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原帖由 pollyw 於 10-6-9 19:37 發表
Do媽,慢慢黎啦!

首先,佢未有乜大錯。

手腳慢…你有時間表比佢嗎?其實我冇架!因為我家好多野都不定時。叫到佢做乜就做乜。頭几天作野係会慢d,或者因為摸5熟d野住。我会比佢慢慢做先,過左兩、三日就同佢講,要快d喇。 ...

非常同意啊！

教仔心得：媽咪容易犯的錯誤
http://www.baby-kingdom.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=951856&extra=&page=1

成日話「讚」可以改正小朋友壞行為，到底點解同點讚？
http://forum.baby-kingdom.com//v ... page%3D1&page=1

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原帖由 DoReMi媽媽 於 10-6-9 19:38 發表

我通常係叫佢哋落樓下商場度買, 如果新嚟工人就會事先帶佢行過嗰度, 話個landmark俾佢聽, 買之前就畫埋map俾佢, 暫時未試過去錯.

兩間佢都有去開...... 所以冇諗過佢會去得錯, 早餐時間買d 要浸完先煮得嘅麪餅返嚟！

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原帖由 CrabPincers 於 10-6-9 16:55 發表

呀, 係呀, 姓劉呀, 劉x真呀! (都係delete 返吾好打全命)

吾好去啦..........去排政府啦, 吾好side 呢d $
我隻仔就係去完政府評估, 我吾順氣, 再搵佢做多一次, 連埋report用左我成皮幾野, 無記錯既話, report 都要 ...

我個仔係搵私人心理學家做評估
咁講, 我覺得個價錢可接受, 同埋, 佢真係有寫信去社署幫我催.
雖然都要幾千蚊, 同埋之後政府CAC都係唔使3個月就排到見心理學家, 但我使呢幾千蚊, 唔使忐忑多3個月, 我覺得值得.

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原帖由 SandraLo 於 10-6-9 18:27 發表

會唔會我地唔係講緊同一樣嘢？
養和個兒童評估中心唔係2千一個鐘？一個assessment
3千幾4千咋咩？

唔止
如果係兒科醫生做評估, 要八千幾

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原帖由 DoReMi媽媽 於 10-6-9 19:49 發表

polly
多謝你o既安慰, 可能哩兩日要早過佢起身, 又要遲過佢瞓, 見到佢做o既嘢又慢, 心情真係好低落, 成日諗, 一個係咁, 二個又係咁, 不斷換, 哩啲日子沒完沒了, 好似好冇希望咁, 所以唔開心! 我有俾時間表佢, 但好 ...

Do媽, 要講嘅普洱姐大致講晒~

我想補充多一點 : 請工人係要幫輕自己, 唔好為咗呢樣野而帶來壓力, 唔值得. 佢真係好唔掂, 立即去家務通整個家務助理黎幫輕下先, 你就再逐樣重點教個工人.

同埋, 真係唔好期望佢地會和顏悅色, 好如我蜜糖賓, 佢都唔係一日笑到黑, 佢仲周時會抖大氣添~
咁的確佢工作係幾吃重, 同埋, 佢都會有壓力 (做唔到阿mom要求/思家/攰.....), 佢都要d空間, 我要抽離d去睇.

我返工都會有黑面時, 唔發老細火, 咁老闆都會包容我. 對工人, 我都係同樣方法處理.

