I share your sad feeling because I have experienced the same case last week. I have lost my baby already. I am very sad. This is my second times although I have a 5 year old daughter. But nothing can replace this baby!! I am still taking a rest at home.
I am still asking why to God. Even though I know He has his own plan. Yesterday, I see my Chinese Doctor. She said that I could still get a baby if I wish. But I said that I was very disappointing because this is my second times. I feel that there is no hope. But she said that I and my husband can eat some Chinese mechine which can help the bodies to become stonger. Really, I don't know what to do.
I don't want to share with my friends with this experinece even the friends in chunch because I don't want to cry too much.
Venus, how are you keeping? Hope you are coping well there. It is a tough time and you are a very strong woman. 求神給你& your husband 所需要的勇氣,平安。好好保重身體。
馬媽媽Sorry to hear your lost, 很明白你的感受,很多時候我們都真的不能明白神的指意。但我相信神愛我們。我也同時間在安慰自己。會為你禱告,perhaps wait a few weeks until you know what you really want to do, visit Chinese EC or not. 好好保重身體2.
Lic9, praise the Lord that he looks after your 小b, and 小b心臟沒有問題。
No matter what happened, the Lord 'll be with you. In him.
Venus, you're very brave indeed! I will keep praying for you. Take care and hope that you will recover soon!
馬媽媽, sad to hear your news! At times, we don't know God's plan but when we looked back, we gained the best from him. Keep on visiting the chinese doctor to build up the body! Will pray for you.
Today is day 26 and i start feeling worried whether "M" will come. Can't sleep too well these days!
Venus, understand your feeling but this is good sign, isn't it? I think it's not a problem to call Dr. Tay coz he has been following up your case for a while and he should be able to provide comments. I believe before making such a great decision, we need to be patience in waiting God's guidance.
Hi Venus, praying hard for you. Try relax as much as possible. Wait a bit before taking any step further. Honestly, Just wait and see. (From another board I know someone bleeding heavily for a few months, and have a healthy baby to bring home.) Even if it is not the case, I don't think any waiting will delay any procedure that is needed immediately.
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same as venus, i can't see the heartbeat this morning and Dr is quite confirmed that i'm miscarriaged. he asked me to back next Tue for another u/s . probably will do operation on Thur.
i visited chinese ec afterwards, ec said if this case, it's quite difficult. probably miscarriage.
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u mention u saw the heartbest at the beginning (at ? weeks) then couldn't see for two weeks? and heartbeat back again?