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大宅

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1341#
發表於 07-6-2 00:00 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

to oiluen,

在此事上, 教會我勇敢面對的是妳。
妳經歷過的是這麼痛苦卻又能堅強面對, 才真是不容易。

人生路上的磨難總會有, 我相信明白孩子得來不易的我們, 將來會比得來容易的更用心去教育孩子, 珍惜孩子。我們未老,只要身體仍健壯,仍可以努力啊!

當前急務, 我預約了仁安下星期做刮宮, 若這星期可以自行流失, 那對身體應該較好。我已預約好月尾去看中醫, 而且打算慢慢恢復運動及健康飲食<---準媽媽身心健康才最重要!

其實自小我家都是不信中醫, 因有親友吃了假中藥死了, 我媽很怕中藥監管不足, 所以上次小產後仍反對我看中醫。今次決定瞞著媽媽去看....

正如我的同事說: 身體不健康, 生下小孩都沒氣力帶!







oiluen 寫道:
gracedolly:
你真的很勇敢。
知道你的事真的很難過, 但見到你那麼勇敢, 亦為你而驕傲!
你說得對, 小產已經令人很不開心, 亦會諗係唔係自己錯, 但, 事實上, 好多時12週前小產都係個胎本身有問題, 唔係個孕婦的問題, 所以, 真的不要令小產的人唔開心, 唔好覺得自己有問題, 大家已經做得很好! 真的唔好再怪自己!


男爵府

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1342#
發表於 07-6-2 13:10 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

gracedolly

記住該記住的,忘記該忘記的。改變能改變的,接受不能改變的.

生命中總有挫折,那不是盡頭,只是在提醒你,該轉彎了。

我你正是經歷過2次流產陰影係好傷既,
你一下子又唔可以100%放低既, 但這是正常的,
所以你唔好諗喇, 而加最緊要調理返身體為上,
因為我都覺得自己身體唔係咁好,我都係搵中醫養好身體。
快d補身,快D攪好身子,最緊要係你自己無事,
希望你可以收拾心情, 大家下次再努力過!

放手不代表承認失敗,放手只是為自己再找條更美好的路走!!這句話其實很有意思!


大宅

積分: 3487


1343#
發表於 07-6-2 14:05 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

thanks~~ ^^
祝早日養好身體, 重新再來!

Q4 寫道:
gracedolly

記住該記住的,忘記該忘記的。改變能改變的,接受不能改變的.

生命中總有挫折,那不是盡頭,只是在提醒你,該轉彎了。

我你正是經歷過2次流產陰影係好傷既,
你一下子又唔可以100%放低既, 但這是正常的,
所以你唔好諗喇, 而加最緊要調理返身體為上,
因為我都覺得自己身體唔係咁好,我都係搵中醫養好身體。
快d補身,快D攪好身子,最緊要係你自己無事,
希望你可以收拾心情, 大家下次再努力過!

放手不代表承認失敗,放手只是為自己再找條更美好的路走!!這句話其實很有意思!


男爵府

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1344#
發表於 07-6-2 19:30 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

gracedolly,
啱啱睇到你的經歷..so sorry to hear that ...但你真的好勇敢..好堅強...

我覺得你都可以揾中醫調理下先...揾多幾個..揾到啱為止..其實你唔放心的話可以揾個註冊中醫..咁乜安全d o羅..或者try浸會..廣華o固 d 就有保証d... (因為我五月中都小產左...現積極看&揾好中醫當中)

但千其唔好心急(其中一個中醫叫我等半年先試)...我公司有兩位同事age 40+...都成功生左...(雖然有時我都會諗點解我後生咁多反而唔得?)

anyway.. 一定要加油...遲d我地响媽媽會所再傾過...

https://i.ksd-i.com/s/630x_86400_d73df9dd036307410a503045cbbfae07/static.koreastardaily.com/profile/23243/138969.jpg


別墅

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1345#
發表於 07-6-2 23:02 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

I have my own experience that want to share with u all. I have 2 times 小產 and the first time I don't know why but may be the problem of the feutus ( I think and the doctor think also), so I decided to have 2nd time pregnancy, but 小產again This time I check with other doctor and he take some blood and found that I have low progesterone level, may be this is the problem that cause 2 小產.before next time pregnancy , he need to do some checking first. so I think you could find out if there are some reasons hindred and can be regulate later. At my first doctor, she didn't check any , just say it is normal and high percentage, but I see other who is mainly specialist in sunfertility . I think this is different. But I don't know it is the main cause or not, I haven't try yet, I am seeing the chinese EC and will think again later.