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原帖由 ellawyc 於 10-6-10 00:03 發表

我個仔係搵私人心理學家做評估
咁講, 我覺得個價錢可接受, 同埋, 佢真係有寫信去社署幫我催.
雖然都要幾千蚊, 同埋之後政府CAC都係唔使3個月就排到見心理學家, 但我使呢幾千蚊, 唔使忐忑多3個月, 我覺得值得. ...

in my understanding

psychologist pays more focus on the behavior & emotional aspects, i mean follow-up treatment
paediatrician pays more attention to the physical treatment, i.e. illnesses

so, although both of them use the same assessment tick tick tick (probably standard assessement list), the follow-up treatment &/or the focus of child's problem may not be the same

recently, getting more social workers claim that they also provide such assessment, e.g. st Jxxe's,
(probably using the same assessment tick tick tick as well), however, they focus more on social & family aspect, most of them, so-call, provide theray after a short course of "training" (siusum, you may know more)
(p.s. Sandra, I also see the social worker from coloured eye-glasses, without specific reason)

certainly, in booboo's case, if only want to know the assessment result (score) in a short time, persoanlly i think it doesn't really matter
but i would suggest to find a professional particular patience in conducting the assessment for child (avoid bias the result) & also particular has relatively more professional knowledge on child behavior and emotional development issue (deeply read the meaning of the score & dig out the actual problem)

in my case, bb fish & my god-son just presented with no talking, even bb sound, but they looked at & smiled at everyone whom talked to them
booboo, what else make you so worry

as mentioned, my elder bb fish is bornt with long-term health problem which is not curable....this challenges me to think and look for way ahead so as to facilitate this little child to enjoy the life journey same as the other children (tears & joys, study & play)
thanks that this maid understands & really pays attention (but she is more friendly with younger bb fish!)

anyhow,
you all are expert in this topic & in training children but not me! I know just a little & superfical!
I admire to all of you such good mothers and spend lot of time & effort with your precious children! Solute to you. I will continue to support you all spirtually!
I stop here by now.

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原帖由 DoReMi媽媽 於 10-6-9 19:09 發表

我懷疑我請工人請到有啲抑鬱, 其實佢噚日係正式第1日開工, 當然速度唔會快, 結果係2個廁所只係洗咗1個, 好多衫未熨, 噚晚餐飯由我一手包辦, 連set table切生菓都係我自己做(嗰個時段佢仲喺主廁度做緊), 因為晚餐只 ...

i suppose most of employers face with the same problem as you.

you are good in both IQ & EQ, you can overcome this

relax & cheers

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原帖由 bbfish1992 於 10-6-10 06:27 發表
recently, getting more social workers claim that they also provide such assessment, e.g. st Jxxe's,
(probably using the same assessment tick tick tick as well), however, they focus more on social & family aspect, most of them, so-call, provide theray after a short course of "training" (siusum, you may know more)
(p.s. Sandra, I also see the social worker from coloured eye-glasses, without specific reason)

我有聽過c6話佢地機構都有咁上下服務, 不過唔係social worker做係ot架...
試過個時未有工人, 99又整親腳, c6就帶左阿仔返工, 個期佢返個個centre有provide呢d服務...就叫d ot定pt睇住阿仔先, 仲順便幫阿仔做評估, 但評乜評成點又冇講...因為c6話都係份standard form tick tick tick, 好似好求其咁

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原帖由 SandraLo 於 10-6-9 18:27 發表

會唔會我地唔係講緊同一樣嘢？
養和個兒童評估中心唔係2千一個鐘？一個assessment
3千幾4千咋咩？

WAHAAAAAAAA 甘我可能記錯左, 係評估+報告8000, not 評估8000啦, 我只係記得, 收到報告時, 就下, 3頁紙, 甘就收我4000元?

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原帖由 SandraLo 於 10-6-9 17:50 發表

養和口碑唔錯個喎......

其實佢係吾差架, 但相比起, 一個100元, 一個8000元(之前記錯萬2, sorry), 甘就無謂比呢d $ law

起碼, 養和醫生講既野, 無政府醫生講既甘hurt law, 佢會識得comfort 我law, wahaaaaa

我自己覺得咋, 尤其係, 好似我甘, 係政府做完, 就更加吾好side$再去做多一次law, wahaaaaaaaaaaaa

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原帖由 DoReMi媽媽 於 10-6-9 19:09 發表

我懷疑我請工人請到有啲抑鬱, 其實佢噚日係正式第1日開工, 當然速度唔會快, 結果係2個廁所只係洗咗1個, 好多衫未熨, 噚晚餐飯由我一手包辦, 連set table切生菓都係我自己做(嗰個時段佢仲喺主廁度做緊), 因為晚餐只 ...

