I know ga... and you are right.... but I still need to wait for three more weeks so that when my parents live together with us in the same place...I MUST fry her immediately...
But in these few weeks... I need to be patient!!!!! the most difficult thing for me .....
U're right... she worked in HK for one contract (2 years) before transferred to my home... BUT her behaviour was totally different in the family beforehand!!!
Yes...dinner後佢快快做去抱bb, 妳叫佢bb冇喊就唔使抱, 仲有dinner時間都係佢既working hours, 點解可坐係度睇tv, 如唔使serve妳地就叫佢入廚房做野等...I told her many times BUT she 當我transparent!!! and carry on to hold bb even bb doesn't cry!!! and my hubby will eat very very very fast and to carry bb (even he hasn't drank soup!!!)
One thing more.... I find that she wears RED bra and Black or white T-back!!!! I wonder whether there's a 'chicken' in my home!!!
this morning, my hubby finally agreed to fry her when my parents move to here... I wish this moment will come soon!!!
Paulina
P.S. warning letter is no use to her ga... coz she will not be afraid of this... since she has a team of support group behind (like last time she went out in public holiday but b4 3 months employment!!!) ... made us very frightened!!!
throughout yesterday sleepless night, I am so silly to employ this maid!!! warning letters I know are no use to her... and so thus the view cam... coz she is an experienced maid and has so many friends in HK to support her and teach her how to do!!!
I'll take up to take care bb in mid night, to feed him and so... I'll never let her touch bb anymore... and now in daytime, both gong gong and por por will come and take care bb till we back home!!!
Well, for good point to see... hope this harsh task will let me slim down very soon la.
But I think I won't employ bunbun in near future... I'll employ a local part time to do the two homes loh!
Paulina
P.S. when will your new yan yan come? Remember to be more 'fierce' at first... tell her the schedule./rules and so on... and be harsh at first... then see her response and adjust la. Wish u good luck.
'chicken' at home is abit joking... but she has so mannnnny clothes at home!!!! I don't why she has so manyyy... even for shoes... also like this... and I found yesterday that she had vacanted the lowest layer of my shoes cabinet and placed all her shoes there... and put my newly brought shoes in a mess... (ie not put them in L and R but put them all together - save more space and push it in the cabinet!!!)
What I will do is to check carefully all the procedures I need to comply and when that moment comes, I'll let gong gong and por por to carry bb away and leaving us to deal with her, watching her to pack her luggage, and give her the tickets, cash and so on... request to have our keys and let her go... afterwards, find the man to change the locks for me.
No use to give her warning letter coz she has lots of 'sisters' to help her... (Still very frightened when I recalled the moment I talked to her abt the public holiday...) I don;t want to make the thing into trouble... just give her one more month salary okay loh! (nearly $7000... arrrr!)
I just wish her to go our of my home ASAP! Other than one month salary in lieu of notice, you can choose to give her notice one month before you dismiss her but there's a big rish coz you have bb at home!!!