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Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

Valbee,

Thanks for telling me the difference between the concentrate one and the powder formula, maybe I should give Chelsea (my girl) to try try later. Not long ago, I let her try the Similac ready-to-use but she doesn't like it so I give up. She has been drinking the Japanese brand formula(森永) for 2 months already, before she was on Enfamil all the time. Actually I agree with you, I'll like to give formula until they're older too as it's more nutritious, whole milk is just another choice for them. Like my son, he drinks the 2nd step formula until he was 2 years old. So the nestle good start2 is also concentrate formula? 27oz is very good enough if she takes some cereals as well. I'll use the formula spoon to hold 4oz cereal + 2nd stage baby food to make one bowl for a meal.

I also use your method to weight her at home but the result somehow is kinda fluctuate sometimes, I think she's around 19lbs too. My appointment originally was in the afternoon but the doctor's schedule changed me to morning 830am. She's going to receive 4 shots this time, poor baby :-(

Where do you live in SF and where do you usually go in SF? There was a few times I leave my kids to my hubby and take bart to SF for haircut and shopping but真係十年先有一次機會啦!

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Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

since chelsea is 9 months old, you can try nestle goodstart2 with dha and ara (in orange label). actually the taste of enfamil, similac and nestle is different. chelsea doesnt like similaz rtu doesnt mean she wont drink enfamil or nestle rtu or concetrate, try try. nestle gs2 comes in rtu and concentrate. baby'r'us is having a sale on the rtu formula, just $5 for nestle gs2 dha&ara rtu 32oz....it is the cheapest you can get, i think hehe.

my friend's baby in hk also drinks japanese formula 'snow stamp' and she said her baby complexion is whiter after drinking this brand wor ?-( ?-( ?-( i heard other ppl saying the same thing but not sure if it's real or not. what about chelsea, is there any diff on her?

so valerie is going to take 4 shots too :-( :-( :-(

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Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

小肥佬,
你都打算返香港呀！年尾好呀起碼冇咁熱。你知嗎？Clarence 返到香港，病了兩次，而每次都先發燒(大約三至五天才退燒) 後再要攪成個幾兩個星期先好番，最慘係頭頭返到香港又唔知邊到揾小兒科醫生比 B.B. 睇，而我又無乜朋友生咗 B.B. 有的又住到係九龍或新界區。所以記得帶定 D 平安藥呀！我唸可能因為香港天氣太熱啦一出一入冷氣地方B.B 好容易病倒。

Walebb,
唔緊要啦！你個女都仲係細 13 months，慢慢嚟啦！好似我個仔到現在都唔係好識講o野o家，有時同佢講o野，話佢唔明佢又好似明woo，有時仲好似有文有路添，真係比佢笑死！

Valbee,
點解你咁快就幫你個女 applied 定 Pre-School? 嗰間學校好難入o家？

Natmama & Clarab,
其實我 Husband 返香港 Business Trip 3 個月，所以我先可以返去咁耐咋！未返香港之前我都以為自已會有好多 Fun，但返過先知唔係囉！因為每次同阿仔出街都好似走難咁！每次上落車就，左攞阿仔個袋，右攞阿仔嘅手推車，中間就抱住阿仔，你話咁樣仲有乜 Fun 呀！(仲未計我 D 戰利品呀！)。好啦！唸住攞我 Daddy 的車去渣下，點知仲恐怖，香港有 D人渣車話 cut 線就cut 線，完全都唔會打燈比你知嗰 woo， D 路我又唔熟 law woo，明明依個路口行緊 left line大約四架巴士位之後條 left line 變o左 left trun only，當時我己經嚇到要停埋一邊換 Driver。
Natmama, thank you for your information. I went to their web site “Gymboree.com” I will enroll a class for my son.

Marble,
So happy to hear that you also live in San Jose. Are you full time mama?

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發表於 05-7-9 16:26 |只看該作者

Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

chi_mama

forget to tell you the difference in nestle and enfamil formula tim. enfamil contains 40+% whey protien & 50+% casien protein which is closest to breastmilk. the casien protein is harder to digest but it makes you feel fuller. as for nestle, it contains 100% whey which is the easiest to digest. actually in breastmilk, the amount/percentage of casien protein fluctuates from diff moms and even from the same mom, it fluctuates daily ( sometimes there could be no casien protien found in the breastmilk, depending on the food that the nursing mom eats) . so far, there is no findings on any problem nursing babies with 0% casien protein.

actually, valerie is on nestle as a supplement to breastmilk from 3-7months. then we switched to enfamil since she's 7months. personally, i think giving my baby nestle while she is having solids is ok. since she will get the proteins she needed in baby food and meat later.