同佢講野吾應你呢, 試下講多幾次, 講到佢應你為止.......

佢未出過國打工, 會吾會真係慢d?

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原帖由 DoReMi媽媽 於 10-6-9 19:24 發表

以前叫工人去買嘢冇一個會有問題的, 因為我只係寫晒中文餐名俾餐廳, 係最衰隻肥嘢, 成日會找小錢返嚟, 我懷疑佢以前照顧婆婆時幫婆婆買嘢特登落格, 老人家又由得佢, 嚟到我度又故態復萌, 試過幾次找小錢, 最搞笑佢 ...

5毫都呃? 衰得甘緊要?

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原帖由 CrabPincers 於 10-6-10 09:40 發表

5毫都呃? 衰得甘緊要?

積少成多...每日5毫, 一個月就$15

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原帖由 CrabPincers 於 10-6-10 09:38 發表

同佢講野吾應你呢, 試下講多幾次, 講到佢應你為止.......

佢未出過國打工, 會吾會真係慢d?

或者好似我隻仔咁...應慢d都"媽"到我暈, 再唔答佢就轉我個頭再"媽"

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原帖由 ellawyc 於 10-6-10 00:04 發表

唔止
如果係兒科醫生做評估, 要八千幾

唉, 你又話要, 我真係吾記得要幾多$ 啦, 總之, 份report 就肯定收我4000

下次都係吾好要report, 包括政府既, 我上次又衰衰甘, 申請左政府評估(小一入學前果份)report, 結果又係呻笨, 600幾元(定700幾), 得一頁定兩頁紙...............激c

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講樣開心既野比你們聽
吾知早排有無同你們講過
呀仔第一次中作評估, 有d 吾識做既, 就空白, 乜都吾寫

我叫佢, 你吾識, 都照抄原句, 再改一兩隻字呀(改寫句子)

第二次考試, 佢真係照做, 照抄原句, 乜都吾改
我再教佢, 甘你都將一兩隻要改既字, 跟例句改下呀!

佢還答我, 我有寫野bor, 我有抄返原句wor

好, 到第三次, 真係有改啦, 但改錯

到尋日, 派左評估卷, 今次真係有聽我教啦, 居然差一分就滿分wor, 只係錯左一個標點符號

雖然係評估吾係考試
但真係我付出既, 佢收到law

分數, 我吾mind, 就算佢差一分先合格都ok, 但起碼比我知道佢真係有留心聽我講既野, 亦無發夢

初時, 以為有輔導老師幫手, 因為尋日果堂係有兩個老師上堂(中英數3科, 每星期都有幾堂有個輔導老師入班房幫手), 但問左呀仔, 尋日主科老師請左假(呀女証實左係), 所以無人幫佢, 全靠自己

希望佢考試時, 出返評估時既一半力去做甘就老懷安慰啦

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各位,普洱誠意送比大家>>>>>>

http://www.slide.com/r/7emsSKuM5z_K2uyGP2IGKudlDxi_W0g6?previous_view=mscd_embedded_url&view=original

[ 本帖最後由 pollyw 於 10-6-10 10:19 編輯 ]

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原帖由 pollyw 於 10-6-10 10:11 發表
各位,普洱誠意送比大家>>>>>>

http://www.slide.com/r/7emsSKuM5z_K2uyGP2IGKudlDxi_W0g6?previous_view=mscd_embedded_url&view=original

普洱姐

真係多謝你啦, 不過下次有呢d 筍野時, 不妨lunch time 前先post 上黎啦, 等我可以順便減下肥, wahaaaaaaaa

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