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Hi all sisters,
I went to Kwong Wah Hospital today, just a follow up visit, I told the dr that I did one ivf in last Dec, and told her all the injection dosage, results...etc. She said I am a poor responder, need to check my FSH, if it is over 10, they will not let me to do any ivf treatment in the public line.... I was very upset when I realised that. I did not know the limit is 10, I though it is 15.... I regret I told her the truth.... but the end of the day I have to tell her when I have the treatment next year anyway.... they said they will call me if the result is higher than 10..... I am very lost now..... if it is higher than 10, no hospital will help me to do the ivf, I can only do it private hospitals.

原文章由 lic9 於 08-3-25 11:10 發表
pigpiglau﹕唔好擔心，神必在帶領。保持輕鬆心情吧﹗我o個時個胎都唔match week數架﹗

momo﹕一切check up順利。

venus﹕你點呀？好掛住你。

kelly﹕或者神要用你兒子訓練左你先，等你ready，再比個細o既你。嘻嘻~~

yimyee﹕你點呀？get ...

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galic
pray for u . glad to hear that u've a trip . keep haveing peace in Him

yimyee
just read your message. sorry to hear that. it's really hard to accept. and sometime just feel lost . pray for u sincerely. pray for u can have peace and faith in Jesus.

venus
how are u ? pray for u too .

sarah, grace,
how about u doing?

lic9
u're right. only God knows what 's best for us. i didn't hope anything. only asking His will be done on me.

原文章由 galic 於 08-3-24 13:57 發表
Venus,

聽見你今次不成功, 有些可惜...幸好你像我一樣還有很多雪胎, 下次不用由頭做起, 減少壓力同痛楚ar!!! 你問問醫生4/5月可否安排放雪胎!!!相信總有一粒一定得!!

我1月中至3月中返了兩個月temp job, 後來因為o ...

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Hi all,

YimYee, really sorry to hear the incident you had with the hospital. Praying that your FSH level is under 10! Praying for you and your hubby to have all the strenght need to go thr. another IVF cycle !

Kelly, Dr. mentioned that even the result is normal, there is chance that our body rejects anything foreign. It should be able to tell if blood test to be taken again during pregnancy. Nevertheless, he recommends to take this precaution steps, thus HCG + blood thining shoots + etc......

Lic9, thanks for your words and it really comforts me. I have been asking the same questions for the last few weeks. If the size is not matching, does it mean I am going thr. the same road all over again. It worry me a lot, and with all the injections etc. I am kinda depressed. Have been feeling rather sick e.g stomach ache, bloating, vomitting etc, not sure it is part of the side effect of those injections taken. But thx again for your words.

Galic, thx for your encouragement too. Going thr. this road is so hard and we understand it if not better. Glad that you had a nice break there. and praying for you with God's help for your next IVF cycle.

Venus, hope you are coping ok there. It is hard. Praying for you and your hubby.

Sarahlin, Grace, and everyone else, how are you girls?

原文章由 Kellyaugust2004 於 08-3-25 18:51 發表
galic
pray for u . glad to hear that u've a trip . keep haveing peace in Him

yimyee
just read your message. sorry to hear that. it's really hard to accept. and sometime just feel lost . pray for u si ...

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pigpiglau
praying for u everyday. it's really a question as we don't know why our body is act like this. i can imagine how u feels now. gan ba de! hope u can hang on there. thro' God's strength. u can do it.

原文章由 pigpiglau 於 08-3-25 20:17 發表
Hi all,

YimYee, really sorry to hear the incident you had with the hospital. Praying that your FSH level is under 10! Praying for you and your hubby to have all the strenght need to go thr. another ...

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Yimyee﹕睇到你個分享，個心好唔舒服。能夠做的是為你祈禱﹗仲有，不如出黎見下面，傾下計丫﹗飯局飯局~~~~

pigpiglau﹕你個胃唔舒服，可以係morning sick。慢慢就會無架喇﹗

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發表於 08-3-27 14:43 |只看該作者

I am just so so so upset after seeing Dr Wong in Kwong Wah, her words were sooooo mean and harsh, she said “ don’t waste your money on this matter if your FSH is high, it is the same as throwing the money to the sea (拋錢落咸水海). The more ivf treatment you do, the less eggs you will get… and the egg will be worst. You got 8 eggs last time, they should be better one, now the left over eggs inside you are just worthless (蘿底橙). My heart sank deeply, so difficult to hold my tears… I was talking to myself, “ Dr, I know my situation, you don’t have to scare me like this….
And step me down like this 這樣踩我….”

