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發表於 07-6-2 00:14 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

各位:

知道大家的近況,有開心的,有不開心的,我為到草莓芝士餅和kelly感恩,因為我們都等到神給我們的應許,可以承產我們的產業。

yimyee,知道你的情況,都為你感到難過,有時我們真的不明白神的心意和時間,但我知道,一切等候耶和華的,必重新得力,為你祈禱。

grace,不知你的手術順利嗎?記得update你的情況給我們知道。

至於其他尚在等待的姊妹,不要氣餒,神並沒有忘記你們,只要憑著信,我們一定等到神的應許的---生養眾多,遍滿全地。

看完你們的分享,很想分享一下我過去三年來的經驗和感受,希望可以幫到大家。

2004年,我和老公結婚的第三年,我們開始計劃生bb,但因我的經期很長(但穩定),所以捉不到排卵日,等候了一年,開始睇家計會。我記得當時我和老公想要仔女的渴望並不相同,他不太緊張,只有我緊張,只有我去找醫生,而他則盡量配合。

但家計會並不幫到我們,醫生叫我們第五日食排卵藥,但我看其他forum,大部分醫生都指示在第二日食,我覺得我浪費了兩個cycle的時間,之後我找到了dr tay,他很有愛心幫助我們。我們最後用了半年時間,食了4個cycle 的排卵藥,但dr話排卵藥對我不好,令我的子宮內膜變薄,所以建議我們做iui,但當時我們仍心存盼望,希望可以nature成功,可惜不能。當我們決定要做iui時,我哭了出來,原來真係要做iui。當時老公對擁有孩子的渴望強了,但我覺得我們尚未一致。

第一次iui失敗後,我很無奈,覺得要看中醫,當時我找了一位剛中醫畢業的朋友,請她幫忙,吃了她兩三次藥後,因口碑的關係,我轉睇了這裏介紹的中醫,初時以為終於找對了,可惜仍然未能成功。記得我做第二次iui時針藥對我的反應不錯,可惜....那時iui後,我每日量溫度,當到了第13日時,溫度突然下降,我便知道失敗,我攬著老公,歇斯底里地哭,不明白為何仍然失敗,我亦不明白神的心意。撞啱當時身體有很多姊妹都bingo了,我有更多的問號。

之後我對中醫失去信心,已叠埋心水再做一次iui,一於括出去,若不行時,便做ivf。當時我老公已很想要bb了,我覺得我們的步伐一致了。但我們的財政不是太好,我們仍堅持做iui,因為我們真的很渴望生bb,寧願負債也要做iui。今年三月,我再去做iui,可惜dr話我有水泡,不能做iui,要等一個cycle,當時我很失望,為甚麼仍要等呢?恰巧一位大過我,問題比我還嚴重的姊妹bingo了,她告訴我她看了港大中醫,不斷的叫我去看,說一定得的。當時我已沒有甚麼主意,因她的誠意,我約了港大中醫。

去看港大中醫時,撞著濕疹發作,她主力幫我醫濕疹,還說若醫好濕疹,清理體內的濕和瘀,便會容易有bb,在吃了兩個星期的藥後,便開始做iui,打針了,我還記得,當我比錢開始做iui時,我們的財政困難解決了。直至iui後,我們暫停所有中藥,等待結果。

在等待期間真的很辛苦,尤其是最後的七日,咁啱又撞著工作上極大的壓力,令我整個人....我都不知怎樣形容,最後,我成功了。

我分享這些,我覺得過去三年,我學懂了:

