re : 千其唔好比99湊
e+ my problem is the same, 中佢, 由佢睇電視, 見人打 MJ, 俾一副佢玩, high chair 上有10隻 8隻麻雀 :evil: , 叫佢mud 都話 "唔好, 唔可以" :evil: 叫佢叫人, 都話"唔可以"!! 成個大爺甘!! :evil:
Re: Maid Vs 99
I think if you put BB at the parents home, usually they can take care of BB only. For the education part, you still need to pay attention to your BB. During the stay, BB may also pick up some bad habit from the old people that you don't want too.
If you let maid to take care of your BB, it's also quite similar. Some of the very good maid may help you to teach BB some English expression. But it's not that common to get a very good maid. From the current PG that I bring Ansel to, some BB is being looking after by the maid, I can see that the maid only bring the BB to attend the class, but not actively leading the BB to follow what the teacher doing or even let them to sit next to them during the whole lesson.
emily
甘 as a maid, what they need is to take care the bb only, not teach them lor. as parents, must teach by ourself. . . . i want to have maid as i want to have more time to spend with b after work (6.30 arrive home - 10.30pm sleeping time) . . . but now, just 7.30-9pm.
e+ still thinking of having maid or not . . . . OR
let 亞女 go to full time N1, then I bring her to and back home directly b4 work and after work. no need for the elders to teach her. For little b, then place at 99 home lor (that i don't want) :-|