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可晴媽咪:

1) 這個是教署rule or DSS的rule ==> 係 EMB 既 rule

2) 為何會有這個道理呢 ==> 唉..你諗吓...如果個個都係咁...考到 DSS 就 hold 住個位等大抽獎...咁分分鐘一個小朋友 hold 成 5, 6 間 DSS, 咁做唔單止浪費資源 (因為若第二日你抽到間好既就唔要 DSS 咁佢地又要 call waiting list, or even 再招生....etc...好煩...另外...對個d考唔到 or waiting list 個d家長真係好慘....你地得個d 就 hold 幾廿個位, 難為有d 考唔入個d等派位放榜就如坐針氈架....你換個角度去睇你就明喇....

) 第日你 BB 考幼稚園都係咁架....又係個個考幾廿間, 留位費都俾幾千蚊....之後去到開學前一個月先 final 決定去邊間, 咁未有學校收等緊個d就慘喇....right?)

3) 培小係私小...唔係 DSS, for 私小....收生程序同 DSS 有dd唔同...even though 大家都係 around Oct/Nov 就開始收生....Jan/Feb 就應該有結果...but if DSS 收左而你又接受, then 家長就要簽字作實俾間 DSS confirm to EMB that 你已有學校收...咁 2nd round 搞珠就唔會預你...

但私小就係收就照收, 你可以照比留位費, 你亦唔駛簽字作實俾間私小 to inform EMB 你唔去抽....但係....響 2nd round 結果公佈之前個一日, EMB 會將搞珠 result 出個 list 比間私小....咁私小就會知你個小朋友被派左位...then 佢就有權取消你之前既留位 (俾番d留位費你)....so that means, 你派得間好學校就冇所謂, 但派得唔好就冇得番轉頭..知冇.... (e.g 培正就是如此)

有d名氣冇咁大既私小就唔會咁...即係你派得唔好想番轉頭佢都唔取消你咁喇...

一般嚟講...d 名氣較大既私小都會咁做...

博蒙抽協恩(20分,有無幾?),
==> You are talking about 1st round here la...都有d既...不過 may be 係幾廿個 20 分中抽十個八個咁囉...點都好過 15 分, 抽都冇得佢地抽....

你會否開個topic"幼稚園攻略"?
==> 多謝捧場先....不過呢樹一個 counter 我都有排講架喇....你想知我地都可以響樹 chat ga...~~

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彥媽,

係啦, 彥媽你都未發表你對小b學英文既睇法啊

車厘2媽寫道:
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你淨係同人交流.....都唔同我交流吓既

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cherry2ma:

唉呀....漏左呀....

等等...老喇...依家即刻寫...

wait wait..

(因為人地問個d易答d架...嘻嘻 :mrgreen: factual 野之嘛...要講教仔...又要有多d時間去慢慢打架..你知我唔鍾意講d唔講d架嘛...hehe)

Luilok:

係咩..你問過學英文咩...唉..又 miss 左

等我揭番上前面再睇有冇仲有 other missing messages sin...

:mrgreen:

等等...各位....嚟緊喇我~~~

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彥彥媽咪

Thank you thank you!

So... 一條龍 is
宣道K -> 宣道小 -> 宣道中 or
聖三一K -> 聖三一小 -> 聖三一中
培K -> 培小 -> 培中

It sounds so good! So why people still wanna to do the lucky draw???

My elementary school is a brand 1 one. but I don't wanna her to waste 3 hrs on transportation everyday. we can't move as my husband is the first priority in this house, and his priority is his parents... ha ha... 99+ 62 ah!

Anyway, I do agree with every word you say. It's nice to meet u here!

My plan is... send her to 外國大學 after high school if she wanna to.... (it's all up to her when she grow up) So, I want to save some money first.... any comment about this kind of strategy?

執著帶來痛苦、學習放下煩惱

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即答我 honey cherry2ma sin:

小朋友個個都依賴到不得了
==>係架..因為冇法喇...依家個個家庭都係一個起兩個止...所以一定想"俾最好既野"個小朋友嘛...而且 2 個大人 (father+mother) + 分分鐘再多幾個大人 (grandparents..etc) 成屋人先睇個一個/兩個小朋友...話時話....佢地梗係乜都幫哂出面架喇 (e.g. 見佢食得"麼"就餵埋佢之類)...