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發表於 05-7-9 23:53 |只看該作者

Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

SY_mom,
Amanda will go to the one outside, as I have to go on my orientation for 12 weeks at day time, so she will go to the one outside (start from next monday) Full time whole day long.
She will go to the one where her cousin is there now.
Government proved, run by American.. takes care from 1 months old to 5 years old.
Oak land, it is a local day care, I don't think that it is a big network for this day care.. ^o^
The first thing to choose a day care/nursery/ child care centre/ pre-school..
is the teachers... really, if the teacher doesn't have good experience.. NO WAY..
second, I would say "hygene".. if the place is dirty and mess.. no way..
teacher and children ratio must below 1:14.. this is the law also it is linked with the size of the classroom as well.
I wish that you can find one which is closer to your house, and good for Sean as well ^o^
For the video.. oops...

I don't know much about it, have to ask my hubby before I can tell you.. ok?

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green tree,
gymboree enrol fee is $25.. initial..
之後每2.5個月(around)... $170.. plus 20 free classes..
(會開課後2 weeks email 通知), check 吓gymboree, ring up to make a reservation for 仔仔去free class 先.. 之後至諗返邊班.. with in class period, 可以補堂 if 你missed 咗... 好好...
唔鐘意個facilitator 又可以轉另一班.. 好自由/ 又有彈性

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發表於 05-7-10 02:14 |只看該作者

Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

Valbee,

I was concerned about the "only child" issue also and did some research. From my findings, only child behaves like the oldest child in a family. They usually have a stronger personality and a greater network of friends. I think it also has a lot to do with the child's characteristic. Miss Natalie is really a social butterfly and at this point, I don't see her having any problems being lonely/bored. I also have a big family and we all live in the same city...hopefully that will be good for her also :-P :-P :-P I would probably not have a 2nd baby if my only reason is to give Natalie a mate. Most of the siblings today live in different states/countries and don't have much chance to be together anyways. Like my husband, he has 2 olders sisters and he talks to them on the phone probably 4 times a year. If my hubby and I change our minds, we will have a 2nd one. At this point, chances are slim :-| :-| :-|

Lidvia,

I think Gymboree is good for a session or two. Anything more gets a little boring becuz the classes are quite redundant. The intereaction with the instructor is only half of the class, for the remaining, it's mommy and baby playing with the equipment. Like Sy-Mom, I got lazy and rather just take Natalie to the park. Maybe the music class is different. After hearing your story of the transportation issue in HK, I better prepare some money for taxi. I can't imagine carrying Natalie, holding diaper bag, and holding my "rewards"....hehehe.

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各位US媽咪,
我終於加入muimui313同meeemeee嘅在職媽咪行列!
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Zic,
next weekend, 真係一齊去NJ行Wal mart, 同Kurt影相之餘.. 再買gel整過.... 整多幾個假紀念品...

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Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

Natmama,
I did the same, even last 2 times, we lived with our parents, we took taxi every trip.. only a few trips with bus.. and MTR.. (as fat bear bear wanna try to take subway in hk)
Agree with you that I don't wanna bother my parents ... because Amanda will be two next month, as she really need space to run and explore.. but you know.. some chinese will pray for the old generation at home.. as my parents do, they burn 香 at home.. and last time we went back, Amanda grap on the burning 香... and don't know how to let go.. finally.. 5 burn holes on her palm :-( :-( , that hurt me very very much.. still now.. in my mind, I still feel very upset.. me and fat bear don't put any religous stuff on first floor or second floor (those on stay in basement--> Amanda will never able to reach them)
I don't wanna take any risk... as my parents' home with the open 露台... that is too dangerous for Amanda to fall over.. they live in 20/F... I am so afraid..
Also, privacy is another thing..
I am afraid that my parents will spoil Amanda.. she is really a little monster at home, sometimes, I will give her punishment as she needs to sit at the naughty corner or something like that until I go and get her, I don't think that I can do it in my parents' home.
And I wanna keep Amanda's routine as well.. especially her bed time routine..
Other than that...
I wish to find a service appartment... that a place for us to sleep and cook as well..
too much demand.. RIGHT????

