How many weeks now? And it is good that you can share your problem with your friend. It is always good to talk to someone when you are under pressure. Take good care and relax more if you can. About your son, try to take it easy and don't worry too much about his hw, perhaps it is just a stage that they will grow out of it. I always remember my cousin here, she was really out of control between age 2-4, and so much better when she turned 6.