Oni, I am writing the main point down in adrian's blog, you can go take a look later....the notes are just based on my memory cos I forgot to bring a pen :-(
余德淳also taught that if you want your kid to have high EQ, you need to train him not to cry often...you need to teach him 喊系無用ga. crying also makes the kid has bad temper..he/she will not be a happy kid.