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Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

i got this article from my friends, enjoy

***長子,長女
A)一般特徵:
1. 他們通常是父母眼中完美的孩子：聽話、整潔、懂事、負責。
2. 他們一般尊重權威，不敢犯錯誤，因為怕讓父母或其他權威的人失望。
3. 相對弟妹而言，他們通常服從性高、觀念保守、防禦心強。
4. 他們對自己的地位較易感到焦慮，他們的情緒比弟妹緊張，需要花較長時間排遣不愉快。
5. 他們希望獲得別人的敬仰和尊重，因此總會勉強自己做些不喜歡的事。

B)在工作中 :
1. 他們傾向選擇位居要津，能獨立工作的職業，而不常從事創造性的工作。
2. 他們雖然會服膺權威，卻來自想要得到更高的認可。事實上，他們常發現自己比老闆更知道工作『該』怎麼做。
3. 他們通常拼命工作，而且感到對一切都負有責任，他們不輕易要求幫助，也不太相信別人的能力，即使把工作交給別人，也會不斷擔心別人的表現。
4. 因為在意權威或更高權威的認可，他們通常也是各種排行中最介意排名、地位的。

C)作為朋友:
1. 他們較難交友，通常只有幾位親密的朋友。
2. 儘管他們貌似獨立，事實上還是需要別人認可，不願暴露自己的弱點，因此妨礙發展親密的友誼。

D)作為配偶:
1. 他們在婚姻關係中要求較多，也較有控制慾。
2. 他們傾向相信婚姻的重要性，而希望維持婚姻關係，一但婚姻關係終止，他們會感到強烈失敗與內疚。

E)專家建議:
1. 把對你自己和別人要求的標準放低些，並從生活中得到更多樂趣。
2. 在你有生之年，對自己能夠完成什麼要實際一些。
3. 你可以試著把自己對愛的需要更直接地表達出來，而不是用對別人關心的方式來贏得他們的愛。因為別人未必會理解你也有同樣的需要。
4. 如果你做錯了什麼，並不表示著世界末日，你周圍還有許多人認為像你這樣已經不錯了。

***么兒,么女
A)一般特徵:
1. 他們永遠是家裡的寶貝，即使他們長大了，大多數仍看來年輕、可愛。
2. 他們常比家中其他孩子更任性，也比較樂觀。
3. 他們常指望得到別人主動的幫助，他們也常看來較無助。
4. 他們在生活上比較不講規矩，常常遲到、拖延。
5. 若是他們曾受到壓抑，長大後會對公平問題特別敏感。

B)在工作中:
1. 他們是各種出生順序中事業心最差的，他們傾向找不太費力的工作，最好是那些能配合他們休閒生活的事。
2. 他們是各種排行中，興趣最廣泛的一種，所以他們通常都多才多藝，即使在運動上也是如此。
3. 他們對涉及社交、藝術方面的工作最高興，他們在音樂、語言、藝術方面都很有表現。
4. 他們容易成為好的合作夥伴，因為他們具備與人建立關係的能力。他們習慣依賴別人（配偶或同事）為他們解決問題。
5. 他們若處於負責任的高位，常會感到不知所措或不安全。他們缺乏自律，常難做出決定。

C)作為朋友:
1. 他們通常是最善交際、最受歡迎的人。
2. 若是來自大家庭，他們可能希望擁有自己私人的空間。

D)作為配偶:
1. 他們更有興趣讓自己過得快樂，因而常會成為違反社會期望的父母。

E)專家建議:
1. 要學著在必要時負起更多的責任，靠自己「長大起來

***中間子女
A) 一般特徵:
1. 他們可能具有其他出生順序的特徵，但也可能缺乏鮮明的特徵。
2. 他們缺乏最大、最小孩子的特權與寵愛，因此缺乏安全感。
3. 他們擅長和所有類型的人打交道，因此常讓他們成為好的談判者，善於爭取公平的裁決。
4. 他們不善採取主動或獨立思考。
5. 為避免失敗，他們對任何事也不會做得太久。

B)在工作中:
1. 為了使自己感到重要，排行中間的孩子也許會很有競爭心，儘管他們不直接跟家中的人競爭。
2. 通常善於處理人際關係，成為外交家、秘書、律師X這些職務要求的不是雄心大志，而是智慧與耐心。
3. 他們也能成為中級主管，因為他們了解人們的需求。

C)作為朋友:
1. 和朋友在一起，他們才感到獨立、平等。所以他們擅長社交，渴望家庭以外的朋友。

D)作為配偶:
1. 他們通常會有美滿的婚姻，因為他們很在意屬於他們自己的家庭

E)專家建議:
1. 別太管你的家人如何看待你，多聽聽外面的人怎樣讚賞你。
2. 你得想想自己真正要什麼，並且準備承擔與人對抗的風險來達成它，不要總是不顧自己的要求和想法。

***獨生子，獨生女
A)一般特徵:
1. 他們很容易自得其樂，有自尊，卻不會企圖控制別人。
2. 他們通常早熟，失去天真與頑皮，也許有成就，卻在看到自己不可能完美無缺時，自暴自棄。
3. 他們通常生活在自己的世界裡，對事情的輕重有自己的看法。
4. 他們常很難和家庭分離，特別無法離開父母，一但離開，會因此感到內疚與不忠。

