Wah! Haven't online for one night only, it takes me very long time to read back all your messages! so 'yit lau' today!
I go to work at 10am everyday, but finish work at 8pm at night, so my baby is taken care by my mother ah! I visit him every Wed night and take him back home every Sat and Sun. Miss him a lot! Last night after visiting him, I don't want to leave my mother's house ah! :cry: :cry: :cry:
I understand you feelings because I have been working from 8am to 10 pm these days. I could only hug my baby for a few minutes in the morning and then again in the evening. What's worse is that I could only rely on a Phil maid. all I hope is that when I am better off later, I can spare more time with her.
Don't be upset! Be positive....look forwards to the x'mas holidays & chinese new year.
Somtimes, we should let off a bit and look at things in a wider angle. Did you watch the TV programme a few days ago on TVB? The WorldVision one. The programme showed a lot of the worest situation in Africa, the kids and babies didn't have much to eat. They were starving. They didn't have clean water to drink and people get sick easily. Kids die before aged 5 in a ratio of 5:1. Our babies born in a fruitful society, it's the blessings! My husband and I are considering to adopt 助養 1 or 2 kids. It only costs HK$7per day and the kids over there can get food, medication and education. It's very meaningful.
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Thanks for your sharings! I always think that my baby is taken care of my mother, who should be caring him and love him a lot, and so my baby should be very happy. Then I will feel much better.
I have think of employing a maid, but I afraid I am not as lucky as niklaus or others.....good maid seems difficult to find. And when my baby is in her hand when we are at work, I don't know what she will do to my baby. So, I give up this idea...... seeing him less but at least I am sure someone trustful is taking care of him.
Ah! I will install Vphone today, one at my house and one at my mother's house. So from today onwards I can see my baby through the screen of the phone everyday! I am really looking forward to this!
#13, I want to know also the address of the shop selling the X'Mas clothes
xxl, it seems that my BB like 'sum wing', however, as I mix mame milk with formula, she only drink "sum wing" at night. I started it this monday only, and I will let you know later.
I also got a few minutes with BB only. When I get back home, I have to do homework with my elder girl together. She is very naughty and it's time consuming. BB ususally sleep around 9:00pm. I can only kiss her good night. Now, my maid take care of BB at night and she usu. have night feeding around 2:45am. Can't afford to pump milk and feeding BB in one night and with little sleep.
However, BB simile very sweetly when I talk to her.
I am a full pump mame, so, I have no issue on this.
niklaus903,
Is your "baby carrier" good or not? It seems "little red book" enjoy it very much woo...I have bought a baby sling but my BB don't like it :cry: Have to buy another one.