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大宅

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發表於 08-2-28 03:18 |只看該作者
Dear everyone,

Long time no chat!
I m busy with the part time job and taking care of two kids.
Sorry for the late greeting cards as they suppose to be Christmas cards!
Would love to have an updated contact list if I can.
My father-in-law's new wife came to live in NZ last Dec, my hubby had a hard time to accept it.
Therefore our family also had a hard time (daddy bad mood everyday)!!!
He is getting better now and hope he will be over it soon.
I m happy for my in-law as he has someone to be taken care of.
Well, at the end this is his own life (not children's).

After canceling the trip last year, losing most of the money, I hope to go back with Sophia later this year.
I really want to meet my baby niece & nephew (my sisters).
Grandparents havent seen Sophia so I want to take her with me (cant manage two kids on the plane).
Twingirls --- you are the best (3 girls on the plane)!!!
I also need to save money for the trip as c6 wont give me any money (no more overseas trip......)
I will work hard and hope to save enough money soon!!

Welcome and hello to all new mums!
I m from NZ and have two kids 3.5 boy and 15M little girl!
I work part time at home and full-time kids slave......
Chat more!!!


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1542#
發表於 08-2-28 07:59 |只看該作者
Jovababy,

Thanks for your photos, Vv is so cute and pretty~

[ 本文章最後由 twingirls 於 08-2-28 08:00 編輯 ]


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1543#
發表於 08-2-28 08:00 |只看該作者
原文章由 hoyinma 於 08-2-28 03:18 發表
Dear everyone,

Long time no chat!
I m busy with the part time job and taking care of two kids.
Sorry for the late greeting cards as they suppose to be Christmas cards!
Would love to have an updated c ...



No la, I am very worried that I can't manage................


男爵府

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1544#
發表於 08-2-29 00:14 |只看該作者
pyma,
why you have to say that?
we are all great moms here.. ^O^
cheers!!

Hoyinma.
Miss you sooooo much..
I don't think that I can go to Hong kong in the coming 2-3 years...
原文章由 pyma 於 08-2-27 03:33 AM 發表
nillie,
i saw the photos of Amanda & Gabriel la, 你好有心機, 令我有些慚愧。


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1545#
發表於 08-3-3 06:22 |只看該作者
Our topic go down to pages 3 la..............Where are you all??


大宅

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1546#
發表於 08-3-3 08:14 |只看該作者
Hi all,
I just wish to hear some advice from you guys. I am a full time mom with 2 kids, 5yrs old daughter and 8mths old son. I am in Canada and currently on maternity leave till beginning of April this year.

FYI, we got paid for our maternity leave and now I am struggle whether to go back to work so soon as I am breastfeeding my son right now. If I put him in daycare it means he has to go on formular. I am reluctant to do it as I want him to go on fresh milk when he is 1yr.

Secondly I will be working at home once I start, but now I am thinking whether I should hire someone to come to my house or put him in daycare. I assume the price will be similar, around $800-1000CAD. I prefer to put him in daycare as he can interact with other kids and more discipline. But the trouble is taking extra time to drop off/pick up and my job is quite time consuming. If I leave him at home, it can disturb me to concentrate to work, plus the one who work is not expert on child(I mean trained professional), but I can still breastfeed my son and I can save lots of time.

My plan is wait my son to turn one and place him in daycare as I think he will be more capable to adapt. FYI, I put my daughter to daycare when she was 14mths old and she has no problem at all. But for my son, he is very different as he can cry half an hour without stop for my milk and no one can stop him except the nipple in his month!!

My husband also agree to have 2months without paid and I know my boss will not have problem about it, but is it worth to wait 2 months? One daycare lady told me that it is not much different for 1 month less or more. I need just to let him go and he will be fine, so why I skip 2months without paid??

Hope to hear any advance.


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1547#
發表於 08-3-3 10:33 |只看該作者
原文章由 twingirls 於 08-3-3 06:22 發表
Our topic go down to pages 3 la..............Where are you all??


