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Re: In him, everything is possible

ruthcsp

if i didn't remember wrong, venus's bb is quite the same as mine, that's , almost 8 weeks pregnant.

well, i got a little bit brown discharge this morning.
for your last time, did u have brown discharge at all?

i don't know how to pray. and i don't know whether take bed rest or not ( as chinese ec asked me to do so)
:cry:

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發表於 07-6-23 15:59 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

kelly,

我今日不停的等你消息,知道你的情況跟我一樣,真的很不開心。不過,請你不要這麼快做決定啊!雖然dr tay是一位值得信任的醫生,我覺得你要再看多一個醫生,找second opinion.試下驗血,看看bb是不是再沒有生長。

今日和老公看亞伯拉罕獻以撒的經文,我們的領受是,我們要放低自己的主權,讓神來掌管。當日我打算食dr tay給我的藥時,雖然是買了,但我和老公心裏卻覺得要等一等,不如你都等一等丫!

繼續為你祈禱!如我無記錯,我和你的時間只相差一天。

休養生息中。

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發表於 07-6-23 17:50 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

venus

will u visit Dr tmr morning and do u/s?

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ruthcsp

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發表於 07-6-23 18:02 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

Kelly:

我上次（ｉｖｆ小產個次）係８周同８周６日都有心跳，ｂｂｓｉｚｅ係２．１７ｃｍ，但隔咗１２日再照時，ｓｉｚｅ係２．２９ｃｍ（正常應該過３ｃｍ），日數停咗係９周，所以我都覺得係無希望．．．．我一直都無流過啡�紅，無肚痛，無唔舒服．

但你可以等吓先．同埋睇多個西醫．

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發表於 07-6-23 18:02 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

venus

i plan to bed rest as more as i can now.
i of coz want to seek one more opinion. .......

let's pray together.

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發表於 07-6-23 18:10 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

Kelly, sad to hear that. I think you should take bed rest. My friend's situation was similar to you and she took bed rest for 1 week. Her situation improved and she just delivered her baby last month!
Will keep praying for you & Venus!

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發表於 07-6-23 18:59 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

kelly,

我明天會見幫我驗血的醫生,看看他有甚麼意見,同時,我原定今早見dr tay,不過改在星期二,我想再等一等,看看有沒有新發展。

我今日都盡量躺著,希望可以有幫助。同時,該位醫生比了一些安始藥我食,令到我很累,心跳和頭痛,該位醫生已講明會有這些徵狀。

希望你可以盡快見多一位醫生,取多個意見,如果你有需要,我可以pm那位醫生的資料給你。我阿嫂都試過小產兩次,在她成功懷孕時,都曾有醫生說她會小產,她最後瞓了四、五個月床,結果生了我姪女出來,還很活潑、健康呢!

繼續為你祈禱!

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發表於 07-6-23 19:22 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

Venus and Kelly, Praying hard for you two.

Kelly, sorry to hear it may be a misc. It is very hard but like Venus said, get a second opinion, take plenty of rest for the time being. Hope the best outcome for you both!

Everyone 繼續祈禱 for them, the family and babies! (& 馬媽媽)!

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發表於 07-6-23 19:52 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

dear all

thanks for the prayers. both husband & i really need it.
as i don't know how to pray now. ..

pls pray for me that i know what to do next .
pray for my husband can have much more patient & love when taking care my son.
as Dr Tay will be on leave from next Fri. that's why he suggested me to do operation next Thur. he will be back on 9th july. he said i can't wait that long.

if still can't see bb's heartbeat next checkup (tue morning). should i go ahead and do operation? ??

pls pray for me.

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發表於 07-6-23 19:54 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

venus

thanks, will see. pls let me know what 's turn out tmr. hope your Dr can have good solution.

did your Dr give u injection?

as Dr tay asked me to stop the vaginal pills and injection...
but i wonder maybe the injection can help a bit???

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發表於 07-6-23 20:01 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

ruthcsp

so , when did u do operation for your last miscarriage ? is it around 10 weeks?
any doctor suggested?

as for our pregnancy now, did u say bb's heartbeat was stopped for 2 weeks and back again??

i just wonder will the heartbeat back again?

if can wait, of coz i want to wait. but Dr Tay said i can't wait that long till he finished his leave and back on 9thjuly.

.............
tks for your help

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發表於 07-6-23 21:54 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

Dear all sisters,

Thank you for your prayers.

I am same with you because we are facing the hard time. Sometimes, I blame God why all these happened. Sometimes, I feel sorry to God. This is really difficult time.

Someone may ask why I still want a baby even though I have one daughter already. I always remember when my daughter prays, she always ask for a baby. When I hear that, I want to cry. I don't know how to explain to her that we cannot get one la!

This is a struggle for my hudsband and me to consider whether we will try next time. Because we have prayed for a long time before we have tried this time. But finally, unsuccessful.

Coming Monday, I have to go to office. I am scared to explain to my boss and my colleagues. My boss knew about that but I am still relundant to explain once more. After Monday, I will take my leave again. I hope my heart will become better.

Venus and Kelly, always in my prayer. Thanks.