1.神讓我們學習,過程中讓我和老公對想有bb 的步伐一致。
2. 神要我們學習理財和懂得照顧自己,因我倆都是家中最小,有時不懂得照顧自己,又很大洗。我覺得這個功課,我們學了3年,3年後才學懂。
3. 當我們學習學習完畢後,神便按祂的應許給我們,即使做iui當月的環境是何等的惡劣,壓力何等的大,神說要給,是沒有不能的事情。我記得做iui的那月,我每晚都很夜瞓,被工作、家庭,甚麼身體(濕疹)困擾著,完全活不出健康的生活。
4. 必須看醫生,因為身體真的有毛病,又或者說,身體較難懷孕,必須請醫生幫一把。其中我覺得中醫功不可沒,如果大家有興趣的話,可以試下這位港大中醫陳建萍,我覺得她的藥真的幫到我。
5. 當你失望時,不要灰心,因為神自有祂的時間,在神是千年如同一日,我們此刻的等候,在祂眼中只是很短的時間。

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發表於 07-6-2 00:21 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

我太長氣了,但我仍想update我的近況,讓大家分享神在我身上的作為。

31/5我早上致電廣華醫院生育和內分必科,告訴他們我已經懷孕,希望可以轉看產科。下午我收到廣華護士的電話,告訴我5/6早上回去照。我很感恩,因當日dr也約了我回去,我可以同一日處理。同時,在bk的姊妹分享,現在醫院已實行分區制,不是當區居住的,不能排,以我理解,廣華的產科是不錯的,且我和老公都是在廣華出世的,我一向都想在廣華跟進。神讓我一年兩個月前排廣華,又讓我等bingo前可以第一次見醫生,最終讓我進入到廣華的產科,這個安排實在太奇妙了。

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vic6

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發表於 07-6-2 11:30 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

VenusTam ,

hi, 廣華是不錯, mom在生完bb後亦會幫mom跟進其他問題,如:糖尿病, 安排見營養師...etc.

我好想問問你意見, 我唔知會唔會有機會bingo? 因為lee 2 -3個月都是32天cycle. 所以我便在倒數的15day愛愛...在當日的1-1.5日前 check d仔有1條dark1條淺,便唸24-48hrs內ok. 你話機會有幾大呢??? 其實心裡在愛愛前及後都同主說自己想要bb仔,我好像已交給主作決定, 願祂能bring us to the right way. 不過, 今日又想找朋友傾o下機會率...!!!

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發表於 07-6-2 17:20 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

vic6,
我上次都係偶然o既機會, 有朋友介紹我用d仔, 開頭我老公仲唔信, 第一, 二個月用, 都check唔到自己幾時排卵, 擔心自己排卵有問題, 點知到第三個月用d仔, 我週期28日, o係第13日開始驗到有淺下線, 第14日最深, 咁我o係第12日至16日都有dodo, 就係咁, 第27日用d仔驗孕已經驗到啦~

上一次小產係到50日都驗唔到架, 今次咁早驗到真係好開心!! o係小產之後果段時間, 我日日都祈禱求神o係合適o既時候俾bb我, 我就無再擔心啦, 未有bb果個月就當可以再玩多個月先囉, 點知我仲想約人去打波, 踩單車前, 已經驗到有左, 果一刻覺得, 神對我好好, 咁快就幫我~

只要將一切放下交俾神, o係適當o既時候, 神就會回應你架啦! 應當一無掛慮嘛~ 開心d去面對啦!!

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發表於 07-6-2 20:45 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

vic6

很難講,我自己有用d仔和量體溫,才知道有沒有排卵,但check到有排卵,又唔代表精子與卵子結合。我明白在等待bb時,我們會用很多方法,去預測何時排卵,但當我越懂掌握這個方法時,我越是掌握不到何時排卵。個人意見是,我們可以嘗試掌握排卵時間,然後努力,但一切都在神的掌握中,祂說有,便會有,祂覺得未係時間,我們便要等待了。

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發表於 07-6-2 20:51 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

各位:

想不到昨晚分享完神在我身上的安排時,今早便有事發生。

昨天晚上,我收到一個工作上的電話後,情緒十分波動,今早起床時,條腰很淵,而且發現有少許啡,當時真的很擔心,但又約了同事開會,幸好他們都願意來我家附近,一路開時,淵的情況慢慢改善,且流啡亦維持很少量,我的心才安下來。

