Thanks for your support. Confirmed to be chemical pregnancy so I am now having "period". No more baby of course. I went to see a doctor, he is actually very good. He explained to me that I shouldn't be concerned of recurring miscarriage as there is no sign of such after he examined my situation over ultrasound. But anyways, it's a second time let down ... this time early misscarriage (doctor said everyone will have 20% chance of that), and last time, down syndrome (with no family history, it's 1/600 to 800). The question I kept asking myself - why is it me who is always the "unlucky" one?
Thanks for your support. Confirmed to be chemical pregnancy so I am now having "period". No more baby of course. I went to see a doctor, he is actually very good. He explained to m ...
Thanks for your support. Confirmed to be chemical pregnancy so I am now having "period". No more baby of course. I went to see a doctor, he is actually very good. He explained to m ...
I also did D&C operation on 22/6 since doctors couldn't see heart beat at 7.5wk. It's been 2 weeks already and I feel much better now though there's still very few bleeding (it seems to be day 4-5 during period).
I now focus on travel at the end of July, move flat in Aug, learn photography in Aug and see chinese ec and eat proper food to help my body recover. i plan to try again at the end of 2007. i wish all BK sisters don't give up though we don't succeed before. we can be upset but we can't give
up.
i'm now 32 and tried for 8 months and did 1st iui then
bingo. i'll treasure the time and try again 4-5 months
later. (I'll be 33 then.)
Here is something I want to share with you or something I really want your support.
Not sure if you sis still remember my case. I'm the one who miscarriages in Nov 2004 and Nov 2006 respectively. I visited BK web daily and read your guys' chat and seldom post my comment and feeling since I'm not a person who know who to express myself.
After Nov 2006's miscariage, I've been waiting for M like all of you. Until mid of Jan, my M still hasn't come so I went to visit my Western Doctor. And he asked me to wait for half more month. Until the beginning of Feb, my M still had 't come, so I went to the doctor again and he said I have PCOS!!! This is the first time I leart that I have this problem and I really wonder if so, how can I pregnant naturally for the last two times?? Anyway, I had to trust him, so he gave me some medicine to pull the M come and asked me to try one more cycle naturally. It was sosososo disappointed that my M never come naturally that means I have no CHANCE!!!
In the meantime, I also visited Chinese doctor : TaiWai "Tung Suk" from Jan. I nearly took his medicine everyday.
Until end of March, I went to my Western Doctor again and he said if I really want to have Baby, I can try to take排卵紙 medicine. Of course, I've told the case to Tung Suk and also taking his Chinese Medicine.
After taking 排卵medicine, my first cycle is 30 days and second cycle is 34 days. My last M come was on 31/5 and I DODO on 14/6, 16/6, 18/6 also.
Until 3/7, my M still hasn't come and I use pregnancy tester to test, it' positive, so I went to Tung Suk again on 4/7 and My western Doctor to confirm on 5/7. My western doctor is a male but he is very kind. He knows I'm a nervous person so he try his best to find the embryo (since I'm in 4 weeks something, it is hard to see). finally we saw a very very very small embryo and confirm I'm pregnant.
At the first few days i know this news, I'm happy but also scared. I'm asking myself whether it is true or will I have bad experience again. Sorry that I'm a persimisstic person.
Right now, I need to wait until 21/7 to have another visit. Hope I can see my B's heartbreak!
I am very worried and the time really passes very slow....
anyway, I wrote a long story and hope to share with all of you.
Saw your case. Feel happy for you, a very positive message to all sisters in this topic - if we try hard, we all still have a chance.
Now, please take good care of yourself. Have lots of rest (during my first trimester, I was always sleepy!) and eat healthy. We all wait for your futher good news.