No sympathy at all, sounded like that we are the most stupid people in the world. I just want a BB of our own, what's worng with it???? Why do I have to face these harsh words....

原文章由 lic9 於 08-3-26 19:43 發表
Yimyee﹕睇到你個分享，個心好唔舒服。能夠做的是為你祈禱﹗仲有，不如出黎見下面，傾下計丫﹗飯局飯局~~~~

pigpiglau﹕你個胃唔舒服，可以係morning sick。慢慢就會無架喇﹗ ...

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發表於 08-3-27 19:16 |只看該作者

回覆 #1 YimYee 的文章

Yim yee

你別要咁灰心同失望先, 你記否我的經歷呀? 你咪曾經叫我去你們的哈拿小組分享我的經歷嗎?我都曾經3次小產及两次ivf失敗, 連瑪麗的吳教授都話我成功機會不大, 但結果我今次都成功了!

我都經過很多痛苦才到今天, 你別要灰心, 你試試看私家症的瑪麗, 指明找吳教授吖! 因為那時都是他分析我的情況, 然後叫我看公家症的.....
你可直接打電話去找瑪麗, 說你想看私家的婦產不育科, 我記得是約$1500看一次私家症, 到時你可以詳細問問吳教授你的情況吧!

可能神要我們人生中有經歷吧, 我最痛的時候有想過死, 也看過精神科及心理輔導, 你知否我第三次小產時, 我肚中的胎兒有24週了, 那時我真問過神為什麼? 那種痛苦沒法形容呢, 直到今天我仍想記她, 很想見她一面, 但沒有機會

若果她沒事的話都應該有7歲了! 待遲些再跟你詳細分享吧!

你要努力, 加油, 還有你現正在看我所看的中醫, 她能令我由很差的情況, 到今天有了小b, 所以你要有信心, 加油吧!

以馬內利, 神與我們同在! :-D :-D

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各位姊妹,

謝謝你們以往曾鼓勵及為我代禱! 我的小b終於在3月4日出生了, 她現在情況不錯! 雖然我在這次懷孕的日子入過醫院無數次, 及前後往了30多天醫院, 跟着在手術後我又失血超過2公升, 及後小b在出院後又試過两次進醫院, 但我和小b都可以平安渡過!

以上的一切, 我相信都是神的保守,雖然我都經過危難, 但每次都有神派遣的使者來保護我,希望各位仍在困惑的姊妹, 不止息的為着自己及同路的姊妹禱告, 願主保守你當中的每一個

以馬內利, 神與我們同在! :-D :-D

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Manwah,
really encouraging when hearing from u. keep parying for u

yimyee,
it's really hard feeling to hear those words from a doctor. i will keep praying for u and your husband. and u've got sisters here to stand by u !

all,
glad that school days start next monday. as my son is not good when it's too loose. i hope he back to the EQ class soon and it helps alot. (it stoped for 2 weeks already).
pls pray for me. i need strength (alot) when taking care of him. sometime i think it may too hard for me to take care two kids.... ..

原文章由 Manwah 於 08-3-27 19:27 發表
各位姊妹,

謝謝你們以往曾鼓勵及為我代禱! 我的小b終於在3月4日出生了, 她現在情況不錯! 雖然我在這次懷孕的日子入過醫院無數次, 及前後往了30多天醫院, 跟着在手術後我又失血超過2公升, 及後小b在出院後又試過两 ...

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發表於 08-3-28 02:10 |只看該作者

Hi all, couldn't post anything earlier.

YimYee, I couldn't believe that the Dr. talked to you like that considering the circumstances you are in. It is just cruel and not fair. And I don't believe it cuz there are so many women who has higher FSH but bring home healthy babies. There was a lady I know from a local forum whose FSH is 17, and now couples of month pg. So don't give up yet. And just like Manwah said, seek for private consultation first. Here in the public clinic, they also didn't give me too much support and I was also very disappointed.

Manwah, big congrats! I am so glad to hear from you again. Have been thinking about you. Your story is very encouraging! I looked into it and believe that God will provide, we just need to wait, be patient and learn along the way. Your baby is so cute !

Kelly, thx again for thinking about me. It warms my heart esp. during such a hard time.