我都 buy 你教仔既方法架...要 train them to be independent...我明有時細路係細...要幫...但咁 =/= 連佢自己一d 基本問題都要幫埋...我算係"狠心"型家長架..打我都有 (尤其個大既), 不過當然唔係要害喇.. (手板, pat pat), 但都係最初個幾年...(i.e. 2, 3 years old 個陣), 因為響個個年紀既小朋友未識聽道理....慢慢講..對d唔大影響既行為 (e.g. 玩完玩具四維掉, 唔執好..etc) , 就話慢慢講 je, but for some serious/dangerous 行為, 有時真係要惡d, or even 打手板以制止佢既行為...之後都唔駛刻意長篇大論咁 explain to him why we do this to him, 只係重覆性咁叫佢"唔可以咁做" (e.g. 過馬路唔拖人, fing 開人之類)..因為細路要聽道理起碼要等六歲之後先會好d, 佢地會先有心機去分析你一d行事動機從而去諒解你..so 有時係亦唔係次次需要解析咁多, 只係 short and simple 咁叫佢唔好咁做....and repeat that, then they will know "you mean what you say"

好多時細路係不斷去試你既底線 only, so in many occasions 我地真係要"忍得", 忍得住唔去心痛囉...

我大仔自小又係我地 train up 到佢好 independent, 佢 3, 4 歲已可以自己 shower, ng ng (自己坐大人個d toilet bowl 唔扭計, 仲係 day day 會有得去+ cleaning after that wor), so 佢依家都好少有好多同媽咪好親密既行為出現 lu (e.g. 主動攬住我, or even 錫吓我之類), but I think 呢個係 "price" la...凡事我都認同係有得必有失...

我二仔就係 different , 好 o爹我架...成日會走嚟 "唉"響我側邊, 又拖我, 又要我抱...well...一方面我係好 enjoy "being needed" ga...但我亦知咁落去唔得架...佢依家雖然 only 3, 但我都已經開始要佢自己 start to learn 沖涼...可以自己一個人著鞋, 換衫 etc..可惜可能真係性格都有d係天生, 佢慢佢阿哥好多....過程亦好痛苦 (因為佢好易喊...又硬頸), 但我地都會一步步要"迫"佢做架喇...唔係第日佢出社會真係會吃好多苦頭喇...cos 冇人會就佢架嘛....

你有冇睇 TVB 個套"女王的教室"呀...個老師係就係 cool D, 但我就唔覺得佢有太大問題丫..at least 我 buy the concept she holds...

以前我地做錯野俾老師話完 (or even 打完手板) 之後, 阿爸阿媽都會再 reinforce 我地要點點點, 聽話呀...之類架嘛...

但依家....讀書都要講 "customer oriented" wor...老師大聲少少, d 家長又要投訴, 話點解嚇親我個仔, etc...我心諗....唔係吓哇 ...我唔排除真係有個別老師可能仲係好惡...但畢竟呢d係好少數, 絕大多數老師都係想教好學生架嘛, 但家長依家既肉緊程度就比我阿媽個時有過之而無不及....可惜咁樣出嚟既學生反而係郁d就尋死...一科唔合格, 阿媽鬧兩句又話要死...車...我以前成日都比老師/父母鬧 or 打架喇...又唔見我死....

依家d學生真係脆弱好多...but 個世界就越來越 tough, 咁樣點搞....父母係要令小朋友 tough d d ga ma......

不過個 price 係, 太獨立 may means 好似我大仔咁喇...6 歲已經唔會太痴我 lu...老實講, 作為阿媽....我好貪心咁梗係想佢一世都係我身邊喇..但 I know this is impossible, and not good to him...so 我都要 tune 自己接受 "佢會好快就長大, 即係會飛喇" 呢個事實啦.... :-(

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彥彥媽咪,

但係你有3個嘛, 果種感覺會不斷持續, 中彥同細彥會<補上>, 到細彥都大Lu, 先真正感覺空虛(忙慣左), 無人痴住自己, 有排啦! 到時個個有毛有翼飛走哂, 咪享受人生囉! 兩公婆2人世界囉!

你漏左我呀, 請分享下小朋友同bun bun 練習英文的見解.

thank you!