大宅

積分: 3487


1346#
發表於 07-6-2 23:11 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

我看過三位醫生, 我積極提出過要檢驗, 但他們都只說連續三次才需檢查。我也很想做清楚檢查, 請妳把醫生資料pm給我可以嗎? thanks~~~
m(_ _)m

fungchu 寫道:
I have my own experience that want to share with u all. I have 2 times 小產 and the first time I don't know why but may be the problem of the feutus ( I think and the doctor think also), so I decided to have 2nd time pregnancy, but 小產again This time I check with other doctor and he take some blood and found that I have low progesterone level, may be this is the problem that cause 2 小產.before next time pregnancy , he need to do some checking first. so I think you could find out if there are some reasons hindred and can be regulate later. At my first doctor, she didn't check any , just say it is normal and high percentage, but I see other who is mainly specialist in sunfertility . I think this is different. But I don't know it is the main cause or not, I haven't try yet, I am seeing the chinese EC and will think again later.


大宅

積分: 3487


1347#
發表於 07-6-3 10:25 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

謝謝~
事發後我常想, 人活著還是要向前走, 只要身體尚好的話, 還有機會的, 而且生兒育女並不是人生的全部。

我家老公説:「再試多次, 檢驗清楚, 真的不行的話, 我們用養仔女那筆錢提早退休去坐郵輪環遊世界。」<--聽來也很不錯哦....一生人不能生兒育女, 至少能和心愛的人環遊世界..
於是我又站起來了。 (T_T)--> (^ ^)

我們一起努力哦, 未停經身體好, 還是尚有機會的。或許年齡多少有影響->流產機會大, 但夫婦基因是否相合, 卵子精子質素都有影響。我想看中醫可以補好子宮及卵子精子質素, 所以也會捉老公一起去看中醫及驗身。但若真的基因有點小問題的話, 寄望再試以機率排除, 三次不行的話, 我會請醫生轉介QE遺傳科check基因。<--暫時如此打算著...

感謝很多姐妹及同事都給我中醫資料, 我會試到相合為止~
我會先試試港大的一位...叫蘇晶<--因為近我家, 而且港大感覺安全點 ^^ 不過這位要預約差不多一個月....

大家都努力呀~~俾心機煲藥同飲藥


wincat 寫道:
gracedolly,
啱啱睇到你的經歷..so sorry to hear that ...但你真的好勇敢..好堅強...

我覺得你都可以揾中醫調理下先...揾多幾個..揾到啱為止..其實你唔放心的話可以揾個註冊中醫..咁乜安全d o羅..或者try浸會..廣華o固 d 就有保証d... (因為我五月中都小產左...現積極看&揾好中醫當中)

但千其唔好心急(其中一個中醫叫我等半年先試)...我公司有兩位同事age 40+...都成功生左...(雖然有時我都會諗點解我後生咁多反而唔得?)

anyway.. 一定要加油...遲d我地响媽媽會所再傾過...


男爵府

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1348#
發表於 07-6-4 11:48 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

gracedolly,

要努力養好身體呀!

我以前都唔信中醫, 但而家都睇緊啦, 而且而家d中醫有註冊, 好似穩陣d!

mama: bb熊
仔仔:     mr cool 史葛仔


大宅

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1349#
發表於 07-6-4 18:40 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

Gracedolly,

ai.. me, still no hope.. M is irregular and trying the ovulation medicine..

Still so admire those who have BB..

You have to take well care. Sometimes, I believe it's the matter of timing. I believe one day you and me can be a mother also~~

Fully support yoU~




大宅

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1350#
發表於 07-6-4 21:34 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

hi fungchu,
I'm sorry about your two losses. Would you mind telling me at which week did you lose the two pregnancies? I had a miscarriage 3 months ago. I'm struggling to see a gynae because I'm afraid they won't bother running test because of just one miscarriage. But I just wanna be sure I won't miscarry again the next 'bingo'! I used to think that I'm healthy but I no longer think so. I just want everything right before another pregnancy. Thanks!