B)在工作中:
1. 他們常一心博取比他們年長或有權勢人的歡心，而且常常成功。
2. 他們通常缺乏主動性，需要人來推動。不過一但開始，他們會工作得很出色。
3. 他們通常要求完美，寧願完全放棄也不湊合。
4. 他們很習慣自己生活裡嚴密的格式，所以不願有意外發生，對於改變計畫等「彈性」的處理，有很大的抗拒。
5. 他們習慣一帆風順，所以當事情出現問題，他們的反應可能與事情的輕重不成比例。

C)作為朋友:
1. 他們通常興趣廣泛，但因為早熟，通常和其他孩子的社交有隔閡，因此善結交比他們大很多的朋友。
2. 因為獨處比較自在，他們傾向一次只要一個親密的朋友。
3. 他們對同時適應過多夥伴的不同性格感到困難。
4. 當社會狀況變得緊張時，他們可能重回獨來獨往的習慣。
5. 他們通常不會道歉，感到原諒自己和原諒別人一樣困難。

D)作為配偶:
1. 因為他們不習慣跟其他孩子生活在一起，所以常不知如何處理親密關係。
2. 他們喜歡一切整潔、有序和守時，若配偶不能做到，就會有問題。

E)專家建議:
1. 事情不見得都會照你的意思發展，而且有時候讓別人參與一下，也會好玩。
2. 對自己的要求降低一點，會讓自己跟身邊的人都更快樂

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Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

natmama,

good to know that natalie is a social butterfly, my valerie is kinda quiet and now she is a social-cannot-fly

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發表於 05-7-10 11:13 |只看該作者

Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

Nillie,

I so agree that our parents' house are not very child-proof. Even though my parents live in the US and the don't burn incense or pray...their house is still not save for Natalie. I had to buy a playpen for their house in order for me to feel save with Natalie. Recently, they also bought a gate to block out the stairway

I think the service apartments you mentioned sounds very good...but since I don't cook and we will only be there for 2 wks...I'm hoping the hotel will suffice :lol: :lol: :lol: BTW, how is work so far, are you doing night or day shifts?

Valbee,

Thank you for sharing the article. Looks like no matter if a child has siblings or not, they all have their pros and cons. I just hope to provide the best for my daughter now and also be able to consider both my husband and my own well-being. If the time is right...who knows...maybe we'll have 2 or even 3 babies...hehehe.... :-P :-P :-P Tell you the truth...when I was young...I wanted 5 kids....

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Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

哎

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Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

muimui,

valerie is 9 months old and she still needs her night feeding :-( is there any reason, besides both baby and mom can sleep more, to cut the nite time feeding?

can i just let valerie cut it naturally or should be i train her? right now, i am thinking to let her have her nite time feeding as long as she wants, is it ok?

this is the second day that i cut down the number of feedings (from 5 to 4) and increase each meal to 7oz to valerie, hoping that she will have appetite for solids. so far, she eats only 1.5-2oz of rice cereal mixed with squash for dinner and no more lah... :cry:

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Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

valbee,
the way to give you and Valerie some more sleep is.. cut off the night feeding.. She is 9 months old, really need to sleep thru the night, also, need to give her stomach a break at night!
As infant as old as 6-7 months old with solid food.. they will able to tolerate for a whole night.
At first, will your hubby help you? if so, then the one who give the last bottle before mid night, will sleep thru the night, on the other hand, who sleeps first, will give the over night bottle.
Then, between dinner and before bed (eg.. 1900hrs dinner, 2200hrs bed time) give1/4 bread/ toast( 1 serve) to Valerie. At bed time, add 1 table spoon rice cereal into Valerie's bottle (must be warm formula)
that may help Valerie to sleep better..

Muimui313,
你好啲未呀? 亞瀝仔啲rash (if係玫瑰疹)會出幾日就散.. 唔好俾anti-biotics仔仔食啊!
你老公好勇啊! 一個亞瀝仔仲唔夠... 佢接唔接"收"Amanda, 我可以UPS ground俾佢架

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發表於 05-7-10 22:22 |只看該作者

Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

Natmama,
Same as you... may be we are 1st time mom.. new mom.. we have so many things to worry about.
My parents' home is big, but.. really not "child prove" as you mention. Therefore, we plan to rent the service appartment which close to HKU, so we can bring Amanda over to their home everyday..
About my work.. hee hee.. only the orientations.. every day is orientation.. some from the human resource, some from hospital nursing department..
I will have 12 weeks orientation at day time.. then I will have night orientation afterward..
Finally, I become a working mother... I am looking forward it.. the nurses in my OB office, said.. they feel so proud of me that I can finally achieve.. (stay at home with Amanda for 2 years).. all of them said, I really not the kind of person to be a housewife / stay home mom.. I am the kind of working mother.. I believe so..

