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hi all sister, I am the first time to visit, I try to have babyaround two years la, still failed, few month ago , I go to see the doctor , she said my Rt 輸卵管 was Blocked, also子官後屈,it is difficult to have baby, she suggest me to do the operation, but the success rate is only 50%,so I refused.I really feel upset, and begin to afraid to see the baby or the baby product, now, was improved, thanks god , I go to see another Chinese doctor, but the M still not regular, and will have mild bleeding during 排卵期,i use the David test paper to test, no egg, very poor , I don't know what can I do, go to see western doctor again , or con'd wait. I am now taking the Chinese medicine every day, still no effect, sometimes really want to ask why?? Why god don't give me a baby, why other people can get it so easy, but why me so difficult

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kululato
hello and nice to chat with u on this thread.
i can understand a bit your feelings. as i've tired for 2 yrs more .just bingo recently.
i also 子官後屈 . and miscarriaged for 3 times. After all these experiences, God teach me His timing and planning is much more important than mine. and i can only obey and follow Him. I know it's really difficult as we waited for long time.
i will pray for u. don't give up, maybe try to figure out "what God want me to do ?".
hope u'll feel better soon. will pray for u

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Hi Kululato,

Sorry to hear your experience, I know your feelings, we will ask God why???Why me??? I have been trying for 5 years. Even I don't understand why God still has not given me a baby, they only thing I know is that God always loves us, this is a very important promise we have in Him.

How many of your 輸卵管 was blocked? One or two, which western dr did you see before??? If both of them are blocked, your can only do ivf....

原文章由 kululato 於 08-5-17 02:31 發表
hi all sister, I am the first time to visit, I try to have babyaround two years la, still failed, few month ago , I go to see the doctor , she said my Rt 輸卵管 was Blocked, also子官後屈,it is difficu ...

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all sisters

pls pray for my son as he start fever now. hope the fever go away soon after taking the medicine.

thanks

原文章由 YimYee 於 08-5-17 19:30 發表
Hi Kululato,

Sorry to hear your experience, I know your feelings, we will ask God why???Why me??? I have been trying for 5 years. Even I don't understand why God still has not given me a baby, they o ...

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發表於 08-5-18 02:33 |只看該作者

kellyaugust , yimyee

thanks a lot and thanks your love, i can see the love from god

i see the DR.董曉芳 last year, Nov, after her investigation , she said i need to take a X-ray (輸卵管), this investigation was very very painful, few days later, the doctor call me and tell me one tube was blocked, and ask me to do the operation, this make me crazy, cry and cry.....i still not yet to bring back all my investigation and x-ray film, just like give up all the thing. now, my emotion was improved, now taking the chinese medicine, but....no effect, one thing make me frustrated is i use the david's test paper , the test result is NO EGG, i have no chance
what can i do, go to see the western doctor or not, what thing can help me, injection?? take pills?? anyone see this doctor, is she good??? any other doctor ???

i don't think she is good, i am not sure,she don't explain to me, maybe she was busy...

i know i just can wait god and trust him, sometimes will think to give up, but when i see other family have baby is a very happy thing , then....

thanks yours pray for me,
i also will pray for yours and thanks god give me know this place , and i can find someone to share my feeling and ask yours suggestion

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發表於 08-5-18 10:21 |只看該作者

Hi kululato,

I can understand your feeling, all sisters here have gone through a lot a lot, we 200% understand your feelings. I did see Dr tung before too, she did one ivf (test tube baby) for me last year, she is a good doctor, I know she is very busy. What operation does her recommand you to do? Did she write you an referral letter to public hospital??? Chinese medicine is good for you, but it may not be able to her your 輸卵管, about the ovulation problem, have your charting your basal temperature in the morning? Is your period regular? If you are not sure about the operation, you should see a few more doctors for 2nd opinion.

Let's share and walk together.

原文章由 kululato 於 08-5-18 02:33 發表
kellyaugust , yimyee

thanks a lot and thanks your love, i can see the love from god

i see the DR.董曉芳 last year, Nov, after her investigation , she said i need to take a X-ray (輸卵管), this inve ...

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Hi!

過去三星期,我的濕疹真的發得很厲害,心想希望用最自然的方法來處理,不用搽慮固醇的藥膏,前幾天我祈禱,求神醫治,怎料昨日成隻腳腫左,好驚,終於去左睇西醫,醫生話我的濕疹是工作壓力引起的,又問我瞓得好唔好。西藥真的很厲害,我每日只需搽了一次藥,已經收水了,連埋醫生開的藥,我還瞓得得好呢!現在回想,原來我之前真的瞓得唔好。同時,我亦發覺,神都覺得我再咁落去,真係會頂唔順,故安排我去安西醫。

睇現在的情況,我預計今個星期,濕疹應該會好番,希望不會番發吧!同時,我亦預計今個星期會m 來,我好猶疑應否今個cycle放胎,若不放,便要等到9月才會開工。那我應該等,還是今個cycle就開始呢?

