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Re: 請跟我一起同世界各地媽咪分享異居海外的心聲 part 4

Nillie_Mami 寫道:
今日, 我問肥bear, 如果我 ( ) 咗, 佢一個人湊唔湊得掂Amanda同Gabby仔2個.. 佢問我做乜又諗到 ( ) .. 佢話佢一定湊唔掂, 我有乜衫長褲短就送佢2個去兒童院, 叫我諗都唔好亂諗嘢.. 佢問我係咪好攰, 有乜嘢唔開心.. 我啲眼淚淨係"巴巴"聲咁流.. 我唔知自己做乜嘢, 淨係流眼淚.. 點解湊人哋啲小朋友我就咁叻, 自已嗰個出世3星期就玩C我! 肥bear而家抱住Gabby仔, 叫我去上網, 佢一個睇2個.. Gabby仔跟住佢就唔喊.. {我抱佢, 佢都喊} :-( :-( :-(

Nillie,

放鬆啲啦，唔好諗咁多唔開心嘅嘢喇， Gabby仔可能知道妳唔開心、好tired，所以要肥bear daddy 抱，等妳多啲休息，如果妳想搵人傾吓，妳可以打電話比我，又或者我打電話比妳o架，千萬唔好諗嗰啲 (

)嘢喇，Amanda，Gabby仔同肥bear daddy 好需要妳o架.................

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發表於 07-1-22 11:11 |只看該作者

Re: 請跟我一起同世界各地媽咪分享異居海外的心聲 part 4

hoyinma,
我有小小唔妥.. 睇嚟又係PPD作怪.. 肥bear叫我諗開啲..
Gabby仔呢幾日 skin to skin 食人奶食得好差.. 佢喊得好淒涼.. 我都喊得好淒涼, 佢有奶唔食, 齋喊.. 我谷奶到啲奶"標"落佢塊面喥.. 要用紗巾吸晒啲奶.. 我好upset.. 佢食bottle又唔叻, skin to skin 又latch 唔好, 點算好.. 我好攰呀! :-( :-( :-( 佢晚晚咁大喊發.. 我點算好呀!

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Nillie,

Dont be upset!!!
I was quite down lately as Sophia doesnt breastfeed well.
She has got oral thrush so both of us need to be treated.
She cries a lot during and after feeds.
I was thinking about giving up but my hubby & friends all encourage me.
I also feel quite tearful so it is very normal!!
Please be relaxed and think positive.
We have just bought an electric swing for Sophia so she can sleep in it (at least doesnt need to be held for a while).
I feel very relieved as I know that I can have some time to do things.
My milk supply seems to settle down as I stop the suppliment and Sophia doesnt feed as much.
Her reflux is getting a bit better and I can put her down to the swing to sit upright for a while.
Hang on there!!!! Dont give up!!!
We all support you!!!

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小詠

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發表於 07-1-22 13:06 |只看該作者

Re: 請跟我一起同世界各地媽咪分享異居海外的心聲 part 4

NILLIE,

我同你一樣生完後好快又開始有產後抑鬱, 但明知是自己想多了, 但還是控制不了自己的情緒....妳要振作呀, 好快就會好起來, 如一發現照顧小朋友 & BB時突然心情好DOWN, 立即出外走走, 把小朋友及BB交比其他人代照顧一會, 等自己放鬆一下, 可以做吓自己愛做既事, 就算出外買少少野都可以放鬆到架。

比心機呀, 我會支持你架。

所有遇見，皆有因果
要是每個人都懂你，那你得有多平凡

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HEE

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發表於 07-1-22 13:17 |只看該作者

Re: 請跟我一起同世界各地媽咪分享異居海外的心聲 part 4

Dear Nille_Mami & Hoyinma 同各位有BB的媽咪,

好耐無上來, 見到你地咁, 好唔開心, 你地唔好唔開心, 其實你地係好偉大的, 你地dBB第日一定好錫你地

凡事各好的方面諗, 什麼事情都會解決到的, BB一定會以有你地這樣的媽咪為榮, 你地的相公亦會更加愛錫你地的

特別係Nille_Mami , 你不特止係一個好媽咪, 更係一個好好的人, 我在之前見你用你的醫學常識, 幫到唔小媽咪, 解決問題, 你好好呀, 所有的媽咪, 一定支持你!!

