vvbb, onon
re : yesterday - talk
seems everyone felt it's very useful. Any main points can let us know? I agree about the 'eating', don't push them if they don't want to eat, otherwise they'll hate to eating finally...
Yinma
You really need to bring small yin to see Kid Dr.
Yuma
你要頂住呀!!
大隻程每次食藥都好似同佢死過甘....唔知仲以為我地虐待佢!!
Onon
your case really trouble.....milk, juice, water......all rejected by 卓培!
today, try 7-up la. see if it is work!
2 dong, yuma.... and other 昨晚無去既mama
no notes. Talk Only.
昨晚 seminar
I also feel the talk is useful. The speaker 好風趣. 佢講果D好中point.
Below is what I get :
1. LOVE .....要 show your love toward the kid. Don't hide your love. (你要show & say, otherwise kid dunno.....仲話唔講, 大人都唔知la)
2. LIMIT......要有限度地給予kid 選擇 (e.g. he/she MUST brush the teeth everyday, but you can let them choose which toothbrush he/she love)
3. LET THEM GROW.......俾kid有空間grow. (e.g. 玩倒水, 倒來倒去, 倒到周圍都係, usually d mom and dad will use cloth to clean. But the speaker said, let them clean, 俾佢地try)
4. love to tear paper, newspaper, book ..... let them do it - for training their fingers and hands
5. love to throw toys and things..... let them do it - for training their arms
6. flight among bb....... cos' you use 打打 as penalty towards them. they just follow you. so NEVER 體罰.
7. be direct..... when kid doing something wrong, no need to explain so much, they won't listen. Just say "Mom angry, Don't XX, Do XX"
...... so many point...... let pretty Mike continue.
actually i also want to ask the speaker where is their playgroup. i want to join. maybe in ShaTin.
3, yuma, benben
re : 跌到... then
My way is when heib is 跌到, we'll say "mo see, mo see, wah wah, stand up, stand up" & smile, use this way, don't let her to focus on 跌到, then she'll stand up very quickly & doesn't cry.
Sometimes I feel fussiness when she is 跌到, she'll cry very fast.