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發表於 07-6-23 22:02 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

kelly,

我和老公在知道dr tay下星期放假後,我們固然要考慮dr tay的時間表,但在生命的事上,我們要謹慎,故此我們都多取一個意見。

我原本都叠埋心水,今日食藥排bb出來,但驗血指數卻令我沒有這樣做,生命是由神而來的,我們寧願等候,也不願草率行事。即使情況再惡劣,即使流血流啡的情況繼續,我們也願意等待,就算最後可能dr tay是對的,但起碼我們對這個bb已盡了自己的本份,不是因為dr tay的時間表,而去決定bb的生死。直到如今,我和老公都很敬重dr tay,亦很信任他的判斷,但實際上,在生育過程中,仍有很多西醫不可知、不可解的現象出現,故此謹慎一些,可以免得日後後悔。

我不知道bb的心跳會否再出來,但驗血指數卻告訴我,懷孕繼續,所以我更加要多看一個醫生的意見。

至於祈禱方面,不如你看看詩篇121篇,以色列民在曠野之中,雖然環境惡劣,但他們知道神在保護他們;馬可福音4章35-41節,平靜風和海,神的應許和同在,相信可以幫助你渡過困境。還有可看羅馬書8:26-28。希望這些經文可以幫助你,繼續為你祈禱。

休養生息中。

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發表於 07-6-23 22:11 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

kelly,

dr tay沒有再給我injection,但驗血那位醫生給了一些安胎藥給我,他當時有解釋,由於iui/ivf並非natural地有bb,所以不可以按一般計算方法來推測bb的生長,當然,當時他只看到一個很細的胚胎,他並未見過心跳,以當時的情況來說,他應該是要謹慎一點,所以他建議我驗血。

至於那些安胎藥,他解釋是讓我的子宮放鬆,減少流血情況,當然對我來說,我看不到有多大改善,因為流血、流啡的情況持續,但不是很多,或者口服的安胎藥也有其作用。同時,他有解釋,這些安胎藥不會影響驗血的結果,相反,我理解是,若果打安胎針的話,反而會影響驗血結果呢!

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發表於 07-6-23 22:15 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

Hi Kelly,

I have experienced that do not how to pray, when you really get lost in His plan, maybe you can ask your spirit to lead you to pray.

Venus,

You and your husband are such strong persons. Totally agree with you, we should not follow the dr's time table, should follow our God's.

I know it is very hard to accept miscarriage, especially, like us, so difficult to get conceived. But I guess, it is getting more common nowadays, both my sister-in-laws had that experience, one even lost her baby when she was 5-month pregnant.

We share, pray and support for each others, come and join us!
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主辦：香港教會更新運動
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發表於 07-6-23 22:23 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

yimyee & kelly,

或者咁講,我和老公都是抱著輸的心態來面對,起初我也是很不開心,發現後的頭兩天,我每想到時都會哭出來。而當我抱輸的心態時,驗血結果卻並非我所預期,或者還有希望吧!當然,我們都已交給神,這個bb的生命並非我們的,而是神賜予的,若祂覺得收回是好的話,我們也願意接受,當然,我們生bb的計劃又要一拖再拖,等的過程是很痛苦的;若祂的應許仍然存在,我們相信有奇蹟,又或者說,在驗血一事上,我們經驗了,但我們仍要交托。

另外,我和老公在這件事上,常常都介意有甚麼徵狀,有冇流血/啡,我們都憑這些徵狀來預測究竟bb得唔得,但這些都不是重點,重點是我們究竟交托了幾多給神。當然,對於明日見醫生,我有點期待,亦有點擔心,或者這些就是我要學習的東西。

休養生息中。

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發表於 07-6-23 22:30 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

Kelly:

我上次係係私家醫生度（１０周５日）一發現ｂｂ停咗心跳同成長已接近１０日有多，醫生已即時寫信叫我去瑪麗急症，瑪麗個邊有３個唔同嘅醫生都檢查過，都搵唔到心跳，所以連程排隊做手術．．．

我只聽過懷孕早期未照到心跳，而遲多２星期先照到嘅例子，但未聽過好似我咁之前有心跳，後來停咗，跟住隔一排又會有番．．．不過我唔係神，唔知佢會為你如何安排．．．我之前無等，係因為身邊有姊妹試過一樣嘅情況，而且ｄ數字真係顯示都停咗成１０日．．．

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發表於 07-6-23 23:29 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

Venus & Kelly,

我也不知應說甚麼，也沒有這些經驗，願妳倆仍能對主有信心，無論如何也能順服主的心意。我知道講就容易但做真的很難，正如馬媽媽的分享（She blame God why this thing happened to her) ，這幾天我也在問主：「為何會這樣，姊妹們等了那麼久，為何仍要她們去面對這些事情呢？」

我還未明白，不過今晚在敬拜中，從詩歌裡，神親自對我說：「主祢恩愛不會移動與更改，今只想得享祢大愛。我信靠祢從來不失信，我以祢喜樂做我力量，祢應許澆灌祢的恩愛在我心中．．．」

我會繼續為妳們禱告，願您們仍能緊靠主，願主的恩不斷的澆灌在您們心裡．．．

掛念您們！

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發表於 07-6-23 23:54 |只看該作者

Re: In him, everything is possible

venus

if u found out really miscarriage, will u do operation?

thanks all sisters for your prayers & comfort.
pls keep praying for me and my husband on what to do next.
i can accept. but of coz, agree with venus, try to find out for sure .

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