有什麼唔開心, 上來多d傾吓!!

加油!!加油!!

Twinsgirl,

唔好周圍走咁多, 多d休息!!

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小詠

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發表於 07-1-22 13:58 |只看該作者

Re: 請跟我一起同世界各地媽咪分享異居海外的心聲 part 4

NILLIE,

仲有呀, 大把野等住你做, 唔好想C住呀, 我生完JOHNNY時有段日子, TOMMY日日發神經, 我都好心灰, 覺得自己照顧得兩兄弟唔好, 無資格留在此家累人累物.........但我當時情緒好差, 老公又唔多回家理我地幾個....打比佢想同佢傾,佢連聽電話都話唔得閒, 當時我都想C.....但太多野要處理我連C都唔得閒去C啦......

妳要記住, AMANDA好需要你

JAMES更加需要你

肥BEAR BEAR更加更加需要你呀......

小朋友最需要有亞媽陪成長架, 你係好重要, 明白無。

而我, 都唔C得住, 因有大量野要做:-

睇亞仔既功課!
教新工人做野......
老公D西裝要拿去乾洗
打工做野我要養自己既父母同兩個仔
填學卷制資助申請表
放工買奶粉......

太多太多....多到打唔晒。

所有遇見，皆有因果
要是每個人都懂你，那你得有多平凡

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發表於 07-1-22 14:56 |只看該作者

Re: 請跟我一起同世界各地媽咪分享異居海外的心聲 part 4

Nille Mami,

我係喺日本的gingermama, 你要振作, 要明白而家只係產後荷爾蒙反應加上餵人奶有挫折至咁唔開心, 唔好諗傻野, 搵番d 細路細個d 相睇下會開心d 架, 記住, 呢段時間好快就過, 唔會一直咁唔開心架!

至於餵奶, 唔駛灰心, 大不了唔餵人奶食奶粉, 我都只係餵左個幾月人奶就轉晒全奶粉, 阿囡都係大大隻隻健健康康, 而家最緊要係你可以舒服d. 努力呀!

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發表於 07-1-22 15:06 |只看該作者

Re: 請跟我一起同世界各地媽咪分享異居海外的心聲 part 4

Hi gingermama

I'm coolkathy, living in Miyazaki, Jp, where do u live?nice to meet you here.

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發表於 07-1-22 15:47 |只看該作者

Re: 請跟我一起同世界各地媽咪分享異居海外的心聲 part 4

Nillie,
0個時我亞囡都係啦,我抱就喊,其他人抱就唔喊.
之後我問過好多媽咪,好多bb都係咁架!
conclusion---> bb係蝦媽咪架
唔好咁唔開心啦~

0個時你生amanda咁辛苦既日子都挨得過,而家無理由唔得既. 加油呀,你一定掂架!~

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發表於 07-1-22 16:26 |只看該作者

Re: 請跟我一起同世界各地媽咪分享異居海外的心聲 part 4

Nillie,
你睇? 呢度個個都好錫你架, 雖然有d姊妹可能太忙未上嚟鼓勵你, 但佢地知道嘅話一定都係叫你唔好亂諗嘢啫!
Gabby仔得10幾日人仔, 緊有d嘢令媽咪擔心吓緊張吓, 我相信個個bb都會, 只係唔係呢樣就果樣架啫~ 食奶問題只係暫時性, 唔會有嘢解決唔到嘅, 係咪?
小詠講得好啱呀, Amanda需要你, Gabby仔更加需要你, 肥bear更加冇左你唔得, 你仲有好多好多任務架, 淨係喺度解答吓我地呢班C9嘅問題你都有排你忙, 我地都十分非常極之需要你架! 總之要記住, 你而家咁down係因為荷爾蒙嘅影響, 你心裡面係明白呢個只係過渡期, 唔開心好快就會過去, 千奇唔好做傻事, 知唔知點解個個話去c都係用'傻事'嚟形容吖? 咪就係因為做左嘅話一定會後悔囉~ 我地喺度撐你架, 支持你!!!