其實我覺得已經很累了,這幾年為左生bb,做了很多,但都無結果,好想放棄,但我還有11個胚胎,即使放棄,我都唔想放棄這11個可能的仔仔女女啊!

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原文章由 YimYee 於 08-5-18 10:21 發表
Hi kululato,

I can understand your feeling, all sisters here have gone through a lot a lot, we 200% understand your feelings. I did see Dr tung before too, she did one ivf (test tube baby) for me las ...

佢叫我做通輸卵管手術, 但只得一半機會, 我唔諗住做, 我老公見我哭得死去活來咁, 叫我唔好再睇, 有就有,無就無, 佢唔一定要BB, 所以, 我放棄咗幾個月, 之後, 有個朋友去TUEN門睇咗個中醫, BINGO咗, 叫我去睇下, 但M小姐依然都唔regular, so, i am now thinking about go to see Dr.Tung again or not, i only one tube blocked, still have 50% chance, but i am afraid the treatment , i don't know need or need not to do iui,ivf.......i just very afraid to vaginal examinatin...

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發表於 08-5-19 01:16 |只看該作者

原文章由 kululato 於 08-5-19 01:14 發表

佢叫我做通輸卵管手術, 但只得一半機會, 我唔諗住做, 我老公見我哭得死去活來咁, 叫我唔好再睇, 有就有,無就無, 佢唔一定要BB, 所以, 我放棄咗幾個月, 之後, 有個朋友去TUEN門睇咗個中醫, BINGO咗, 叫我去睇下, 但 ...

thanks a lot

, i feel more comfort after sharing,keep in touch

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發表於 08-5-19 18:17 |只看該作者

Hi all,

Kululato, welcome but sorry it is under this circumstances. Like YimYee said, most of us here have tried to have babies for several years. I myself have tried 4 years and experienced 4 miscarriages in a row. It has been really hard. And we understand how you feel. I also have a bit of 子宮後屈, but it isn't serious and Dr. said no need to do anything. My Aunti had that too and it is more serious and she had operation. Her son is already 21. If you M is irregular, it could mean your ovulation is not happening every month like me. Nevertheless, there is still chances. You might ask Dr. for more blood test. day 2 & 7 days after ovulation (this is difficult as your M is not regular, I have done day 21, 24, 27, 30...etc. blood test and the result is low, so I was said to have low progesterone, no regular ovulation). Charting BBT (body temp) might give you some idea how your body is function, if you get a rise of temp. after mid-cycle, + 7 days and get blood test done. Just an idea?

BTW, I also tried Chinese herbal medicine, I think it improve a bit of my cycle but not big changes. It is hard to find a Ec suits us.

Life is very difficult esp. when things are not in our control. The good news is that there is still chances that it is going to happen. Me and Kelly are currently pregnant, even I couldn't say it is going to be no problem due to our history, but keep your faith in God, it is going to happen. :)

原文章由 kululato 於 08-5-17 02:31 發表
hi all sister, I am the first time to visit, I try to have babyaround two years la, still failed, few month ago , I go to see the doctor , she said my Rt 輸卵管 was Blocked, also子官後屈,it is difficu ...

[ 本文章最後由 pigpiglau 於 08-5-19 18:24 編輯 ]

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Hi Kelly, how 's your son? Hope he is alright now.

YimYee, how 's your husband and brother-in-law?

venus, glad that your 濕疹 is under control. Praying for you that your know when to proceed with next IVF.

Galic, have you start IVF cycling?
And hi to everyone else!

quote]原文章由 VenusTam 於 08-5-19 00:51 發表

Hi!

過去三星期,我的濕疹真的發得很厲害,心想希望用最自然的方法來處理,不用搽慮固醇的藥膏,前幾天我祈禱,求神醫治,怎料昨日成隻腳腫左,好驚,終於去左睇西醫,醫生話我的濕疹是工作壓力引起的,又問我瞓得好唔好。西 ... [/quote]

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發表於 08-5-20 10:13 |只看該作者

pigpiglau

thanks, my son still have bad throat and coughing. taking medicine . hope he can recover in a few days.

i still have those "m come feeling" (tired back and bad tummy) each morning before i wake up. is it normal? i'll worry much if those feeling is stronger. like this morning. pls pray for me as i really don't know how to pass these difficult days. will see Dr this Fri.

venus
good to hear your news and will keep pray for u. May God guide u and hold your hands .