我有嘗試致電診所,但姑娘說我已有針藥,可以做的都做了,只好多d休息。且剛好今日要打針,當我發現流啡時,已即時叫老公幫我打針,相信也有幫助。

我之前以為,神在我咁艱苦的一個月比bb我,我相信這個bb一定無問題,但原來我也要好好保護自己,小心養胎。願與大家共勉之。

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發表於 07-6-3 11:33 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

Hi Venus,

Thanks for your sharing, I understand God has his plan, and experienced that before, we are human beings, sometimes, it is just too hard for us to bear during the waiting time, feel lost too. Anyway, through this thread, I got a lot of courage to keep us going, thanks to all sisters.

Lic9,

We never rule out the possibility of nature conceive. Actually, that how my husband comforted me two days ago. He said dr could not help us, we do it by ourselves, and let God to help us. I was very touched.

草莓芝士餅,

I use the same excuse “未有bb果個月就當可以再玩多個月先囉” to keep us going.

We share, pray and support for each others, come and join us!
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主辦：香港教會更新運動
對象：經長時間等候生育，經歷懷孕困難的女性（已信主或未信主均可）
日期：每月第二個週六2:00 pm – 4:00 pm

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發表於 07-6-3 15:02 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

lic9, Venus, Kelly, YimYee and all sis,

我已返了屋企啦！多謝大家的禱告支持，手術十分順利，醫生在做手術時發現除了左邊，右邊也開始有，所以一並做埋。感謝主，手術後沒有嘔也沒有什麼不舒服，只是較累，所以星期五睡了一天，昨天已可以下床。
醫生說若我們真的想要 bb就要努力，快些有，現在是最好的時間，所以我和丈夫都會盡力而為，看神怎樣帶領啦！

Venus,

多謝妳的分享，神在每時每刻都為我們安排最好的，只是有時我們太專注自己的事而看不到神的安排，感謝主，妳能看到神的恩典在妳和妳的丈夫身上彰顯，多些休息呀，為bb建立一個好好孕育的天地。

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發表於 07-6-3 15:05 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

YimYee,
加油呀! 唔好放棄, 等候神的應許啦!
我之前身體唔好, 試過o係地鐵到暈左, 都要睇左成年中醫, 而家個身體先慢慢好番d, 所以唔好放棄, 對神有信心就得!
為你祈禱啦~

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發表於 07-6-4 12:27 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

Venus﹕爭取多點時間休息呀﹗訓覺係最重要的。

Grace﹕好開心你無事呀﹗仲咁快可以落床﹗不過都要休息多d，養好身體，看看天父會否再賜一個小b比你地。

kelly呢？希望快d聽到你的消息。

我今個星期四下午要去檢查心臟及產檢，睇過一篇文章，有個孕媽媽發現心臟雜聲係血管問題，仲要終止懷孕。當然，心情有少少受影響。不過，禱告和經文給我的力量已遠超一切。

耶穌說﹕「你們心裡不要憂愁；你們信神，也當信我。」(約14:1)

我只誰掌管明天﹗姊妹，請在禱告中記念﹗

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發表於 07-6-4 15:19 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

lic9
will pray for your check up next thur. wish u hand all worries to God

venus
take more rest. let us know tmr after visiting your Dr

grace,
thanks God that your operation went smooth. shall keep praying for u :mrgreen:

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發表於 07-6-4 18:54 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

Dear all,
Thanks for all your prayers, I will take more rest.

lic9,
有時睇得那些文章多會影響自己的情緒，睇還睇，不要給自己太大的影響，求主保護妳呀！

Venus,
多些休息，身體比工作緊要多多呀！

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發表於 07-6-4 19:54 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

Hi all, Haven't been posting for the few days. A little down cuz cycle has extended so long even I am on clomid. Period arrived on Sat and therefore it was a 41days cycle to be exact. Didn't feel too good about it. And it will be my 3 cycle on clomid. Really hope that I bango this month, pls keep me in your prayers. I really try not too think too much about it...........

