i think the thing is you two have different expectation. not to talk about whether she will be more and more dominant in the future or not, just because you need to go clinic, and she seems not caring and still taking her time in preparing her food. I know this feeling is no good. you should tell her your feeling, but its always good to tell her at the first sight, she won't feel too bad. i have raised a post in BK here, because my maid bought her own fish, own prawn to cook for her lunch while we were not taking dinner and lunch at home. She didnt ask us but buying whatever she wants. I think its too much la, and we told the maid, she should have known that she should reserve some dinner material for her lunch for the next day. Since then, she hasnt buy food in the market only for herself. If you really dun feel good, let her know. but if its just an egg, its so cheap in fact......peanut butter is not cheaper than egg ga.....i understand its the point of attitude , and so do i concern. Hopefully she is not with a devil character, trying to keep testing our bottom lines la.