原文章由 pigpiglau 於 08-5-19 18:20 發表
Hi Kelly, how 's your son? Hope he is alright now.

YimYee, how 's your husband and brother-in-law?

venus, glad that your 濕疹 is under control. Praying for you that your know when to proceed with ...

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pigpiglau﹕你最近點呀？

kelly﹕m come feel係好正常架﹗加油呀~~~等你消息。

venus﹕希望你o既濕疹快d好返。

kululato﹕在祂沒有難成的事，我們一班姊妹，一同分享、經歷、守望吧﹗

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lic9

good to hear that . today is my wedding anniversary. hope can have some private time with my husband. really wanna have good communication with him.

but when is those " m come feel " stop???

原文章由 lic9 於 08-5-20 11:19 發表
pigpiglau﹕你最近點呀？

kelly﹕m come feel係好正常架﹗加油呀~~~等你消息。

venus﹕希望你o既濕疹快d好返。

kululato﹕在祂沒有難成的事，我們一班姊妹，一同分享、經歷、守望吧﹗ ...

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發表於 08-5-20 12:14 |只看該作者

pigpiglau & all other sisters,

Thanks for thinking of me~~ I'm waiting for my m comes after finishing the contraceptive pills. It should be today or tmr. I'm pretty good recently. The Chinese dr told me I'm keeping everthing well too. My focus lately is put on my revision for the coming exam~~hehe

Let us pray for God for our different needs and guildance~~

原文章由 pigpiglau 於 08-5-19 18:20 發表
Hi Kelly, how 's your son? Hope he is alright now.

YimYee, how 's your husband and brother-in-law?

venus, glad that your 濕疹 is under control. Praying for you that your know when to proceed with ...

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galic

good to hear from u and know your status is good.
will pray for u .

原文章由 galic 於 08-5-20 12:14 發表
pigpiglau & all other sisters,

Thanks for thinking of me~~ I'm waiting for my m comes after finishing the contraceptive pills. It should be today or tmr. I'm pretty good recently. The Chinese dr told ...

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HI all,

Kelly, tired back is good sign ar. The tired back mean the hormone is working its' wonder. The nurse asked me if I have sore back b4, and I said not too bad, she said sore back is good. Happy Anniversary! Had mine just last week but stomach were too sick to go out. Praying for you and your son. Sore throat is tough, I used to have that when I was a kid. Eat as much fruit as he can. Some said lemon + 7up + salt can help a bit. (Kids here drink warm 7-up when they got a cold, strange....)

Lic9, how are you and baby? My dr. has given me a medicine to take for my stomach, it seems to improving. But I still smell things....(bad), that affect my appetite. Still taking fibre drink for my constipation.

Galic, glad to know you body is co-operating. YAY! Keep it up! And pray for your exam as well! :)

原文章由 Kellyaugust2004 於 08-5-20 12:57 發表
galic

good to hear from u and know your status is good.
will pray for u .

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原文章由 pigpiglau 於 08-5-19 18:17 發表
Hi all,

Kululato, welcome but sorry it is under this circumstances. Like YimYee said, most of us here have tried to have babies for several years. I myself have tried 4 years and experienced 4 misca ...

pigpiglau:

thank you so much, and very glad to know that u have
pregnancy, thanks god and take rest ar, pray for u
besides, i am not really understand treatmant that can
help pregnancy , i remember that last time i go to see Dr.tung, she take a vaginal swabs ---to see any bacteria which may affect pregnancy, then, i take a blood test, to see the hormone, but i don't remember what kind of blood i take, i just know the result is normal, then, take a x-ray and know have right side blockage. after know this, i didn't go to follow up la, i am now thinking about go to see the doctor again or not, any doctor good???? the medical fees is it very expensive????? would u please let me know how much?? can i afford it?

Kellyaugest:

pray for u and your baby, don't worry, god will bless u , take more rest and eat more la

yimyee:

just know about the bad news from your family, i am sorry about this, trust god will bless and give peace for u and your family

lic9:
thanks for your support

All sisters

thanks god to give us this place for sharing , all of us, add oil, god love us, he will give all the best for us, we need to wait and be patient, when we feel weak, confused, come here, all sister will help us , be faith. sometimes i also feel very upset and loss my confidence, but i can find my faith here.

p.s any doctor is good???

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kululato
glad to know that u feel good after sharing here. thanks for your prayers. it mean alot to me and sure God listen to our prayers.
I highly recommend Dr Tay. i guess u've heard his name on this web. would u like his info?

keep praying for u

原文章由 kululato 於 08-5-20 21:49 發表

pigpiglau:

thank you so much, and very glad to know that u have
pregnancy, thanks god and take rest ar, pray for u
besides, i am not really understand treatmant that can
help pregnancy , i rememb ...

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