meimei223:
never give up ar..
雖然遇到困難,但我相信一定可以解決的.
現在要做的是保持心境開朗, 保重身體
所有問題總有辦法去解決的, 相信只是時間的問題.
如今個月唔可以放強...等遲d放雪蛋都會成功的
我都未做過手術,好明白你的心情...
我都好驚好擔心....
比d信心, 有大家一齊支持你嫁..
Sisters, many thanks for your support, now I feel relief a lot after I saw the bible & my husband already talk to Dr.
1) Dr. said the fluid will affect the baby's 著床, if the baby really can 著床, it wouldn't affect the baby's health. Once the baby 著床, the fluid can't hurt the baby afterward. Thus, dr. suggest us to try if the cause is not very worst, need to see this sat when I do the ER.
2) Another alternative is not putting the eggs, & take rest around 2 mths, I can put back the frozen embryo if the fluid disappear.
3) If the fluid is not disappear, then I have to do the surgery to cut the left hand side tubal.
Dr. said the overall response of me to the treatment are good, even though not many eggs to retrieve, but all things are under his control & on time, just that kind of fluid really affact the final result. I know this time will not BINGO, before I intended to take annual leave for that, now I will not take any leave except the day of putting back the eggs. But at least I can retrieve the eggs :lol: , that is the most expensive process, I put a lot of $$,time, dosages....
I didn't waste all of time, just the final part.
Now, I feel already finish the treatment, because I almost know the result. All the pressures seem disappear suddently. That may good to me, I am to stress to myself before.
Again, thx for all sisters' support, without yours I can't stand back quickly.
m&m's, really sorry to hear about your case. The IVF is really difficult to walk, much more difficult than I expected. Many different problems may exist. But I think we are stronger than before after these hard time. We learned a lot from the process, we learn how people supporting one anothers without considering rewards, we learned accepting any unforseable/unexpected events & results,we became tough to face our future, no matter the final result is what, we already walk few away from the success. We know more how to face our career, family, friends in the future.
Really upset when I read all your msg from here. I really understand how touch you've encoutering during the course of IVF....& so much unpredictable issues happened. For meimei223, if I were you, I would try to do IVF first to see whether you can bingo or not. If finally cannot, then your doctor may take more investigation of your body & confirm whether you need to take operation or not.
For me, I also try to plan for a baby for almost 2 yr. And this year (Chinese New Year) I've been doing the operation to remove my chocolate cyst (as told my dr. it'll improve my bingo rate), but finally I try 2nd, 3rd IUI still failed. So he said as my age is old, so he suggests me to do IVF. I also think at this moment I don't want to do IVF since it may encounter so much problems, side effect from my body. But finall after read more sisters opinion & their past exp. & history, I gain more confidence to face the problem...no matter finally what is the result....at least I already try all of what I can do.....without any regret. So I hope you need not to worry too much, just to be brave to face all things...then you won't have too much pressure. 既然決定想有BB , 我地就要為佢擋風擋雨, 這一關我地一定會過到的
Smilewa, don't think toward bad, u get more eggs than u expacted, u should be very happy & create good envirnoment to enable your babies to 著床.
Now, I feel good as well, if my baby can survive from that bad enviroment, he/she might be very stronge. Nurse suggest me to do some exercise before the sat's ET, also, take prac. milk & eat more meat & egg white (before I don't eat that kinds of foods). I will be brave & be happy to face all the difficulty, yeah!!!! :lol: :lol:
janemarple28,
The nurse said it is not good if only seat & sleep. Before I have do some exercise at physical. But after the surgery & start IVF. I already stop doing any exercise, may be 溑水" is due to that. So suggest me to walk at least 45mins a day before "put back the eggs". But remember to be careful as u doing exercise.
My Dr. said the quality of the embryos is irrelevant to the health of the babies. Whenever the baby can 著床, they will be indifferent. Don't worry, the babies will like you, very stronge to survive..... yeah!!