i let her go already. she said the school will rent a ttc bus to drive them to the banquant hall in downtown; and then drive back to school afterwards. this solve the pick up/drop off problem for me because i seldom go downtown and do not drive highway.
on the other hand, she said they are friends only. she wants to go to the event only. the boy is Filipilo race, not chinese. hope this is the truth as what she told me.