Lic9, thx as well and you are right, I hope all these are good symptoms. They get worst during evening time and I couldn't eat anything at all, throw up pretty much anything eaten. How did you deal with that? And when you mentioned that the size didn't match the no. of weeks when you were pg, how many weeks off? If you don't mind to tell me. Did you ov'd late you think?

How's everyone else? In him, let's 'add oil' together!

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YIMYEE﹕個醫生真係過份﹗聽你分享時，好想打佢呢﹗ (容許我咁粗魯﹗)真係一個應該professional o既人，講d咁o既野，真係難以接受。姊妹﹕在人看來不能的事，在神卻可以。不過對神失信心，祂必有一個美好的旨意成就在你身。我唔知道係咪小b，但至少，是我們更經歷祂的愛﹗

pigpiglau﹕我無乜morning sick架﹗不過我姐姐有。你唔舒服時，可以食少少梳打餅，應該有幫助的。我於第八週(由last m day 1 計)，去照，個size細了兩週幾三週。但後尾追返晒。所以唔駛擔心。我諗我係排卵遲卦，因為小b都比預產期遲出世。

kelly﹕一個人湊小朋友係好辛苦的，多和朋友分享吧﹗遲有，最近查經，提到「孩子是耶和華所賜的產業」。這也令我對自己的小孩有不同的態度﹗

manwah﹕好開心又聽到你消息。你個小b幾好嘛？好好休養呀﹗坐月好重要的。

venus、sarah、grace﹕好耐無聽到佢地消息。姊妹，除了禱告，我們不如也sms她們，問候一下吧﹗

原文章由 pigpiglau 於 08-3-28 02:10 發表
Hi all, couldn't post anything earlier.

YimYee, I couldn't believe that the Dr. talked to you like that considering the circumstances you are in. It is just cruel and not fair. And I don't believe ...

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lic9
agree. pls pray for me too . .... .. not really want to do homework frequently... heeeee...

原文章由 lic9 於 08-3-28 15:43 發表
YIMYEE﹕個醫生真係過份﹗聽你分享時，好想打佢呢﹗ (容許我咁粗魯﹗)真係一個應該professional o既人，講d咁o既野，真係難以接受。姊妹﹕在人看來不能的事，在神卻可以。不過對神失信心，祂必有一個美好的旨意成就在你身。我唔知道係咪 ...

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pigpiglau

good to hear from u and your sickness is a good sign definitely. keep praying for u .
i'm just too tired to take care my son and my husband is too tired of work. we just dodo on day 9 & 10 and i guess i ovulated on day 12. ..
don't have too much motivation....

原文章由 pigpiglau 於 08-3-28 02:10 發表
Hi all, couldn't post anything earlier.

YimYee, I couldn't believe that the Dr. talked to you like that considering the circumstances you are in. It is just cruel and not fair. And I don't believe ...

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Hi Lic9, thanks for sharing your experience. I am also around 3 weeks smaller than should be. Hopefully, it is same as your case that I ov'd very late. It worried me cuz for the last 4 times, the size was also smaller than should be, and these few weeks will be the most critical period. I tried to keep eating small meal myself, and the sickness is esp. strong during evening time. Still vomitting, nauseous, lost appettite. Hope these are all good symptoms. Thx for everyone here praying for me and my little one.

Kelly, understand totally how you feel about doing homework, it becomes a chore. Have you tried a product name 'pre-seed' it helps as it makes it easier to do the act.

[ 本文章最後由 pigpiglau 於 08-3-29 00:19 編輯 ]

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Hi Lic9,

Actually, when I think back now, I was surprised that I was so calm and even not burst in tears, I guess Our God did with me and calm me down.

I have not heard anything from Kwong Wah hospital, Venus said they should have called you if your blood test is over 10, I do hope so, no news is a good news....

pigpiglau, those uncomfortable feelings are good signs, did you have the same feelings last time when you got pregnant?

原文章由 pigpiglau 於 08-3-29 00:16 發表
Hi Lic9, thanks for sharing your experience. I am also around 3 weeks smaller than should be. Hopefully, it is same as your case that I ov'd very late. It worried me cuz for the last 4 times, the size ...

