BMF,
Ai.........seems big group of people, but all need attention lei. As 99 look after brother-in-law's daughter, my hubby will look after lo-yeh (in wheelchair). Ansel also didn't walk much, so I'll need to take care of him during the whole journey + a lot of BB things need to take. Don't know whether hubby can carry these.
H3,
Don't like the Chinese style doctor, can see other kind of doctor, the most important thing is no more painful ma. Last time I thought my hand only small thing & only consult 1-2 times of doctor. But at last decide to go a few more times to make sure at least no more painful. Now, more better la (when take heavy thing will pain).
BMF,
Maybe you can try to let your BB eat together with other BB of same age. When your BB see others are eayibf, maybe your BB will eat too. I found that my girl and boy eat more and better when they eat with others BB together.
You can see if it work on Sunday as I think there maybe BB in your church.