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Re: 請跟我一起同世界各地媽咪分享異居海外的心聲 part 4

Nillie,
我好多時都冇時間睇晒呢處既留言, 因為個個都好祥盡, 我又唔係一個識講咁多野既人, 所以唯有叫你 "努力呀小妹, 你一定能勝過唔開心既時候, 你係一個好堅強既好媽咪, 好老婆同好朋友黎架! 你一定得架! 但要記住it takes time...so, don't push youself too much."

All the best Nillie....

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Re: 請跟我一起同世界各地媽咪分享異居海外的心聲 part 4

Hoyinma,
你都係呀, 要振作d呀, 唔好俾太大壓力自己~

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Re: 請跟我一起同世界各地媽咪分享異居海外的心聲 part 4

Nillie
sorry, i can't help much but remember we are all here to support you ga. when you feel depressed and stressful come and talk to us..... we are all here for you.

fat bear bear is such a wonderful husband and by his answer to your "silly" question, you should be glad that you have such wonderful husband and he is the warmest husband i have ever met.....

remind yourself when you feel the blue that "try to focus and think the bright side, but not the dark side".

a za fighting, a za fighting you can win the PPT ga.....

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發表於 07-1-22 18:57 |只看該作者

Re: 請跟我一起同世界各地媽咪分享異居海外的心聲 part 4

Nillie_Mami﹐
唔好想甘多﹐我生KEVIN仔時都同你一樣﹐點解人地湊仔甘容易﹐自己一個都唔惦 :-( 都唔知點解好小野都喊一餐﹐老公請左假湊仔呀媽又整好野比我食﹐我只係睡覺同餵仔﹐但都成日喊﹐但我就同你相反﹐我就唔夠奶比BB食﹐所以好多時都係我老公餵奶。
轉下奶瓶睇下Gabby仔食得好唔好些﹐可能Gabby仔肚有風﹐用生油放在手﹐津熱生油﹐放在BB肚﹐如果有風BB會放出來。。
好多媽咪都同你一樣﹐可以找朋友講一下﹐唔好想甘多﹐明天會更好呢

Nijnje

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Re: 請跟我一起同世界各地媽咪分享異居海外的心聲 part 4

Nillie_Mami,

"Add Oil" ar. We are all here to support you. You are so brave already. Just do whatever you feel comfortable with. As the other mum said, you can try bottle feeding if you think it's better for you....

Cheers

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Re: 請跟我一起同世界各地媽咪分享異居海外的心聲 part 4

Hi Lorry and other mums,

I went to have my scan this morning.
Unfortunately, my baby is small (only 706g) it should be around 2 pounds for a 26 weeks baby......

Having said that, everything seems OK. Baby is moving and everything appear normal. The dr said my baby would have been 5-6 pounds only when 40 weeks.

I will have another scan in two weeks time to monitor the grow of the baby.

Wish me luck.

Cheers

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Re: 請跟我一起同世界各地媽咪分享異居海外的心聲 part 4

Nillie,
我地個個都支持你架﹗唔好亂諗野﹗加油呀﹗

avalyl,
食多d有營養既野﹐訓到就訓多d﹐bb會好吸收d, 唔好擔心呀﹗

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Re: 請跟我一起同世界各地媽咪分享異居海外的心聲 part 4

HEE 寫道:

Twinsgirl,

唔好周圍走咁多, 多d休息!!

HEE，

Thanks~~唉..........我都無乜出去o架啦.............休息---孖女返咗學，就

到中午，孖女放咗學就無得休息................ :lol: :lol:

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發表於 07-1-23 03:40 |只看該作者

Re: 請跟我一起同世界各地媽咪分享異居海外的心聲 part 4

Karen,

Thanks for your gift~~

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Re: 請跟我一起同世界各地媽咪分享異居海外的心聲 part 4

唔知點解我啲人奶好稀，好似水咁

今日只bump 得兩安，好快Kiyomi 就會只食奶粉~~~~ :lol: :lol:

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Lorry