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Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

nillie,

i have a live-in nanny and my mom has came over from hk to visit us, so there are 3 ppl in the house to serve my boss. right now the nanny is sleeping with valerie. but valeriw will sleep for 4-6hr, then she will wake up for a feeding. my mom and i tried not to give her formula and hold her to sleep but she will look at us and refuse to go to bed without the feeding.

i usually give her her last bottle 1/2 hour before she goes to bed at around 10-11pm. how long is sleeping thru the night meant? 6-8hrs or longer? val sleeps 9.5-10.5hrs each nights, excluding the feeding time. if i feed her at 9:30pm, how soon can i feed the over-night bottle? my gr. grandma in-law said she used to feed water to my husband when he was a baby, at night to cut off the night time feeding.. is this a good way? i read some articles at babycentre.com and it recommend to postpone and cut down the serving of the night feedling and gradually have it cut off. is this a better way?

lots of questions......

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Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

muimui313

咁耐以嚟,我都係同我老公去飲過一次茶咋(唔計去中國餐廰,食中國菜), 佢去到,都唔係食咁多嘢咋, 一舊起, 二舊止個D囉.好彩,個時同我二佬去,所以我哋兩個人食, 會唔理佢架.

..至於passport..我都print 咗出嚟架啦,但係就未動手囉.我又想問吓你, 你有無renew 本bno 嗰個website 呀? 我之前上過去睇, 但係我揾唔番呀..
仲有, 我無記錯,baby_alex 之前係其他forum講過,佢個bb係 african + chinese... 我仲讚佢個b對眼好靚添.

valbee

我個時,都好似你咁, 好担心,因為亞仔食得唔多,重就架唔多個隻.但係個OB 係咁叫我比多D奶比佢飲多過叫我比多D solid food 比佢囉..我個時每日係咁試, 一日多d,一日多d,依家就食多咗..唔好話你呀, 我個亞仔,到今時今日,一晚一定起一次身, 唔知係唔係心理上需要,定係肚餓,因為佢係最後個餐都係食得唔多, 食完收口,點都唔肯食..我都試過, nille 個方法,就係放d cereal 入d formula 度,但係佢一飲到,就唔飲,推開我.所以我都無再試lu..

唔好心急啦,慢慢嚟..我睇好多article, "奶" 真係對bb 頭個一年,先係最重要..所以有時,我寧願亞仔飲多兩啖奶,都食少d solid food 架..
唔該晒你個article 呀,可惜,唔係咁像我屋企囉,仲有小小相反既感覺添呀.. :mrgreen:

Nillie_Mami

我收到你d相啦, amanda 好QQ 呀.佢仲有好多大玩具呀.佢大個咗好多呀..ZIC 點呀? 佢揍ZURT 揍成點呀?
咁你諗住返香港幾耐呀?

..不過,聽你所講,又真係幾驚既, 如果住係你父母個度..我係屋企細囉,同埋肥佬肥,高,根本香港D床唔夠佢瞓. 所以如果同佢一起返, 都會住酒店,但係如果得我一個人,就一定會住娘家囉..無計..慳錢嘛, 又去得兩星期倒,都想對佢哋耐D..
係喎,你應該返咗工,點樣呀?

natmama,

好開心呀,咁confirm 咗星期三,係唔係?
亞仔終於肯離手行咗幾步仔啦..不過,唔係因為想衝過嚟我個度,而係想由coffee table 衝過去個cage 度咋..如果叫佢"過嚟"我個度,佢都係perfer 爬過嚟多d...

Lidvia

唔該晒你比既資料呀. 不過,千祈唔好比我老公知,如果唔係,佢唔比mini-matt 返架啦,但係如果亞仔唔一起同行, 我又唔放心,最後,我都會選擇唔去架 :-( :-(
我老公話"我可唔可以返香港楂車?" 我話"得,你都唔敢啦. 我就更加唔會坐你車呀 "

whalebb,

你真係好硏究呀..

梅菜x魚我買咗,不過未品賞呀...

greentree

唔該客氣喎,好耐無過你仔仔d新相,有無得睇吓呀?

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Re: Any Mom lives in USA Part III

nillie,

haha, if muimui doesnt want amanda, please ups to me ar

, would you take val and help her cut off her nite feeding

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