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彥媽, 仲有我呀.

aprilk 寫道:
hi 彥媽, its me again.

just want to let you know i'm a big fan of your topic. i copy & paste your "notes" to a word file and read later. (so much info, don't have the time to read online) but your topic becomes the 1st think that i check at every morning.... i didn't even check my work email yet

anyway, do you know any thing about 嗇色園's school. i live in ap lei chau. there is one 嗇色園 kg nearby which is much less expensive than the others. i wonder if it is a good school. thanks.

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060228:

宣道K -> 宣道小 -> 宣道中 or
聖三一K -> 聖三一小 -> 聖三一中
培K -> 培小 -> 培中

你咁講都岩得 half la...因為....

1) 宣道K 升宣道小唔係直升.....根據以往 data, less than 70% ga.... 另....乜有宣道中學既咩?

就算有都一定唔係直屬中學個d, 係個名有"宣道"兩個字 ja gwa?

2) 聖三一K -> 聖三一小 -> 聖三一中
3) 培K -> 培小 -> 培中
培幼升培小就係直升, 但升培中響佢未宣佈結龍之前都唔可以話係...係"直屬"中學 only, that is, 85% 收番 only, 聖三一個 system 都係類似...

I don't wanna her to waste 3 hrs on transportation everyday
==>呢個要分開嚟睇, 首先..(1) 你間母校響邊...?? 我唔認為由 TKO 去來回要成三粒鐘 (even though I dunno where is your school yet), take for e.g. 好多家長係住 TKO 而讀培正...遠都真係幾遠 (因為冇直車到, 有都要坐好耐個停), 坐校巴有d家長又嫌耐.....so finally 一個家長為左想俾小朋友繼續返到 PC 又唔駛太耐, 就自行四出聯絡一d 私家媬姆車, 係就係揾左好耐...but finally 依家佢小朋友既讀到培正又唔駛來回坐好耐車丫...

(2) 我想用呢個例子再一次証明"事在人為", 要先分咩係你 priority, if 囡囡讀書在你心目中係好重要既, then 又除非你間母校 even 係 Band 1, but you still got another 更心儀學校, otherwise 點解為交通而放棄...?? at that time 小朋友都 6 years old la....唔駛話一定要就近入學既...最緊要係間學校好唔好先係重要....

可以的話就搬去附近, 唔可以的話就諗掂點可以縮短佢既交通時間....我信事情一定有方法可以解決既....大不了你做 coordinator , 到時主動認識同你囡囡一齊考入你母校既家長認識, TKO 咁多人口, 一定有人都係由 TKO 考去既 (尤其係好學校, 天水圍都走出嚟喇) ... so 可以自行組線 (even 夾份坐 taxi 我都諗過架...) 咁就可以 solve 到喇...

以上乃我意見 only, it may not 100% fit you, but what I want to emphasize is not "HOW" to work around the problem, but ...as long as the school is good, it's worthwhile to do something in order to go for it....

send her to 外國大學 after high school if she wanna to
==> yes ar..this is what I plan too....可以的話...出去見識...點都好過一世都響一個地方 study, work, etc etc....唔係因為邊度讀書好既問題咁簡單, 而係 this will help to train up their 眼光/胸襟....有好多野真係未見過就唔知, so 易介意 or unhappy, 但當我地出到去個大世界, 見得多, 就真係會明白番以前一d諗法其實係好 childish, 不必要 or 無無謂了...

Strategy....呵呵...除左勤力揾 $$ 同積極買六合彩, 都未諗到有乜較有用既方法 will help to achieve this la (study abroad)

我地一齊努力喇... :mrgreen:

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joanthony:

本來 type 左 a long long message to respond about this ga...but 冇左．．．． :-( :-(

激死．．．let me type again later la...now busy with some work.....show up again later...

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cherry2ma honey:

仔定女 sin?

小朋友性格如何..e.g. 靜定活潑既先...

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彥彥媽咪,

所以我而家打中文字, 唔會按<esc>制架, 改手勢按--> 用箭咀取替, 因為連按2下esc 成篇野就冇哂架啦! 真係好慘 :-( :-( :-(
我都用左一段時間去習慣.

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彥彥媽咪 & 車厘2媽:
嘻嘻~ 我都想問 tko 有咩好小學和幼稚園? 我諗囡囡應該係活潑好動之人

(因為現在已經腳仔痕要企要跳, 又成日依依 ur ur 講野)
德寶英文幼稚園好唔好呀, 聽聞好似小朋友已經有電腦玩啦!

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