我咳左成個月都有喇,亞仔又感染左,中西E 都睇雲,攬到我無晒心機


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1548#
發表於 08-3-3 11:32 |只看該作者
winnie
call in sick la.. then 掉kick 兒去亞媽.. 你抖2曰喇... 咪點recover 呀??
原文章由 winnieyiu 於 08-3-2 09:33 PM 發表


我咳左成個月都有喇,亞仔又感染左,中西E 都睇雲,攬到我無晒心機


大宅

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1549#
發表於 08-3-3 11:34 |只看該作者
we are all here but just a bit slow sometime hehe...


原文章由 twingirls 於 08-3-3 06:22 發表
Our topic go down to pages 3 la..............Where are you all??


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1550#
發表於 08-3-3 12:48 |只看該作者
原文章由 Nillie_Mami 於 08-3-3 11:32 發表
winnie
call in sick la.. then 掉kick 兒去亞媽.. 你抖2曰喇... 咪點recover 呀??


Nillie

我試過喇,kick 兒係亞媽到成個week ,我都係吾好,今日E生比佐 Seretide Accuhaler我吸呀。真係吾知係香港天氣定污染問題,可能真係時侯要返Canada


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1551#
發表於 08-3-4 01:35 |只看該作者
Xother,
你ML有幾耐? 你係咪Breadmaker?
如果老公ok.. 而你ヌ想等仔仔1轉whole milk至去day care.. finance ok 就stay home 多2months..
我都係complete BF Gabriel 嘅.. 由我大肚巳請live in nanny, 陪月到之後我return to work (Gabriel 5 months old).. 我一直到宜家都係skin to skin +pump奶..
如果你work from home.. 請人返屋企湊好啲..
仔仔經貴啲呢..
原文章由 xother 於 08-3-2 07:14 PM 發表
Hi all,
I just wish to hear some advice from you guys. I am a full time mom with 2 kids, 5yrs old daughter and 8mths old son. I am in Canada and currently on maternity leave till beginning of April t ...


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1552#
發表於 08-3-4 01:57 |只看該作者
winnie,
衰鬼.. 可能真係反canada好啲都唔出奇
原文章由 winnieyiu 於 08-3-2 11:48 PM 發表


Nillie

我試過喇,放kick 兒係亞媽到成個week 喇,我都係吾好,今日E生比佐 Seretide Accuhaler我吸呀。真係吾知係香港天氣定污染問題,可能真係時侯要返Canada喇 ...


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1553#
發表於 08-3-4 04:54 |只看該作者
原文章由 winnieyiu 於 08-3-3 10:33 發表


我咳左成個月都有喇,亞仔又感染左,中西E 都睇雲,攬到我無晒心機



Oh dear..........I am also no mood, cos not happy from my C6...............

[ 本文章最後由 twingirls 於 08-3-4 04:56 編輯 ]


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1554#
發表於 08-3-4 04:58 |只看該作者
原文章由 Lorry 於 08-3-3 11:34 發表
we are all here but just a bit slow sometime hehe...



OIC~~


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1555#
發表於 08-3-4 06:02 |只看該作者
twingirls,
what's happen??
唔好唔開心喇...
原文章由 twingirls 於 08-3-3 03:54 PM 發表



Oh dear..........I am also no mood, cos not happy from my C6...............


大宅

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1556#
發表於 08-3-4 06:20 |只看該作者
Nillemami,
Yes, I am skin to skin breastfeed my son. I never use any pump and I dont know how to squeeze it out. Do you still have livein nanny and how much you pay?
I cannot afford to hire a livein nanny as I dont have spare room for her. Besides I heard they are only work 8hrs per day, 5days a week, so why I put someone in the house if the working schedule is not that long.
Personally I prefer to send kids to daycare as they can learn from others. I understand it is better to keep them at home when they were young, but I feel I will spoil him more as he takes advantage of me, ie, drink milk very often and fal in sleep while drinking milk.
My daughter was in daycare since 14months and she is very independent. I keep her with me since my son born and now it is 9months. She tends to depend on me by stay home and watch too much TV. Besides she is bugging me to go back to work few times because she wants to go to after school care to play with her friends. Personally I like kids grow up in daycare as kids can learn faster by peers. I dont like to protect my kids that much as they must learn how to survive in this world.


