoes and socks...even though he can manage to do that...
I don't know whether it's because I go to work. But my husband says that he might do so.
In fact, my maid can handle him very well WITHOUT ME around.
Littlemak,
Remember PLAYRIGHT ? Last time , we were in the playstreet in Central. They are going to have a new function in Discovery Bay.
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Lam Lam also has the same naughty behaviour. She is very demanding on my husband and me when we are at home. In school, she can feed all the food by hershelf withour help. However, in dinner time, she always ask me to feed her.
Even on changing clothes, take a bath, brush teeth ...., she always ask us to accompany her instead of my maid. I don't know whether she didn't like my maid or she afraid of comming baby (as she complained to me that my maid had hit her before).
I'm planning to change my maid, but I'm afraid that suddenly enviromental changes e.g new born baby/ new maid/ trouble three girl in 1-2 months will make me crazy.
clma:
you really have to think carefully to change maid or not. during this period, you need a good and experienced helper. try to investigate if it is true or not that your maid beat your girl up : as my child did complain that the maid beat him up, but in fact he was telling lies and wanted to get our attention. any videocam at home?
tks for your info. i will try to arrange for that nice activity.
however, he was sick since last night, cough, running nose, hoarse voice, very likely catching flu.
wingfung not following instructions-- wingfung and H are very alike. H is showing the same pattern. he was assessed by the Monte course tutor on tue. she analysed his behavior, summarised the findings and gave us some comments. she demonstrated and suggested how to nurture his multi-intelligence now and in future. I found her advice quite reasonable and practical. share with u next time.
btw, he was "scrached & hit" by another little girl in school (he claimed that she is fighting with him for a police car). now he has a big bleeding scar on both eyelids and on the nose and on the elbow. it seems he was the "loser' during the fight as the teacher reported that the girl was not hurt a bit at all !
nkkcal and clma and carollpc:
i think all the kids at this age show the same behaviors , as my child is also having all the problems you mentioned above!
according to the child-developmental psychology, after they pass this stage, they will become very lovely kids then. hopfully ..........
i decided to quit my medical jobs (after struggling for 2 years) and become a full time mom since Jan this year.
i think, I still have, maybe 10 years, to pick up my career after he has got into the sec school; however, my child only have this "golden 6 years", and i have wasted his first 3 years already. so, i decided to give "this full time mom" to him as his 2007 present.
of course, less income, no more satisfaction and achievement from work..........however, it worths. Full-time-mom career is even more tired and busy than before !
:-| :wink:
clma,
Yes, Wing Fung also told me that my maid (he said even my mother-in-law !) had hit him. But I don't believe that. Sometimes, they want to draw your attention, sometimes, they just don't know how to express or react to your question (because I asked him why he was naughty !).
Think before you change the maid, changing maid is really headache to me !
Littlemak,
Think in this way, u can also get your satisfaction and achievement from your son...But you seems even more busy after you become a full-time mom.
Thanks for your sharing. I still consider to change a new maid or not. My maid job perfromance is quite good in housekeeping and cooking. However, lack of smile & childcare technique esp. newborn. The most important things is that one of Lam Lam schoolmate's mother told me that she saw my maid had very impolite & poor attitue to my girl. My maid didn't love my girl. My father always show black face to him.
Littlemak,
I'm very admire of you that you can quite the job & become a fulltime mum. I also want to quite the job too. But I need to work for 2-3 more years to save up money. :-(
Besides, you can planning to have your No.2 la!!
clma:
think in this way: i cut up most of the expenditure on those high heel shoes, office suit, magazine and journels, school fee (as i have the addict to study, if i still continue my work, i am likely to take up a PHD course), etc............. so saving money in this way.
however, i found that recently i spend much much much more on son, his books, toys, educational materials, his ECA fees...................
so, the $ saved = $ spent.
sigh...........same !
Clma,
Yes, whether your maid likes kids oir not is a very important factor. My last maid also works very good for housework & cooking. But she does not like kids, I know she loves Wing Fung, but for her to choice, she would prefer to do houseworks than taking care/playing with Wing Fung. So Wing Fung does not close to her...Anyway, you can try to find to see whether you can find a better one first before you decide.
Littlemak,
You spent so much because you are a shop-aholic.
This Easter holiday...very busy. Went to 掃墓,Disneyland, Easter Egg Hunt at Discovery Bay, 小麥子birthday party....and one whole day resting. Wing Fung keeps saying many times...媽媽, 我好鍾意你呀！I don't know why he is still so sticky...though he also said he was not baby anymore ! ?-(
Littlemak,
Wing Fung told me tonite, he was so happy yesterday...I guess they all had fun. Thk you so much !
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