[ 本文章最後由 YimYee 於 08-3-29 01:51 編輯 ]

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Dear all,

多謝大家常記掛著我，每次看到自己的名字，心覺得很甜！

我返來了個多星期，好攰呀！在那邊每日都是吃完早餐就出去工作，拿著很重的書走來走去，天氣也凍，有時連午餐都冇得食到晚餐後才可休息，睡前又要check email 和在港的同事跟進一吓。回港已個多星期，不過回來後，好多嘢要 catch up，接手番之前交給同事幫手跟的工作、又要follow up 去完 trip 的事、報價、又要跟進一吓阿仔的工課因老公在我去trip 期間已用了很多時間陪他，所以未有時間上來，但心裡掛念著大家。
個trip 好好，好多神的恩典，明白及感到當事情發生在神的時間，一切都變得很順利。
用了個多鐘頭去update 吓大家的情況，看到YimYee 被醫生這樣對待、Venus 的情況、還有另一位姊妹，sorry forgot your name...心裡很難過，心裡出現了“呼求耶穌”這幾個字，讓我們都大聲的呼求耶穌，聽我們的禱告！主求祢親自向每一個傷痛的心說話。

前幾天靈修時看了馬可6:30-44，有關五餅二魚的事蹟，平時看的時候多數留意後面的神蹟，今次竟看到前面，耶穌和門徒本想避開群眾去安靜一吓，但最後群眾追趕上去，竟比耶穌和門徒先到達曠野，耶穌見到這許多人，就憐憫他們，要記住，我們的主是憐憫人的主呀！

至於我，近日都好多的矛盾。最近同事的太太又有了第二個 bb，抽血後發現bb有唐氏的機會率高，醫生建議她抽羊水。聽了後，就想，我是否應放棄再要bb呢？如果真的有咗，但bb 有甚麼問題點算，我接受唔到。其實自己知道自己的年紀真不少，過了4 字。但心裡還好想要多一個，因阿仔之前都話過想要多一個弟弟或妹妹，心裡一直問神，有時想，不如神祢直接了當告訴不要期望了好過，但總覺得沒有得到答覆。唉，每人都總有自己的掙扎，求主賜我們智慧去明白祂的心意。

pigpiglau, keep praying for you, rest more and hope for the best!

kelly, I understand how tired you are, same, everytime asking my son to do his homework will make my husband and I very angry. May God gives you and your husband more and more patience. Just think that God just feel the same as we are always very naughty and makes him angry, the only difference is He will not hate us, He just keep forgiving us.

sarah, how are you?

manwah, congratulations! 妳的努力終得到成果了。still a long way to go, 求主賜妳精神體力去照顧bb 呀！

lic9, 好掛著妳呀，心b 真係好得人愛，真想抱吓她和同她玩。妳真係好，咁比機幫心b 寫 blog，我那時未咁興寫 blog，都沒有記吓好多的第一次，繼續努力呀！

好了，我已經好長氣啦！要瞓啦！我想，我俾老公傳染了感冒，還有些咳添，希望唔好繼續差落去啦！

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pigpiglau
can u explain more about "pre-seed"? heeee.. thanks.

grace,
thanks for your understanding. it's Saturaday today. glad that monday will back to normal. keep praying for u . hope u can have enough rest and get well very soon. your concern is really a concern . let's keep praying and asking God's will.

原文章由 pigpiglau 於 08-3-29 00:16 發表
Hi Lic9, thanks for sharing your experience. I am also around 3 weeks smaller than should be. Hopefully, it is same as your case that I ov'd very late. It worried me cuz for the last 4 times, the size ...

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YimYee
keep praying for u. be strong and sure God is guiding u .
stand by u!

原文章由 YimYee 於 08-3-29 01:11 發表
Hi Lic9,

Actually, when I think back now, I was surprised that I was so calm and even not burst in tears, I guess Our God did with me and calm me down.

I have not heard anything from Kwong Wah hospi ...

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Grace, glad to hear from you, I always think you work too hard ah....not enough rest...About the BB plan, I think you don't have to worry too much, if it happens, it happens. My mum gave birth to me when she was 41. She always says now, this's little girl is the best gift she has even had...

Manwah, Thanks for your words, your experience and your sharings inspirate me a lot, I will not give up, because I know I have you all sisters and our powerful God with me who love me and support me.

kelly, I think your boy may be those gifted children, have you done any IQ test for him?

Pigpiglau, really pray for you.

原文章由 Gracesywong 於 08-3-29 01:48 發表
Dear all,

多謝大家常記掛著我，每次看到自己的名字，心覺得很甜！

我返來了個多星期，好攰呀！在那邊每日都是吃完早餐就出去工作，拿著很重的書走來走去，天氣也凍，有時連午餐都冇得食到晚餐後才可休息，睡前又要check email 和在 ...

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