Grace, Thanks God that your operation was so successful, you are in good hands and hope to hear good news from you very soon.

Venus, thanks for your sharing. Please put your feet up whenever you can. Try to relax more, you are in my prayers.

YimYee, So glad that you are feeling better these days and you are coping really well. What your husband said was really touching. Try without any hospital treatment for the time being and believe that He will provide.

Birdyfan, Perhaps you can browse on some of the health sites to see if there is any recommendation for good Chinese ec in your area. I live in Dublin. Just being nosy, do you meet your husband in HK or UK?

Kelly, how are you there?

You girls are in my thoughts and prayers.

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發表於 07-6-4 23:41 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

hi all

as today is my son's school holiday . so i'm busier than usual .

my sister just gave birth to a bb boy last night. and we go to visit her today. it's really amazing to see a baby. feel so glad. :mrgreen:

pigpiglau
may i know when u on clomid, will u back to clinic and check how many eggs u have and the size?
as I've tried clomid before for 3 cycles, the Dr is not very experienced and didn't do any check up / follow up
... so i think it's not much helpful .
anyway, shall keep u in my prayers, hope u gain strength in God

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發表於 07-6-5 19:26 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

各位:

不好的消息,今日去看dr,dr話個size很細,不似6w,下星期會再去check,若一切不變,即是小產,很不開心呢!之後我去了看中醫,中醫話,她仍摸到懷孕,但確是有點問題,相信是濕和瘀造成的,所以這個星期很重要,她要我多睡,多笑,若過到這個星期,應該沒問題。此刻很擔心呢!因為想不到以為一切順利,原來還有這麼多要經歷,求神可以令個胎大啦!請大家為我祈禱。

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發表於 07-6-5 19:48 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

Hi sisters,

Venus, sorry to hear the news, 請多多休息，如果這期有長胎便ok. 會為你禱告。"在神，凡事都能"。

Kelly, I had follicles scanned for 1st cycle, they seems to be pretty ok regarding to size and everything. But I ovulated pretty late at that cycle around day21 ...I believe. SO I didn't go to have the scan for 2nd cycle because the hospital is quite far away. And I decided to go again for this cycle. If nothing happen, need to see the Dr. again. .......

How's everyone else?

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Kellyaugust2004

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發表於 07-6-5 22:04 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

venus

let's pray together. wish your bb is growing healthily
bed rest more.
God is leading you.

pigpiglau
i see. shall pray for u too . keeping relax.

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發表於 07-6-5 22:12 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

Sry for being lazy for days but all sis r in my prayer everyday! Our God is the best.

Yim Yee, Thanks God for u feeling better now. Don't give up but depend on God more. We'll have peace on Him.
Grace, It's so good to know u recovered from operation so soon, pls take better rest & let yr health better for working out yr dream.
Lic9, Thanks for yr nice sharing of good book, I sent message to my sis & told her about the book at once. Don't be too stress, that's no good for u & baby. If u feel worry, let's reading Bible. God's words will charge u up w/extra energy!

Venus, Good rest is vy important to u at this moment. Pls take care.
Kelly,U need good rest too! Kid is always naughty but he will slowly learn he'll become big brother. He'll be yr helper afterward. Keep Smiling!
pigpiglau, my hb tells me Dublin is a nice place. I really want to there once. As I tell u I got no 'market' in HK

so in 2004 I signed up to an internet dating website for 6 months for luck but just 2 days later my hb found me out & then keep on contact. 1 Yr later in Mar he & his mom came to HK met me & proposed, then I came over to UK on May. I've been in Leicester 3yrs now. It's a big gamble for me but in God's blessing, I'm vy happy in here.

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