大宅

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1351#
發表於 07-6-4 22:47 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

gracedolly & both

我老公都係噤同我講如果試左都唔得就唔生啦 都係話開開心心心去旅行同玩

真係其實我地好幸運
因為有個好老公
大家都健健康康 冇病痛
冇仔女可以生活 冇健康就什麼都冇啦
所以我覺得努力過 就okay 不需要結果
於是生活的壓力都小了很多
http://lb1f.lilypie.com/m2xKp8.png


大宅

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1352#
發表於 07-6-4 23:22 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

Just want to share... I am seeing a Chinese Doctor, he told me to be patient, no need to try to bingo until he ask me... he said if the Egg is small, the choose of 小產 is very high... so he said I should take more Chinese medicine until the Egg is over 1.5cm big, then the chance of 小產will be low...

So maybe consult w/ Chinese doctor is good for keeping healthy!


fungchu 寫道:
I have my own experience that want to share with u all. I have 2 times 小產 and the first time I don't know why but may be the problem of the feutus ( I think and the doctor think also), so I decided to have 2nd time pregnancy, but 小產again This time I check with other doctor and he take some blood and found that I have low progesterone level, may be this is the problem that cause 2 小產.before next time pregnancy , he need to do some checking first. so I think you could find out if there are some reasons hindred and can be regulate later. At my first doctor, she didn't check any , just say it is normal and high percentage, but I see other who is mainly specialist in sunfertility . I think this is different. But I don't know it is the main cause or not, I haven't try yet, I am seeing the chinese EC and will think again later.


複式洋房

積分: 118


1353#
發表於 07-6-5 01:12 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

HI, 各位,

我都係一個小產了2次的太太, 我小產原因到依家醫生都唔肯定, 只話慣性流產,

我第一次小產向5年前, 30歲, 初初以為懷孕好普通不過的事, 見紅, 就看醫生, 瞓下, 點知向20週一晚, 突然宮縮見紅, 立即去急正室, 但一去到醫院, 醫生同我講, 已經開左5度, 要生, 雖然胎兒還有心跳, 但因為胎兒太小, 醫院無法救回, 掙扎3個小時後, 胎兒經我身體出來, 之後身體檢查, 都找不出原因, 那時, 我只怪自己"舵"得不穩令BB沒了.

1年後, 我再次懷孕, 這次小心極了, 中西醫一起看, 私家醫生都很小心跟上次一樣, 12週前, 每週去醫生處打安胎針, 12週後, 每2週檢查, 這次沒有見紅, 我心情很放心同期待BB出世, 20週, 醫生話安全起見, 驗血, 那天是中秋節, 早上看完醫生, 醫生仲話很好, 但晚上, 又突然見紅, 初初很少, 但心緒不安, 立即CALL白車, 中途,血不斷流, 肚開始痛, 感覺如上次般, 到醫院, 見完醫生後, 重複聽了同一番說話, 個心好痛, 這次不知是否"舵"得比上次好, 肚很痛, 姑娘不斷叫我用力將胎盤推出, 這次比上次的時間用多了, 痛多了, 因2次小產醫院都為我安排很多檢查, 但都找不出原因, 我曾經問醫生, 我是否不適宜懷孕, 但他們沒有答覆, 2次經歷, 至今還很清晰,

問私家, 私家回覆, 小產原因多數得3個, 1) 子宮做形不好, 醫院第2次小姐後, 有為我安排照X-RAY, 結果正常, 2) 有細菌, 但要懷孕時檢驗才可確定, 3) 子宮頸鬆, 但我情況唔似,

沒有結果, 比有結果, 難受, 經過2年調息, 舊年, 我跟我先生相量作最後一試, (因為前2次小產, 除自己傷心外, 心裹想覺得,好像對小孩不公平, 因自己想要, 但只可給與短暫生命, 但不能帶BB在世, 唔想再發生), 懷孕後, 樣樣很小心, 還跟公司請了 19至20週時假期, 私家醫生每週為我種菌, 但結果正常, 沒有細菌, 但醫生口話因有些菌種不到, 問我敢唔敢食抗生素, 我話無問題, 如對胎兒沒影響, 我會食, 每週不停食藥, 但到 21週, 我還是進了醫院, 私家醫生叫我要捱6週, 但BB最後向 24週出世, 只有 1.7LB, 這次好彩, 可以保住BB, 但BB向醫院的經歷是另一種沉重壓力, 因早產, BB的問題實在太多, BB向醫院住了6個月才能出院, 將來還有很長的路.

我先生話我BB是瞓回來的, 實在, 由 19週開始, 除了食, 沖涼同去洗手間, 我都是瞓向床到, 現在我身邊朋友懷孕, 我都會叫她們不要走動太多, 瞓多點, 咩都唔好做, 如果BB向28週出世, 向醫院最少要住2個月, 有咩野, 待28週後才買及做, 28週的BB, 只是輕, 沒有太多問題的.