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1557#
發表於 08-3-4 10:11 |只看該作者
原文章由 Nillie_Mami 於 08-3-4 01:57 發表
winnie,
衰鬼.. 可能真係反canada好啲都唔出奇


Nillie

我月尾月去日本1 week,睇下返黎會吾會好d就知係 HK 問題定我問題。

Twinsgirl

咩野樹幹呀 ? ! 天下C6一樣衰。真係前世欠佐佢地嫁。吾好鬼彩佢,我次次嬲 C6都係當佢透明。


大宅

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1558#
發表於 08-3-4 15:31 |只看該作者
Dear all mums,
我近排在照顧女兒方面有些問題,所以沒時間上來和大家閒聊, 但現在希望大家教我可以點做。
我女而家29個月, 2歲開始上幼兒院,當時是插班生,所以初期老師都很照顧她,女兒在校很得寵。 一直到9月開學 (女兒由6月讀至8月中,放了一星期暑假), 她的行為開始回到初入學時那樣愛哭, 有行為倒退既表現, 老師說她吃醋, 9 月時要重新識應, 6月時那樣。 之後都間中吃醋, 因老師說她在校表現算乖, 所以老師通常會比較用時間照顧其他較活躍既學生身上, 而老師近來都發現, 當她們特別照顧那些活躍學生 (其中幾位), 我女會有異常反應, 如瀨尿 (她基本已介片好一段時間), 但這時,她一日在校可瀨4 , 後來老師告訴我們, 我女兒之所以會常瀨尿, 是因為她知道自己瀨尿後, 會有人理她, 所以她有如此表現。老師知道我女既想法後, 現在用了一些鼓勵和比較既方式去表揚我女既行為, 如某某同學坐得唔好,老師會說我女坐得好, 叫那同學效法等。

不過近來又有異常行為, 發脾氣時會咬人, 打人, 什至大叫大鬧, 她是破口大鬧一串我唔知她在鬧什麼, 說話時變得沒禮貌, 我們都不知道為什麼。 近兩晚她更全晚發惡夢, 我聽到她不停鬧人, 重複說著一些我們大人常叫她唔好做既事, 兩晚都是重複說著, 昨晚給她吃了中藥, 算大家有覺好訓。

我留意到女女這些行為 (發脾氣時會咬人, 打人, 什至大叫大鬧), 都是從那幾個活躍學生身上學回來, 我和 C6 唔知可以點算, 老師曾說我女有好多心事, 我都經常和女女傾談, 但她有時好抗拒, especially 當我告訴她的行為是不當時, 希望她下次唔要做時, 她有時會發脾氣, 有時會點頭說知, 但要她望住我說時, 她目光會刻意避開, 我唔知可以點做, 唔知大家可唔可以幫到我, 或是我要到親子溝通開新 topic ?

不過我都好想聽下大家意見先。 多謝大家借咁大個位我講, 幾晚無得訓, 真係好累。

謝謝各位媽咪聽我訢心聲, 見到個女咁, 我真係好心痛。

P.S. 另外, 早上和女女換衫上學, 她經常說要返新學校 (之前有蔕她去 interview, 但我們沒有告訴她要到新學校), 唔去現在學校, 有問她是否不喜歡現在學校, 她又說喜歡)


pyma


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1559#
發表於 08-3-4 15:54 |只看該作者
Pyma

我無經驗,真係吾知點講,不過我諗可能係過渡期。


慢慢黎,亞仔呢排都吾舒服,我都無覺好訓




原文章由 pyma 於 08-3-4 15:31 發表
Dear all mums,
我近排在照顧女兒方面有些問題,所以沒時間上來和大家閒聊, 但現在希望大家教我可以點做。
我女而家2歲9個月, 2歲開始上幼兒院,當時是插班生,所以初期老師都很照顧她,女兒在校很得寵。 一直到9月開學 ...


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1560#
發表於 08-3-4 20:37 |只看該作者
原文章由 winnieyiu 於 08-3-4 10:11 發表


Nillie

我月尾月去日本1 week,睇下返黎會吾會好d就知係 HK 問題定我問題。

Twinsgirl

咩野樹幹呀 ? 哎 ! 天下C6一樣衰。真係前世欠佐佢地嫁。吾好鬼彩佢,我次次嬲 C6都係當佢透明。 ...



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