Thank you for your information of the therapist. I will contact her later.
My situation is quite difficult now. I found something about the third party but I cannot talk to him directly. If he knows that I checked on him, he will put all the blame on me. Sometimes I feel that if he tells me directly that he has another one outside, I may not be confused and upset like now. Do you think that the therapist can help me if I cannot open up with my husband? Can she help me if I am the only one who face with the problem?