你地都加油, 希望在明天! 雖然路難行, 但都是要過的, 無論點都好, 最緊要唔好令自己難過太久, 努力面對, 因向醫院太耐, 看到很多唔同的CASE, 好同壞, 無人會知,

衷心祝福各位, 心願達成!!!!
(補充 : 醫生話 22-24週出世的BB父母有權選擇救唔救, 24週, 無論BB有咩問題, 醫院一定要救)


大宅

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1354#
發表於 07-6-5 08:37 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

Dear NgoNgoMa ,
你好利害,好勇敢,我都是剛剛小產,太約半年,但我沒勇氣懷孕,好怕會再小產,受不到, 我希望你bb健康成長,其實你bb28週,我媽媽說我都是28週出來,現在長大後身體都好好,不用擔心!!


大宅

積分: 1443


1355#
發表於 07-6-5 09:50 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

NgoNgoMa I think you are just fantastic and strong. I'm glad you get endless support from your husband too. I know how you felt both times miscarrying, because I felt the same with mine. And I know I think I was lucky because my first pregnancy ended at 6 weeks, still very early. I understand there are still unanswered questions about human body and doctors don't know everything no matter how smart they are. Sometimes we just depends on miracle and chances so it's important that we do not give up :lol: I'm glad your family are now over with hurdles. May you two and bb lead a healthy and good life from now


複式洋房

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1356#
發表於 07-6-5 09:55 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

prettymothe,

我BB唔係 28週出世, 係24週, 得1.7LB, 出世時都還未懂自己呼吸, 要靠儀器, 但SO FAR, 現在6個半月, 情況都幾好.

係呀, 真係好需要力量才有今天, 因為向 21-24週向醫院時, 好大壓力, 醫生成日追問你有咩決定, 救唔救BB, 但都行到那步, 沒理由放棄, 但那刻又好擔心BB出世後好辛苦, 掙扎很久都唔肯覆醫生. 終於到24週, 但原來BB出世後真係遇到很多問題, 24週後, 又係另一種壓力, 睇住BB大腿好似隻手指一般粗, 成身儀器, 心痛死, 之後幾個月, 又打針, 又手術, 好多野完全唔能夠掌握, 只有等待同無奈加自責. 半年內, 返工, 去醫院, 泵奶, 沒有一天瞓多過5個鐘, 但每次見到bb都咩都忘記哂, 尤其佢笑時.

醫生講過, 22-24週, 佢無把握救到, 得20-30%, 有 24週就有7-8成, 只是少少週數, 可以有很大分別, 再多4週, 28週, BB個分別又係很大, 所以我現在, 一定會叫身邊D朋友, 28週後先為BB準備野.

你都小心身體, 無論將來點, 要開開心心呀!


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1357#
發表於 07-6-5 10:43 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

NgoNgoMa,

你真係好叻呀..祝你和寶寶健康快樂..

有時生仔真係一種福份福氣..
https://i.ksd-i.com/s/630x_86400_d73df9dd036307410a503045cbbfae07/static.koreastardaily.com/profile/23243/138969.jpg


男爵府

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1358#
發表於 07-6-5 10:51 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

NgoNgoMa

你真係好勇敢呀!

祝你同bb都健康, bb咁辛苦都仲努力, 佢將來一定會健康.

mama: bb熊
仔仔:     mr cool 史葛仔


別墅

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1359#
發表於 07-6-5 13:35 |只看該作者

Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

To bigbeetle
Yes, they won't give you any checking because they said it is always high percentage of miscarriage. Mine are at the week of 5wks and 6 wks, I confirmed pregnancy by blood checking . For my experience, I think those gynae doctor who is specialised in " subfertily" will help you more and urgently than those who just a gynae medical officer. ( this is only my view point) . I am now seeing the chinese ec, i think it will help to strengthen my body first , esp after the miscarriage, it hurts our body much.you can try also.


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Re: 剛小產, 又要重頭來過...

Thanks Fungchu. Our experirience is very much the same. I wanted to see Chinese EC too but couldn't find one here in our community (in Darwin, Australia). Tonight I am gonna cook 'Fa Gao' soup. Hope that'll help a little. hey can I ask you have you found anything different with your body after the miscarriage? My breasts started to hurt 2 weeks before period now, after the miscarriage. My breasts never hurt before the pregnancy. Thanks.

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